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Old 07-13-2008, 01:44 PM #11
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Question Perhaps - The Husband Wrote It?

or - possibly he did the typing...?

and if he did I would like him to go get counselling and learn of the burden Mary has to bare, along w/ his huge all consuming ego...
dear mary's hubby-/ or Mary...
your husband reminds me / of the husband who divorced me -
and if that is the case, run dont walk to the best attorney you can find...
the is only my opinion and I could be completely wrong -
but I have seen this pattern carried out to many times...
that is why PD patients are left - by both ex- husbands and ex-wives...
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maryfrancis, there are 5 steps to grieving. One of them is blame and guilt. This is the natural process of healing. Looks like you are in process. This is the time to make yourself first (as much as you can)and find out what you need to help you get past this; maybe just time. When I went through this I ran to the library and got every self help book that I could find. It helped me put things into perspective. Thanks for sharing what some of us have gone through or will go through in the future. My heart goes out to you and keep reaching out OK.
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What is now disturbing to me about this message is that MaryFrancis has responded in the past 5 days....that seems a little ominous to me.
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Can anyone who knows maryfrancis check to see how she is doing, Charlie or...............
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though a mutual friend. She has not responded to the mutal friend. I don't want to make her life with her hubby even more fractuous, so I won't contact her directly.
Lets all say a prayer for her.
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Charlie I thought her husband is no longer in the picture or at least out of the home. I hope someone will be able to make contact is my prayer.
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Default i don't know what her situation is BOnnie.......

my suspicion is that her hubby is pulling the strings though.
It is ashame , because she is a delightful person. I am guessing that he is controlling her Internet access and her cell usage.
To her hubby I would say, "you have a great wife! Don't blow it with your petty jealousies. MAry needs your love and support. She can't get through this by herself. give her the support and understanding she deserves. You can have many happy years ahead of you.
Realize that many of her erratic behaviors are caused by the drugs she has to take. Many of the side-effects can be overcome. Go with her to her Neurologist appts, ask questions, learn how to be supportiive of her!"


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Default I'm okay

I'm okay everyone. Really. Please
don't worry about me. I am so sorry!

Thank you so much for your grace and understanding.
I wish everyone was as gracious as you
great people on neuro talk whom I
consider my good friends.

I love each and everyone of you!! You are just what
I needed in this crazy, confusing, trying, depressing
and difficult time.

Thank you for not condemning and judging me, and
disowning me as a friend.

I love you all!!!

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