[dragonfly33]

Hello - Please excuse me if I do not use proper terminology. I know so little about this disease.

October 2009 - My dad had a heart attack, then tripled bypass at which time I found out he has COPD. (I am unsure of when he was diagnosed)

My family noticed he was having some tremors in one hand with some head shaking or jerking and after 2 years with much convincing, he saw a neurologist who ruled out a stroke/TIA's and he was diagnosed with Parkinson's in December of 2009. The neuro put him on a vitamin regimen because he said the meds used to treat Parkinson's have very bad side effects and he was not at a stage that warranted medication - yet. It seemed to keep symptoms at bay for almost 3 years.

He just went for his annual check up 4 months ago and the doctor said he would fail a field sobriety test but he claims the doctor said it is okay to drive.

We are noticing other things but when we ask him, he says he's fine; he cannot stand without supporting himself on a chair, shopping cart counter, etc. The tremors are worse now. He also appears to have intermittent eating or swallowing difficulty, to the extent that it makes him throw up.

He refuses to go to the doctor but I'm extremely concerned for him. He is home alone during the day because my mom works. We just don't know what to do at this point, he refuses to discuss any of it much less learn about the disease.

Any insight, advice, or education is greatly appreciated. Thank you.