Troubling times for me.
 

I am living in a HUD house run by a county and I'm being mistreated by one of the new people who moved in about four months ago. He is going on fussing rants of rage with me and it's injuring me deeply. I am hurting. How can that be happening here? I can't seem to do anything about it. I have talked to the leadership about it and they are doing nothing. I talked to my nurse practitioner, counselor, and doctor about it recently. Now someone else has moved in and complicated the situation. Please pray for me. Brokenfriend :hug::hug::hug:

That is awful friend!
I would keep complaining about it to the supervisor or head counselor. He is a bully.
and explain that to them. Then perhaps you will see some difference.
I am so sorry that you are being mistreated. You are a good man.

Damn bully.


have missed you!
(((((HUGS))))))
bizi

Seems like the Dr or counselor should have some helpful suggestions..
Verbal abuse and bullying is something they should help with or tell you who to contact .
County officials, police.. social services??
Report it to the housing department?

If you get no action from local/ county, move up to your state housing dept or state social services department .
Most states and counties have dept contact listings on their websites.

Friend here is a support system for you to call 1-888-692-9355,


Bobby (my morgy), gave it to me. but I have yet to try it out yet. She has and said it was really wonderful. It is manned 24/7.
just thought you might like using it for additional support. you are so isolated there.
bizi

Thank you Bizi. I'll give the number that you just gave me a call. Brokenfriend:hug::hug::hug:

So sorry. Jomar has given you superior advice. Action not talking has to be taken..
bobby

I called that number. It was a Crisis Hotline. The operator gave me some good advice, and she understood what I was talking about. I'm dealing with a bully. I've been looking at youtube videos of counselors and doctors talking about narcissist personality disorders and subjects like that. I can relate to them talking about narcissistic personality disorders. I'm not sure if that's what he has. I am so tired of it. I'm in so much emotional pain. I'm in the aftermath of a lot of bad, and cold treatment. I didn't know that they would let this happen. He has a charming side that he uses with the county's mental health system. He's in communication with the head lady there. She likes him. I can't imagine what's being said behind my back. I have recorded some of his rants and downloaded them into my computer. They are there to prove what I'm going through.

i am glad you called the number but i wonder if you can call 911 and say you are threatened for your life by a mentally ill guy ?

say he is a typical psychopath who has made me his target and i can't escape him. i am terrified for my life.

What are the 20 signs of a psychopath?
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20 Signs of a Psychopath
Superficial Charm & Charisma. ...
Unnecessary Cruelty or a Mean Streak. ...
Lies, Exaggerations, & Dishonesty. ...
Lack of Accountability & Playing the Blame Game. ...
Need for Power, Control, & Dominance. ...
Sadistic Enjoyment of Pain & Suffering. ...
Boredom & Thrill-Seeking Behaviors. ...
Disregard for Rules, Laws, & Norms.

I am not sure about calling 911, but you can totally call adult protective
services explain what is going on. They will take the report and should
come to you, and listen to your recording and anything else you have
that will show what is going on. And make a report. And hopefully
figure out a way to help you.

I can't give you a phone number for Adult Protective Services because
each state is different look your state up and call them.

donna

I'm guessing we will all be praying you can find some answers and
relief. Keep us updated.

I'd like to say hello to everybody. I haven't been here for several years or more until yesterday. That's a good idea, Donna. I don't want to call the police, but Adult Protective Services is a good idea. I see my therapist tomorrow and I'll see if she has gotten in touch with the head of this county's mental health service. If they still do nothing I can call Adult Health Services. Thank you for that recommendation. BF:hug::hug::hug:

Hi friend,
((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))
love bizi

Friend,
They were called a few years ago more than once with Derrick's situations
with first a roommate, but nothing could be done. Because in that
case the provider, it was the other kids person. Was really working hard to
correct the situation, not the same situation your having though. We didn't
have them involved, which I honestly didn't think about when we moved
Derrick out, I wish we had. They would have probably acted on what happened.

