ok so I made an appt at the old office with the new neuro that came because all my records and test are there to see what he is going to say. I am doing this because we are thinking about moving back to atlanta ga and I will have to go through this all over again next yr so I will just stay there for now on. at least that office know who I am and really think something is wrong with me. plus they have seen most of the symptoms.

QUOTE: "Oh and I just remembered I don't have another appt with him until NOV oh and he told me to go back to my old neuro"

Hello Shadiyah,

It really does sound like he does not want you as a patient. It might be best to take his advice and go back to your old neuro or find another one. Your test results and symptoms should not be ignored but rather should be taken very seriously...and hopefully with some genuine concern and compassion.

Sometimes these super specialized neuros are into research and they are picking and choosing their patients so that they can put them into their research program (drugs). They really get ticked if you don't take the meds that they recommend. I had that experience once. He seemed like a really nice and caring person, and had all the time in the world during the first visit. On the second visit he had some results (similar to yours), and said that he wanted me on a particular medication protocol that included steroids. When I said that I couldn't take that due to enteritis and liver compromise, he said pretty much the same thing that yours did. "Well, then I suggest that you deal with your family physician to control symptoms as there is nothing that I can do for you."

Most importantly don't give up. There are still compassionate, genuine and knowledgeable neuros out there. Keep looking and never doubt yourself or that your symptoms are very real. It does seem that we sometimes need to prove to physicians and others that there are impairments. That is just the way that it is because many of our symptoms do no show. Hang in there and look after yourself as best you can. Cut back on that chocolate, OK?

With love, Erika

thank you all for all the love. I will keep you posted. :grouphug:

I saw 3 neuros before getting dxd. The first one said I had migraines (uh, no). The second one said it was my fibromyalgia. The 3rd one said, "Maybe...let's watch you." A year later, legs locked, and he said, "Ok, probable. Let's get you on meds."
My current neuro says my case is "benign". Uh huh-sure. Whatever. I'm on meds, even though he told me initially the lesions "aren't in the usual place" for MS.
But they are now...

just keep plugging on, keep a symptom journal, eat right (try some dark chocolate-it's an acquired taste but still kills the chocolate cravings-and the caffeine and sugar in chocolate could cause tremors...).
Like said above, you have to move your body if you have MS...try getting active in small ways. It's good for the parts of your brain that still work too!!

to me the two most telling things are that 1) he wouldn't let you explain/talk about what was going on with you & your symptoms and 2) told you to go back to your old MD

I would not see him again - ever. I have come to learn over the years (a few docs have even admitted it to me in a rare moment of honesty) that some doctors choose which patients are convenient/fit thier interests/study/research and some doctors are actually interested in the person and not just "the chart". I have also learned that if it doesn't feel right then it is up to me to make the decision, as we are in charge of our health care decisions - doctors are merely educated guessers. They go to school, learn a lot and use that knowledge base to make educated guesses. I know how I feel, what I am comfortable with and what I want.

Funny how somebody diagnoses as having terminal cancer is allowed to be "in charge" of their healthcare decisions with no pushback or pressure. Yet others with a medically 'challenging' disease/disorder are used as guinea pigs and are seen as difficult or non-compliant for not blindly agreeing with everything the MD says.

If this neuro doesn't feel right then you need to decide to if you want him in your corner. If not, go to the doctor that listens to you, the person, and who tries to hlp you feel better in the areas that matter most to you.

{stepping off my soap box now}:Soapbox:

Erika is on to something when she says that a neuro might want to pick and choose his patients so that they fit his research parameters. This is true of some of the top specialists in another disease I have, porphyria. They need a homogenous body of patients for their research, but not everyone fits that homogenous body.
I am disgusted with the neuros I had for MS. perhaps 50% said I had MS. Other said I did not have MS. What did that tell you, anything? To me it says that some patients are not easily diagnosed. And some won't bother with those who are not.
I will say I consider Dr. Swank an exception (he's gone on to his reward, however, so can't go to him, Shadiyah). The neuros who thought I DID have MS were the ones who were excited about their work and excited in the diagnostic chase, and interested in people who presented a little differently, or who had a complex situation involving more than one disease. God bless them!

This doctor I seen was top notch and I think it is true that he didn't want me. he looked at my test and blood work and didn't let me talk to explain what I was going through these last 10 months. he asked me questions to answer but he didn't let me go through my list of symptoms I had written down and I had videos of my tremors and twitches because I am in a little remission from them and other things are going on. he told me to go back to my old neuro. I was expecting him to say tell me what's been going on and to set me up for his own test. my old neuro after all the test we went through sat me down once she got the LP and said I never though we would be having this conversation but it's looks like it is MS. she set me up for the steriod infusion and I went into the hospital and got that done but my BP went up so high it scared the scrap out of her and she said I need to rethink this I think something else is going on because your BP shouldn't have gone up that high. but you all had already told me this could happen but she just would not believe it was the steroids.

that is when my primary said he wanted me to go to the top notch specialist. oh he told me to walk for him and when he told me to put one foot in front of each other I tell you I was falling all the way and he never moved to help me. my old neuro would hold my hand so I would not fall.

Well, I would react that badly (or worse) to steroids, except for cortisone. I can take cortisone shots, and particularly like Kenalog.

If something else is going on, as they say, they should look at some rarer things which can cause your MRI effects. Furthermore, you could have MS plus some other thing which caused the BP to soar more than the doctor expected.