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Alffe 11-12-2009 05:30 AM

Wonder Thread #204
 
I wonder how Scrabble could have forgotten this gem..

http://i1011.photobucket.com/albums/...001338x253.jpg

http://f370.mail.yahoo.com/ya/downlo...Inbox&inline=1

I wonder at the many talents this family shares...photography, art work,..
poetry, depression..*grin. Well that's not a talent but we are often good at it. :grouphug:

I wonder what time our girls will arrive..I cooked all day yesterday so I can just run around and play with them today & tomorrow.

I wonder if I can thank Koala once again for all her help...:winky:

I wonder if reyn will remember that she too, is never alone...please let me know if I went along on the dr.apt..riding either in your pocket or your heart....

I wonder if Grama Sue knows that she is missed around here...along with Doxie and Pono and Nikki....and many others.

I wonder if I can leave hugs for the room.

Wren 11-12-2009 07:15 AM

I wonder if I can thank Alffe for starting a new Wonder Thread :)

I wonder if I can thank Dear Alffe for all the wonderful, kind, gentle, thoughtful, caring things she dioes and says. Naaahhhh - there's no way I can express enough thanks for that.

reyn 11-12-2009 11:21 PM

Alffe, if I had gone, you would have been carried along in my heart. I changed the appts. to 1:30 next Wednesday. It is what it is, and I'm still trying to figure out how to take constructive steps so that I can physically get to where I need when there is a doctor's appt. or some type of diagnostic test scheduled. Thank you for listening to me last night -- what a mess! Anyway, I'm "home safe," and I won't have to think about transportation until Tuesday/Wednesday of next week. And for that I am so very grateful.

love to the room,
reyn

thelonely1 11-13-2009 12:21 AM

I wonder where my precious NeuroTalk went for so many hours today. :Scratch-Head:

I wonder if there are any car services in Reyn's phonebook to help her get to her appointment.

I wonder if I can :hug: Reyn again, since the last one I left her has disappeared. ;)

Alffe 11-13-2009 07:24 AM

I wonder if lonely1 read about Doc Johns problems and the quick fix....

I wonder where and WHY Scrabble's art work went...

I wonder if it was too big....~sigh

http://f370.mail.yahoo.com/ya/downlo...Inbox&inline=1

I wonder if it will stay this time.....

I wonder how much we accomplished on our shopping trip yesterday..

I wonder about the 14 yr. old high school girl that hung herself yesterday....:(

I wonder if the Rise & Roll bakery will be out of donnuts by the time we drive down there this morning....;)

I wonder what Mr.Alffe will do while we ladies shop...:D

I wonder about the home invasion last night and them shooting the dog..:mad:

I wonder at the lovely pink color of the sky this morning..:heartthrob:

Addy 11-13-2009 03:45 PM

I wonder if Alffe can post that pic on Facebook... I can copy then resize it and try to post it here for all to see...

I wonder how cool that would be to see some of my/our ~scrabble's artwork!!!

I wonder how many of us made/make those "Borax Snowflakes" ... together in spirit!!! (I'm still carrying around the original Borax box!!! I only made them the first year I learned about them with Alffe, Scrabble and others!!)

I wonder if I'll make Borax snowflakes this year... I think I will!!!

I wonder at the amazing opportunities ahead of me....

I wonder if Reyn knows how much I can relate to trying to figure out the constructive steps to go where I need to go physically!! We may be experiencing different challenges but the need we both feel is real and apparent in our lives!

I wonder at how therapeutic this forum is and how blessed I am to be able to allow it to work for me!

I wonder about Lara!!! And I've been thinking about GmaSue a lot, too... all the folks you mentioned, dear Alffe, are in my wonder thoughts, too.

I wonder how :Mexican: is doing right now... I remember reading a post where she said it was "cold"..... ha, I laughed... come up north and I will show you cold my dearie!

I wonder if that's enough wonders for now....

:sing: Addy

Alffe 11-14-2009 07:04 AM

I wonder about magic....it's so...so...magical! :D ty :hug:

I wonder about that old movie we watched last night..Ellen Burstyn and Walter Mathau...about a young boy and his aging Grandmother...we loved it...we cried...

I wonder why I can't remember the name of it....:o

I wonder about Eliz.Berg's book I'm reading..The Day I Ate Everything I
Wanted To.....a collection of short stories...She began with Dunkin Donuts.

I wonder that I accidently borrowed it in LARGE PRINT and that's kind of fun...;)

I wonder that I don't have a big dead bird in my kitchen this year....we are having pig meat...;) ...and buttermilk pie! me oh my!

I wonder how much I'll enjoy putting together a care package for my granddaughters' fiance in Afghanistan...lot's of rules about what to send..

I wonder and pray that he'll be safe....

I wonder that Addy also kept that first box of borax and I wonder if Scrabble will give a lesson to the newbies....:D

doxiemama 11-16-2009 04:42 PM

I wonder if I can stop by for a minute and thank Alffe for wondering about me.

