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tovaxin_lab_rat 11-20-2007 11:41 PM

Yeah, what they said. And Greta has Yodda to back her up...don't mess with Yodda. ;)

SallyC 11-21-2007 12:15 AM

I have a feeling, tomorrow is going to be better for all of us.....If not, I will be pi$$ed again.

Quit telling yourself this is your last trip, Cindy. Maybe it's not. I still believe in miracles.:rolleyes:

:hug:

lady_express_44 11-21-2007 02:14 AM

I'm sorry to hear you are struggling right now, Cindy.

I have gone through many trials and tribulations in my life. Sometimes the difficulties lasted only a few days a month, others for several weeks, and there were times that even lasted a few years.

In fact, it seems the more often I experience hard times and disappointment, the easier it seems to get through it the next time. Then again, maybe that's only because I've always gone for counselling when it dragged out too long. :cool:

I always try to tell myself "this is only a moment in time" and "there's a reason ...". Keeping that faith has helped get me through some pretty difficult periods too.

"What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger".

You are just getting stronger, that's all. :)

Cherie

Jappy 11-21-2007 09:57 AM

Hey Cindy, Let's take off to some exotic Isand where they will wait on us hand and foot. A full body massage whenever our bodies call for it. Just dream that we are 100 % again in mind and body. DREAM DREAM I understand how you are feeling. This past week my body has just been on the downward plunge. I have just been crying about everything and nothing and have no desire to get ready for the holiday. The body pains and things I can't do just makes me want to disappear. I actually have even been pushing the puppy aside and not want to do anything with her. I know I have to snap out of it. The loneliness without the love of my life is really getting to me this time. They say time heals well I don't know what it heals because it seems to be getting worse then better. I am just going to have to get my faith back strong again and get on with life with whatever it has for me. As they say (I AM WOMEN AND I AM STRONG) Keep in there Cindy we will make it. HAPPY THANKSGIVING EVERYONE Joyce: :grouphug:

SallyC 11-21-2007 10:57 AM

I hear you Joyce on missing your soul-mate....Me Too. If it weren't for Paxil, I probably wouldn't have made it through the last few years. This time of year always brings it all back. It was the day after Christmas that he took himself to the hospital, never to return home.:(

Maybe you could use a little AD help. Ask your Doc about it.:hug:

SallyC 11-21-2007 11:05 AM

OK, so, Cindylouwho, how is it today?

I kinda forced myself to have a better 'tude today, upon awakening. It almost worked...LOL!:p I think I need some sunshine. It's been rainy and yucky here this past week. I haven't seen the sun in weeks.:mad:

I'm a little less p***ed and a dash more resigned, but not exactly happy as a lark, yet.

Have a nice day with your Dad and Brother, tomorrow. Eat and Drink and be Merry, dammit..:D

postmaster1992 11-21-2007 11:49 AM

feelings......
 
Hi guys.....
I NEED you guys and I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels like this. :o
I also have felt like that in the past for one reason or fifty others. I wish I could be there with you to act my goofy self and at least make you smile.:D
I'm VERY good at acting like a goof!!
You are new friends who are necessary. You know???
I said this someplace on here, years ago a Rural Carrier once said to me on a day after a holiday and the mail was armpit deep,,,
***Another day....another way***.....
Clarification: On Mondays & after holidays,,,we take out the periodicals and first class mail, but we have 2 days to get the bulk business mail (commonly known as "junk mail") cleaned up and delivered.
This is what I say to myself when things are deep deep in the pits.
Believe me, this saying, weird as it is, has gotten me through many, many days, weeks, etc.... And still does.
However, feel free to rant and rave, throw things, or give the tv or wall or other people the rasberrys.
I will read, and then try to give comfort or make you smile or outright laugh.
:grouphug: Geri

AfterMyNap 11-21-2007 12:05 PM

Just another day here, too. It's cold, rainy and trying to snow. We're expecting 1-3 inches by midnight.:mad: The ground isn't frozen so it will melt off, I'm sure.

I don't think I have such a bad attitude, I'm just sick of things. Oh, Sal, about the trip thing, I have decided that it's just not worth the effort and money anymore. I will still go to see friends and such within a few hours of home, but national exploration is officially closed for business. That little jaunt was very difficult at times and I now choose not to put the effort into it.

I have to go to a movie today, it's important to me to contribute to the opening day ticket sales, my niece is one of the background vocalists and the more it makes, the more she makes. I'm excited for her.

Hey, Geri, you're actually willing to risk getting bloodied and bruised by coming within our reach? Wow, such commitment! ;)

As a postal person, you may appreciate this (or hate it); I save all business reply envelopes from junk mail and my neighbor kids put messages in them and mail them out. If they can afford to waste their money making me haul more crap to the curb, they can afford to amuse us by sponsoring our effort to make a few lackeys laugh.

postmaster1992 11-21-2007 03:01 PM

Hi, hope you are feeling better...
I suspect quite a few people return those bus. reply enve. empty or with something in them. I have no idea what those companies think about that, but so far....WE HAVEN't GOTTEN A MEMO ON IT!! EVerything else it seems. :rolleyes:
Take care.
Hi Beth if you are on here!1:)

tovaxin_lab_rat 11-21-2007 05:06 PM

I don't know what thread it was in, but I want to thank Nappy for posting about it.

I had to go do some last minute errands before we head off for the mountains in the morning and I found a percussion massager. Nappy mentioned it in a post a while back and I have been having so much trouble with my feet cramping at night that I bought it. It's my gift to me! And oh boy! Do I need it!

I had a massage this morning and my massage therapist couldn't believe how knotted up my calves and hamstrings are. Gee, I could have told her that!

Anyway, I just wanted to thank Nappy for that...:Thanx:


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