I'm sorry you are having such a rough time. It's so frustrating when we feel the doctors aren't listening and don't have that validation. I think we all have been there to varying degrees.

Have you discussed any of this with your primary care doctor? They may be able to help get the ball rolling quicker and in the right and/or different direction. Unfortunately, there are a number of diseases that mimic MS. Your PCP may be able to come at it from a different angle, maybe testing for other autoimmune diseases and even going to a rheumatologist.

It's really hard to be struggling and have no definite answers to anything. Hang in there and let us know how you are doing.