one positive aspect is that you now have a large group of great new friends!

I would second the earlier comment to keep this prettyquiet at work for now, as it is not always understood and can cause ramifications with employment & obtaining (new) insurance policies {such as life ins/long term care ins etc}

A good resource is the National Multiple Sclerosis Society and the Multiple Sclerosis Foundation, etc IMO. *and of course here for the support factor!

Being in the limbo stage stinks! I hope you get the answers you need and want.