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10-09-2014, 05:27 PM | #1 | ||
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One part think of her age, and find the discipline that works for the age.
Also each child is different. And needs disciplined different. I would consider taking the privilege of being out later, if that is what she has broke the rule. Just remember even though she has problems, she is close to an adult. Also maybe get an family membership at an gym. Go together, or let the kids go. Donna |
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10-09-2014, 09:24 PM | #2 | |||
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This is a very good link.
Ten Things You Can Do to Help a Loved One with Bipolar Disorder http://www.dummies.com/how-to/conten...eat-sheet.html Here is a free download of the book Bipolar Disorder for Dummies: >> http://www.ebook3000.com/Bipolar-Dis...ies_20705.html Here is the book http://www.ebook3000.com/Bipolar-Dis...ies_20705.html This is regarding mania: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W7S-qFNzOhM 5 Types of Bipolar Disorder (Mental Health Guru) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyJn_3LkE8w I used to have mixed episodes -- they were horrible -- I have no idea how I am still alive. ++++++ This is absolutely fabulously helpful. What Medication for Bipolar Disorder Does and Doesn't Do https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uO3U8oX145A M |
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10-09-2014, 10:06 PM | #3 | ||
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Thank you Mari! The links are a wonderful source and I'll definitely look into all of them. She turns 18 in February. My husband and I have already had the "you live in our house, you follow our rules" talk with her and she agrees. As far as birth control, she is on the pill and since I have control of all of her meds, I know she takes it every day at the same time. And, we've had a lot of discussions about safety and she carries condoms in her purse. I have seen her buy more (she left a receipt in a bag that I was going to recycle) so I'm fairly certain she uses them. The sexual stuff seems to be part of her manic side - her sisters tend to tell me what she's done. She hasn't had intercourse in over a year since she and her long-time boyfriend broke it off. She's pretty open with me about sex and I try to tell her that she doesn't have to do anything for a boy just because she did stuff with her boyfriend, but she doesn't get it. Her psychiatrist ordered some blood work today to see if there are any thyroid issues....
And, your point about punishing her is a good one. It's probably the point that makes me feel like such a terrible mother when I do yell at her or take away her tablet. She doesn't do anything terrible. It's just little things like eating in her room, not taking out the garbage, not doing any dishes, and talking back. Typical teenage stuff that she is capable of doing. |
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10-10-2014, 06:00 PM | #4 | |||
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Hi, Confusedmom,
I recognize that you are concerned about your daughter's behavior. Be mindful that she has two serious diagnoses and a traumatic event in her history. Help her get healthy. Ask her what she needs from you so that she can help herself. For example, maybe eating in her room is good for her. Mari |
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04-08-2020, 06:21 PM | #5 | ||
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Hi confusedmom,
We went through the same thing a few years ago with our daughter. She was 18 so there was only so much we could do. She had all the classic symptoms your daughter had. Reaching out like you are on this forum is so important. We did the same thing and were surprised how open and willing other families are to share and offer help. It sure helped us, we thought we had lost her and she is now 21 and doing better on meds, help, etc. Two things we did you may want to try. 1- she joined on online support forum like this herself, to connect with other teenagers that really helped her understand what she is going through, and it's going to be ok with meds and therapy. Because the reality is many people going through this are just as scared and confused as we are as parents are....they don't know why they are feeling this way.....and 2- check out a great book called "An Unquiet Mind", by a clinical psychologist who went through hell and back and is now a therapist herself. I highly recommend it! Best wishes for you and your family. |
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10-09-2014, 09:49 PM | #6 | ||
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10-09-2014, 10:11 PM | #7 | ||
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Oh, and when I said in my original post that she seems to be experimenting sexually and I don't know how to approach her about it.... The "approach" was really about everything that I don't approve of. She tells me frankly that if she was out with a guy, they had oral or they just "messed around". I guess what I really mean is how do I get her to stop that? Does that make more sense?
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10-09-2014, 10:36 PM | #8 | ||
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Yes it does Confusedmom.
I think one of the things you can do is get her the pamplets, and information about why she needs to be careful with her body. When it comes to the gym, what there does she like. I would work on her just accompanying you. Even sitting while you do aerobics in water. Donna |
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