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Originally Posted by msbluis View Post
Erin,

The heat is your enemy. And the temp doesn't have to be in the 90's or 100's, either. MS problems like weakness and loss of bladder control can be made worse by even a two degree rise in your body temp. No fun.

On which leg do you wear your AFO? If it's an AFO like I had that looks like a ski boot, you should not be driving - for your own, your parents' and the other drivers on the road's safety. You admit you are having knee problems you attribute to the AFO. If it's your right leg, that tells us you WILL have problems driving ... and are unsafe to continue it.

Do you think if you were required to pass a physical driving test making sudden, tight turns (YIKES! There's a large tree limb in your path) or abrupt stops (OH No! A 5-year-old ran into the street after his ball) or parallel parking (because the "straight-in" parking and handicap parking was full) or having to back in reverse around an obstacle, (CR*P! A big delivery truck has broken down blocking your path), that you could do it quickly, safely and easily?

Your parents are wrong to pressure you into driving them. Do you think they under-estimate your disabilities? Maybe it's time you have an honest, humble, non-confrontational talk with them (again?) as to how you don't ...no...can't drive them. It's common sense; you can't be responsible for their getting hurt, or worse yet, killed by driving when your leg isn't functioning
The words above require repeating.

I simply HATE that you drive. You are what I consider a menace on the road. I wish there was a kind and polite way to tell you to stop. I am appalled that a woman of your intelligence would get behind the wheel of a car.

It is not even the potential damage you may do to your car, yourself or your parents. It is the potential damage and death you can cause to anyone or anything else in your path.

I cannot believe you and/or your parents think your needs are above property of someone else or the killing of an innocent in your way. Even at a slow rate of driving, you are a killing machine. It is criminal behavior. You okay with killing someone so that you can drive?

I voluntarily gave up driving when I was faced with the same challenges you are encountering. There for the grace of god go I.

Call your motor vehicle department and learn about the curb to curb service offered in your area. Taxis are more expensive but at least you do not run the risk of KILLING.

What needs to happen before you stop? What accident has to happen?

I do not ask this last question lightly. I really want to know what damage has to be done before you stop.
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