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SandyC 03-14-2008 10:25 AM

Brenda, I know all too well how you feel. Jim and I cringe each time we hear Chris fall in the tub or complain about his knees. We know it's probably just damage, we pray that's all it is. However, this is the child who always fatigued easily, had the "growing pains" in his legs, now has trouble walking with his knees. His MRI was yesterday.

He knows the possibility is there about ms, we've always been open. I believe knowledge is very important. He said something to me the other day that mimicked his father 20 years ago. He said "Well, if I have something wrong like ms, I am going to play sports and do what I can for as long as I can." It took all I could to hold back the tears. It reminded me of the day back in June of 1988 when Jim came out and told me he had ms. He said those very words. The only difference was Jim had the dx. :(

I too say a silent prayer even though that annoying little voice inside fights my better judgement. I will say a prayer for your son as well. :grouphug:

Girlie Girl 03-14-2008 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by sassy (Post 236630)
I'd just soon be alone in this, I hate to see you other guys having the same worries. Our children will always be our babies no matter what.

My sister brought up another thought too. Diabetes type 2 runs in our family and he has been losing weight lately. She's bringing her glycometer over later and we'll check that out when he's over again. I'm thinking no on that but never know. He has been to the doctors quite a bit lately so you would think that has been checked there or in the hospital when he was there last month.

My prayers go out for the other parents here with worries about their children.

Sassy, HereKitty and Sandy,

I am hoping and praying that your children do not have to go through what we do. I agree with you Sassy that I would rather be alone in this than have my child or loved one be affected by this as well.

It is always in the back of my mind for my 11yo son. I have been having a rough week with sx and he has been complaining of his leg hurting. I know it is just growing pains but the thought is there....what if??

Take care all of you and take care of your babies...no matter how old they are, they will always be our babies.

tante 03-14-2008 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by snoodles (Post 236576)
He is now almost 30 and gets around like a much older man in spite of the fact that he is a good weight and fit. He hurts all over, all the time and you can tell he just doesn't feel well. He talks to me about how bad he feels and he does follow up with doctors but he continues to ache more every year. .


Snoodles, I am so sorry, I somehow missed this earlier and replied only re: Sassy's and herekitty's children. How rude and uncaring that must have seemed.

My apologies, and for you and everyone else who is watching and worrying, my thoughts are with you.

:hug:

Kitty 03-14-2008 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by snoodles (Post 236576)
I know this feeling well.
My daughter has always been lively and full of energy and the picture of health.

My son, has always been less blessed but still generally healthy - he had asthma and horrible allergies as a child and was sick a lot but the normal childhood things.

He is now almost 30 and gets around like a much older man in spite of the fact that he is a good weight and fit. He hurts all over, all the time and you can tell he just doesn't feel well. He talks to me about how bad he feels and he does follow up with doctors but he continues to ache more every year. Like Blessings - I want him to stay on top of things but don't want to scare him either. He just seems to be me all over again in terms of how his health is progressing though.... I just wish I could take all his aches and pains for him - fortunately - he has not, so far, mentioned any numbness anywhere.

It's so hard when our kids are sick or hurting. We just want to take it all ourselves so they can be spared. I'm praying for all of our kids. At least they have good Moms (us!!) who care and would do anything in the world for them.

Girlie Girl 03-14-2008 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by tante (Post 236784)

Snoodles, I am so sorry, I somehow missed this earlier and replied only re: Sassy's and herekitty's children. How rude and uncaring that must have seemed.

My apologies, and for you and everyone else who is watching and worrying, my thoughts are with you.

:hug:

Snoodles, me too!!!! I apologize for not sending my thoughts out to you as well!!!! Oops!!!:icon_redface:

SallyC 03-14-2008 01:14 PM

My DD was DX at 33 with MS and it broke her Father's and My heart..:( She had another attack at 34 and the Neuro wanted her on one of the DMDs.

She refused and went on 4.5mg LDN, like her Mommy and hasn't had any signs of MS since. She is now 37 and still in remission, due to LDN, I believe.

Get your Kids some LDN, as a Precaution, if nothing else. At this early date, it may stop the disease????

My heart goes out to you All..:hug:

eduzit 03-14-2008 09:47 PM

I'm with all of you on this I have to kids and when they mention anything like tingling or numbness I start to get really anxious. I pray that they never have to go through this. :grouphug:

ewizabeth 03-15-2008 11:48 AM

Oh I'm sorry so many of you are going through this. :( We have two sons in their 20's and I hope and pray they never get MS. I'm also very watchful of their health and I feel panicked if they stumble going up the stairs or fumble their words or something.

They're both sleepers, needing lots of it, and I worry about the tiniest things that could possibly be MS.

I'll keep all of our children in our prayers. :grouphug:

Chris 03-15-2008 12:36 PM

To all of you who are suffering through the "ifs and maybes" of this bloody disease, my :Heart: goes out to you. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Victorya 03-15-2008 01:31 PM

I know what you're all feeling. And my heart goes out to you.

But don't panic until you need to.

A few years back, my son (he was 23-24 years old at the time) called me and said he went to the doctor because his hand was numb. So numb in fact, he was having problems using his hand, picking things up, typing. The doctor was sending him to a neurologist. How long had it been numb?? Uhm, about two months, he said. TWO MONTHS??!!!

I got off the phone, and turned to my husband. I started to cry. Jon's hand and forearm have been numb for two months. He's being referred to a neuro! HE HAS MS!!!

IT'S MY FAULT!!! I gave my baby MS!!

Jump ahead a couple of months. It turned out he had a lipoma (fatty tumor) that was growing on a nerve in his forearm (they are common in our family) which was causing his arm and hand to go go numb.

In a 40 minute outpatient surgery, the lipoma was removed and after sufficient healing time he was as good as new. The numbness was gone and he had complete use of his hand.

Now, I don't mean to belittle your son's symptoms or to tell you that you don't have any right to worry...you are MOMs, of course you have every right to worry...but don't worry about MS until you know it's MS.

There are many things it COULD be. Many so much better than MS...and some much worse. But because we HAVE MS, and we dont really know about all of the other things...the first things we think of IS MS.

Warm wishes to every one out there with a child (no matter how old) having any kind of health problems.


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