I do not want the closed thread brought up here again please.

What I would like tho, is to try to work out our own problems before reporting it to the mods or John.

Here's my tired old example that I've repeated so many times. If we were all sitting around a table, we could work so many misunderstandings out and I think that could happen here too...no I know it can We've done it many times.

An argument can end up in a good place. At first it's emotion, but eventually it gets clearer what the other is saying.

So not speaking to anyone in particular, I'm just suggesting that sometimes steam needs to be released, feeliings need to be validated, - we are adults, and the closing of this thread is our own fault for reporting it like pressing a hidden button alarm at a bank robbery. The argument is cut off mid-emotion, no solution, and will happen again. We didn't have time to edit anything. And it ends with us all looking out of control ad hominem which I had to look up in the dictionary...lol


two cents,
Paula