Also when the dog bit Derrick's dog they were on the list that was called,
and put in the report. But because Derrick wasn't hurt. And the provider
was taking care of things. There was nothing they could do. But they
did make sure he was okay.

The last time was when a provider, had a person, who dropped him off
and left him at the wrong place. And didn't make sure he was with the
people he was supposed to be with. See he was taking a access or little
buses home with his friend. But he was left at a location accross purdue
from were he was supposed to be. He had to walk to find a place
open. He had called, me and I got the police involved, finding him.
And getting him to the right place. They were the one's who called Adult
Protective Services. Because he was okay then, and the person who had
done it was taken away from his service and retrained if used from someone
else nothing was done for him. But they have always checked on him.

Donna:grouphug::hug:


Please keep us updated, and come back that is why we are here.

I'm sorry that Derrick has been through hard times. I hope that he is doing well at this time. I have written down "Adult Protective Services" as a possible contact group for me to call if this situation in this house spirals out of control. When the person in question goes on a rant with me I plan on going into my room. There is no way that I can reason with him at any time. His personality will not cooperate.
BF:hug::hug::hug:

Hugs right back to you Bizi!!!! Brokenfriend:hug::hug::hug::grouphug:

Derrick is doing pretty good right now. Other than the problem he
had at work last Friday, that they took care of.

I hope that you will keep a good record of what is happening
and call next time it happens.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

Thank you, Donna. Things are peaceful in the house at this time. I do have adult protective services in my mind if needed. That was a good idea that you gave me. I would have never thought of them if you hadn't refreshed my memory about the service. Thank you so much. I hope that Derrick has a good weekend, and you too. BF:hug::hug::hug:

I'm so glad your having a better week right now.

Yes, Derrick had a good weekend. And he is having a good week.

I"m out at my house right now. Since I knew he wasn't going to
need me a while.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

how is it going friend?
bizi:hug:

Hi Bizi. At this time I'm doing Okay. The guy that I was talking about has not unleashed any temper rants on me recently. I've been very careful and I've been prayerful. Thank you for checking up on me. Brokenfriend:hug::hug::hug:

Glad to hear that friend!
bizi

Glad things are good. Keep talking to us.

Donna

I hope that the dental crown is approved on Thursday by my insurance group. I've been waiting for the letter and it has never come. I see the dentist on Thursday. I hope that I don't get disappointed. I called them today and they were not there. They work Tuesday through Friday. I called my case manager and she didn't know anything. This is causing me to have more anxiety than usual. The dental crown is $1,300.00 by itself. This exceeds my monthly Social Security by a lot. BF:hug::hug::hug:

They will figure it out, friend.
You may have to wait a while longer, so be prepared for that.The dentist's office should have a payment plan.
also ask if they can do something cheaper like build the tooth up like they do for fillings. what is wrong with your tooth?which tooth is it?
hubby had to go thru 2 crowns. fairly recently.


((((HUGS)))))
bizi

Friend

I sure hope it is approved.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

I got approved today for the crown!!!!!!! I was on a conference call with the dental insurance company and my case manager. That makes my month!!! Those crowns are expensive. I got approved for it!!! I had been praying about this for a little over a month. BF:hug::hug::hug:

yay! :Dancing-Chilli:

I talked to the Insurance company today and I'm not sure what's going on now. The other lady that I talked to didn't send the information to the Dentist. I'm trying to figure out what the insurance lady meant who I talked to today. The crown is covered but the other things may not be covered. I don't understand what they mean. I'll know more tomorrow. BF:hug::hug::hug:

I hope they explain it to you tomorrow!
((((HUGS))))
bizi

My main computer broke down. I'm on my tablet right now. BF :hug::hug::hug:

I'm glad you found out the crown is covered hopefully the other things
get figured out to your advantage.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

Sorry your tablet is all you have to use.
sorry about your computer.:(