I've yet to meet what's called a 'normal' family.. Honestly that'd probably be very DULL.
By 'get back' Maybe you could tell us where 'back here' IS and those here from that area could PM you with the good/bad/indifferent/crazy/super docs they've encountered? I mean, on this board it's OUT THERE and can hurt the boards, but PM or e-mails could help you find a neuro etc who you mite well, get along with for the diagnostics and after stuff. Just a thot. I probably can safely say that each of us has probably seen at least 3 neuros before whatever diagnoses? and then many here are still in search for the 'right' one.
Sometimes it's luck, others chemistry, other times its purely a quirk of fate. I know I got lucky early on....I have learned from others here how lucky I have really been! But, along the way....I've seen some real well - 'characters'! for want of a better way of description.

Play it by 'ear' You will really know if things get truly worrisome! All the brain's red-alert bells and whistles go off! Trick to keep CALM is the hardest thing to do! But must be done.... Keep us informed - j

Get back would be Los Angeles, California...