I wonder if I can tell you that I'm still hanging in there and I take one day at a time and more often one hour at a time. I have lost 20 pounds and my bloodwork is normal, so even though I have ms at least my body is healthier.

I wonder if I can tell you that Molly, my rescue doxie is getting better day by day. She's come a long way since I got her a week before Christmas last year.

I wonder that my husband is retiring after 30 years working for the state and they are having a big party for him and that his daughter and her son are coming down for the party.

I wonder if I can tell everyone that I do visit NT frequently (okay, I admit it-I LURK), you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Sending love, hugs and doxie kisses to the broom....

reyn 11-16-2009 08:05 PM

I wonder if I can just share with you how good it felt to be able to get myself to my doctor's office (35 miles away) to pick up my prescription, go to the drugstore to get it filled, then go to Wal-Mart where I spent two whole hours shopping for my pups, Owen, John, and groceries!!! And I wonder at how much money I spent . . . ack!! But I made the trip up there and back!! I know that I shouldn't have driven by myself, but I was very careful. I wonder if it is okay to be happy about the trip, or should I feel guilty that I drove, by myself. I don't know. I just want to feel good about it right now. I wonder that I'm wondering about it all and how I should feel about it.

Wren 11-16-2009 08:11 PM

I wonder if I can tell reyn that I've been praying for her. I wonder if she knows that I've been in almost exactly the same position .... dreading, afraid of a ride with "him" while dreading, afraid of having a seizure. :hug: :hug:

Addy 11-16-2009 10:40 PM

I wonder if Reyn can be proud of her accomplishment and remember:
Quote:

Guilt is misdirected anger.
I wonder at how happy I am to see ~scrabble's art work!

I wonder if everyone will have fun at Doxiemama's husband's retirement - congratulations!

I wonder if I'll ever completely trust the person in my family who suffers from "the boy who cried wolf" syndrome.

I wonder that I can't change that... dang it!

I wonder at how tastey those short ribs were tonight!

I wonder why, until today, I had never taken the time to ask my 84 yr old Mom how she made those delicious ribs!

I wonder if I will pass on the secrets to my grandaughter :)

I wonder if that's why I bought her and her mommy hand-made matching aprons, cookbooks and little-people baking implements... what fun!

I wonder if Alffe had lots of laughs and loves over the weekend :Heart:

reyn 11-17-2009 09:17 PM

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reyn 11-17-2009 09:19 PM

This has to do with a family matter. He was told today that the chemo drug that he's been given no longer is working.

reyn 11-17-2009 09:21 PM

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Wren 11-17-2009 09:32 PM

Praying for you -
Can you unload the gun - toss the bullets out a window for now. You can get them later when things are calmer?
Be safe.

reyn 11-17-2009 10:25 PM

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reyn 11-17-2009 10:39 PM

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FeelinGoofy 11-17-2009 10:42 PM

Reyn..... i have no answers but wanted you to know that you are in my prayers.... :hug:

reyn 11-17-2009 10:53 PM

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thelonely1 11-17-2009 11:34 PM

I wish I could come live with you Reyn, we could take care of each other when we are are sad or scared. I could take you to your appointments! You wouldn't have to worry anymore.....

I wish I could tell you what to do, but I don't know either. But I can pray for you! And I can tell you that I would have prayed for you even If you hadn't asked. :)

I wish I could hug you in person...but I guess this will have to do. :hug:

Addy 11-18-2009 01:04 AM

Reyn - please, please accept any help that your family will give you. If your brother in law told you to get help, please get it... or at least call a shelter and talk to someone there... please (((hugs)))

And please do NOT cancel or change your appointment - put yourself first... if not for you, then for me.

I hate guns - get rid of it - there just isn't any reason good enough for me to understand about guns :(

Please be careful :hug: Addy

reyn 11-18-2009 01:23 AM

I'm sorry.

Wren 11-18-2009 06:52 AM

reyn - I am fairly certain that there is a domestic abuse clinic where ever you live... we have one in my very small town.

It's a miraculous place - the clinic - and it administers a wonderful, wonderful crisis line. I see a counselor there one hour a week and go to group two hours. It's free to anyone who needs it.

Abuse is the things like beating and slapping ... BUT IT INCLUDES, harassmetn, denial of access to money, threats of suicide, stalking, name calling, verbal put-downs, humiliation and isolation. If you can't drive to the clinic, they will come get you.

I'm praying for you .... :hug:

thelonely1 11-18-2009 12:51 PM

I can't come live with you Reyn....but I really do want to. I replied to your post over in my thread.
- http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/thread103360-8.html

I wish I could come be with you; I'm sorry I can't. You have to take care though, 'cause mabye some day I will be able to....

thelonely1 11-18-2009 11:45 PM

I wonder how dear Reyn is doing tonight. :hug:

I wonder where Alffe has gone and when she come back. :hug:

I wonder that I haven't seen Manda for quite some time...I hope she is okay and comes back soon. :hug:

I wonder if I can leave hugs for everyone. :grouphug:


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