It's been a difficult few days that's for sure. But I have spoken with the judge, as well as her psychiatrist, and she will be staying in detention for 2 weeks right now. The psychiatrist is going to search for another facility that we can get her into that will be more affordable than the ones I have used in the past. We feel that she needs long term, even more so than she has had in the past. I make too much money, even as a single mom w/no child support, to get assistance! Frustrating really!! I wish there were programs for these kids to get them the help they need, without making families totally broke. I have already exhausted all my funds and have even borrowed money from family members to get help! Ugh!!

I'm so sorry LillyCat. I don't really have much to add to Mari's suggestions. Mostly wanted to say hello, and that I feel for you. It does sound like you are doing what can be done. It must indeed be incredibly frustrating, and painful.

I hope you can find a place that is good and yet as you say affordable. Goodness knows medical facilities are almost as bad as lawyers as far as reducing a bank account to smithereens. Are you sure there is no way to demonstrate a need for aid, despite your income, based on your situation and needs - i.e. the extenuating costs you face? Perhaps NAMI would know of some route for financial support.

'Sending best wishes for your daughter's recovery and to you as well. Take care.

~ waves ~

Hi,

Social workers might be able to connect you to some facilities /support in your area. See if you can get an appointment with a social worker from the place where she is detained.

M

I would also suggest that you contact the state agency that
helps with families of special needs children. You would qualify
as one.

Also look into whether your state has a chapter of:

Federation of families for children with mental health.

And the Nami chapter or state organization, will also have some ideas of
locations that can help with care for her.

Also there is state funding for mental health lots of time, so check and see
if you can get some help with this. Even with a higher income. And many
states have funding for special needs children.

Donna

Hi everyone! Thank you for all your help! I have sent several e-mails to NAMI, but still waiting for a response. My questions is - how do you find state funding for mental health? Where do you go and who do you contact? Do I just go to the Health Department or is there a specific place I need to contact? Since I am sure that every state is different, how can I locate what I need to do in Texas? Any suggestions? I have two bipolar kids, so that would definitely be helpful! Luckily, my son was easily stabalized and does not have any current issues.

My daughter is doing well, although she is still in the detention center. Believe it or not but I feel like this has been a huge wake up call for her. I have been struggling with her behavior for such a long time. We are still working with the psychiatrist and making medication adjustments.

Will keep you posted! And thanks again for everyones help!

Hi,
The Health Department should have answers for you.
Check with social workers at the schools your children attend. Also check with social workers at the detention center.

Mari

Also you can call the Department of Family and CHildren. They should
know how to get ahold of this information also.

They would for sure know of the agency to find this information.

Donna

[Mari, you have great advice and I am learning just through your reply's. Thank you for helping. My teen was just diagnosed Bipolar and I had no idea where to turn or what to do. This site was an "accidental" find yesterday and the blessings of knowledge and support are lifesaving. prayers and love to you