The pull behind RV trailer shouldn't sway and rock. Something going on there. And it's not such a big deal to get it set up. Even with a motorhome you would have to be certain that it's level.

I guess your husband just did not want to do any of it. Too bad. It is fun once you get it down pat. And it sounds like you did in earlier times.

Love him for what he is and not what he isn't

Please don't take the blame for this - MS slows us down, but it hasn't broken us yet. As others have said, maybe it is that your hubby is frightened to take it out - whether that is because of MS, or for other reasons, I have no idea.

I'm sorry to say this, but MS is a convenient reason for not doing things (I am embarrassed to say that I have been guilty of using it sometimes).

So, don't feel bad, this isn't your fault. It is something that with committment you may have accomplished.

Sorry that this hasn't worked out for you

Lyn xx

I hope that getting rid of the albatross frees both of you in your own ways. I do think there will be peace in the end once it is sold. Time and money for new dreams...

got a call from the dealer. The camper sold for our asking price. She wanted to haggle a bit, but in the end she took it at the asking price. Now to deal with the bank, and transfer of title.

Bitter sweet. Im happy, but im sad. DH is doing the happy dance.

I hope you made something on the deal, so you can take a nice Birthday weekend to a bed & breakfast.:)

We made nothing on the deal, as a matter of fact we lost money, and that is another bone of contention. Now we owe a commission to the dealer, and we got $400 shy of what we owe the bank for it. So, no matter how you slice it, it ended up being a lot of stress, and trouble from the get go. At least its no longer in my yard, and someone else is handling the financial details.

at least you didnt have to be the one to do the actual haggling with the buyer. That's the kind of stress I dont like to deal with. (my dad always sends me to do the haggling for stuff anymore, and I'm starting to see why he makes me do it...stressful!)

I don't know much about taxes but is there a way that a loss like that can be taken off your taxes?

we can take the loss if its larger than $500 so we just missed it. Either way, its all done, over with and we can move on to the new projects and stop arguing about this one. This one has been a real bone of contention around here. I feel cheated out of my retirement dream and he is unapologetic and stands on the "you are too sick to do this" story.