Connie,

I am sorry to hear about your Dad's passing - but grateful that you and your family were able to spend so much time together filled with love for each other over these last few months.

Now, it is time for you to shift your focus to yourself to make sure you get through these next stressful weeks.

Take special care of yourself, Connie.
Sue

Connie,

So sorry you lost your dad. You and your family are in my thoughts.


Ally

Connie, I'm so sorry your Dad passed away. I didn't realize it until someone else told me. I hope you and your family can take comfort in how full of love every day was with your Dad. I know how hard the loss of a Dad is; 13 years later and I still have difficult days. Know I'm thinking of you.


Annie

Thanks Rach, Kate, Pat, Sue, Ally and Annie.

Finally all the wake stuffs have been settled. I'm taking comfort too that I was able to spend his last moments with him. Though it all happened so quickly that I really wish there was more time. Thats the greedy side of me. =) I'm glad mum's doing okay too. I guess all of us take comfort in knowing that he's in a better place now, and does not need to suffer anymore. Best of all, he can eat whatever he wants to now. I do hope there are buffets up in heaven. Lol...

As for me, its been a pretty rough week. Right after the wake ended on Friday, I started feeling sick. Experienced extremely giddy spells, and was feeling nauseous, and started vomitting on Saturday night. Could see my dinner in the vomit. Lol... Finally went to see a doc on monday and got some meds. So literally slept the whole week away, am feeling much better now. I now realize that when i over exhaust myself, my limbs start trembling, its like they have no more strength and can only tremble once I try to lift them. Looks real ugly when they do so. =/ On the other hand, my GP gave me a very good suggestion, which was for my neuro to write my condition down on a piece of paper so that I could bring it to my GP or docs I see when I have other symptoms like the giddiness. Shall ask my neuro to do so when I see him this week or next.

Meanwhile, thanks for everyone's concern and prayers. am so sorry I havent been checkin in a lot, the meds make me too drowsy I literally wake up to eat then sleep again.