Hi, I'm Donna and I wanted to read this thread because I work as a advocate for both ab parents a disabled parents. But I found lots of you very inspiring. I wanted to tell Kelly that her daughter will always want
to do things for her.

THe reason is that she knows that she is appreciated, loved and that you
need her.

And Pamster, your son even though he is autistic, will always love you,
and want to please you. It shows in your writing about him. There will
come a day that he will want to b e a lot like Kelly's daughter.

And I am impressed by the other parents and kids too, just don't remember
their names. But you are setting good examples.

I have three boys with varying degrees of disabilities and I have to say
that in the last few years when I've had varying degrees of disabilities for
various times. When I've had dislocated bones, and concussions or post concussion syndromes, they have been there. My youngest has seizures
and he is always trying to learn the things to make my live even more
easier.

I am so glad that he is part of my life.

Donna