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DDayMBB 01-22-2007 10:44 AM

Prayers and thought go to Di and Family
 
Di you know what ever I can do I am here for you and your family, all
you need to do is call and my wife or myself will be there as we both found godd through something bad , howevr this is something you need not handle upon your own!
Di got home and went over to De's trailer after work yesterday... upon entering Di found De slumpped on the side of her bed not breathing and gone for a while and CRP was not to be of avail! It is not figured to be suicide or such just drug reactions with the medication given while under evaluation care and her breathing ceased!
God Bless DI and her Family though the physical life may end, the rememberance and caring never stop!

Wittesea 01-22-2007 10:49 AM

My sincere condolences go out to Di and her family.

Curious 01-22-2007 11:00 AM

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my heart and prayers are with you di.


thank you mark for posting the sad sad news.

Donna7 01-22-2007 11:02 AM

Di, I am so sorry. Praying for you and your family.

Donna

astern 01-22-2007 11:07 AM

Oh Di, I am so so sorry.

May the Eternal Light of God grant sweet, painless rest to De.

We are here for you Di.

Dolfinz 01-22-2007 11:07 AM

Di,

Many blessings and hugs from me to you and your family.....:grouphug:

Hang in there.. Dolfinz

Chemar 01-22-2007 11:11 AM

Di

my deepest sympathy to you and your family

:grouphug:

Cheri

dawn3063 01-22-2007 11:51 AM

Di,
My sincere condolences go out to you and your family...
Many heart felt prayers to you and your family.
Dawn

buckwheat 01-22-2007 11:56 AM

Dear Di,
I am so sorry. You and your family are in my heart and prayers. Big Huge Hugs, Roz

Jomar 01-22-2007 12:08 PM

Thinking of you and your family at this sad time, and sending care, concern and prayers for all of you.

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Stardust 01-22-2007 12:23 PM

Di,

Not sure if you remember me from the old forum since I try to stay away from the computer and don't post much anymore.

Just wanted to say how sorry I am. As a mom myself, I can imagine how terribly difficult this must be. As a forum member, I can hardly think of anyone who has done more to contribute to others. You have always been right there for anyone on the forum who has ever needed you. And I know from all your previous posts what a wonderful mom you were to De and how much love and effort you put into being there for her too. My sincere condolences.

Thanks for posting Mark.

trix 01-22-2007 12:35 PM

I am so sorry
 
It is so hard for a child to go before her parents. I can't imagine the agony you are in right now. Know that each and every one of us is "praying" for you. Each in their own way.
May you know and feel the love surrounding you at this very difficult time.
Tracy:grouphug:

watsonsh 01-22-2007 12:37 PM

Di,

I am so sorry. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

We are here for you whenever you need us.

God Bless

siccy 01-22-2007 12:42 PM

DI,
I am from the old forum also.I spoke with you on the phone a time or two.
Please know that we are all praying for you .I am sorry for your loss.
siccy

LisaL-TOS 01-22-2007 12:59 PM

Di, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Lisa

JAMY 01-22-2007 01:16 PM

Di,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

Sending hugs your way
:grouphug:

Lara 01-22-2007 02:22 PM

Dear Di, I'm so very sorry and so shocked to read what has happened to your daughter.
My thoughts are with you and your family during this dreadful time.
(((Di)))

Sea Pines 50 01-22-2007 03:18 PM

My Thoughts Are with You
 
This news just breaks my heart, Di. I hope you can take some comfort in the fact that her pain is over, at long last. Dee taught us all a great deal, I think, in her young life. Being stricken as she was with TOS as a young teenager robbed her of many rites of passage which many of us have been able to enjoy pre-onset, such as higher education, careers, marriages, having kids of our own, whatever it is that stories like hers helps us to remember to be grateful for in our darkest moments.

The quality of life that Dee was able to have despite the complex chronic pain issues she suffered over the years following her diagnosis any surgeries was because of a loving mother who never gave up, who educated herself and helped countless others in the process.

It is a bitter irony that one of the only meds that brought Dee any relief, or perhaps a combination of meds, may be what slowed her respiratory rate and ultimately caused her untimely death. Di, I have a daughter Dee's age - I think she was around 32? - This is a huge loss for you and your family and believe me will be felt very deeply by all of your extended family members on this forum as well. You are truly loved here. Alison

johannakat 01-22-2007 03:35 PM

Di-
I am so very sorry for your loss. There is little one can say to the terrible loss of a child, except that things do happen for a reason, and that hopefully that reason will become clear in time.

Until then, keep the warm thoughts of all the people on this board and know how fondly we are thinking of you.

:circlelove:

Denise G 01-22-2007 03:44 PM

Di's loss
 
Hello Di,

I'm new & we don't know each other at all & I don't know your "story" about your daughter. But I'm so sorry to hear about her passing.

I have grown sons, & I can't imagine the devastation you must feel at this time. I will also be praying for you & your family.

Denise

redjpwranglergirl 01-22-2007 05:40 PM

Di,
While there are no words that can be said to make things easier for you, I just wanted you to know I'm thinking about you and am so, so sorry for your loss.

Nolina 01-22-2007 06:14 PM

Oh my Goodness, Di...........I am so so sorry. My most heartfelt prayers and thoughts to you and your family........:grouphug:

dreambeliever128 01-22-2007 08:42 PM

DiMarie,
 
My heart just broke when I saw this post. We have been together on this forum since around 98 or 99 and I have found you to be one of the greatest friends and inspiration on here. I just love you and I am so sorry to read about De.

As you know I lost Bill 2 months tomorrow but I honestly know I would most likely be even worse off if I had lost Susan. Kids are just the hardest to let go of and we love them more then our own lives. Even with Bill I keep saying I wish I had gone first.

I am so sorry for what you are going through and my prayers are with you. I pray that you find a way to walk through this time of sorrow and are able to keep going for your other kids.

Please let us know how you are because you are loved on here.

Love,
Ada

DiMarie 01-22-2007 09:18 PM

I love you
 
My heart is broken,'
We have no plan as yet,'
Keep praying
Di

Curious 01-22-2007 09:21 PM

we are sweety. we will be here when you are ready.

from around the world..we send you our love and prayers.

Wylie 01-22-2007 09:55 PM

Condolences
 
Di,

Words aren't enough. I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.

jccgf 01-22-2007 10:08 PM

Di,

I was so saddened to read this here. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Cara

DDayMBB 01-22-2007 11:34 PM

Di I will be around the house till about 9:30 and home by noon tomorrow... IF you need anything let me know, I can be up in 15 min.-20min. and as you know that you can talk to me anytime, about anything<I will even make sure Goober does not butt in> You also have my cell and I will keep it on while I am running my errands !!!!!!!!

HopeLivesHere 01-23-2007 01:07 AM

My heart goes out to you.......
 
Di,
I am sorry for your loss. Sometimes the hurt is too big for words.
I pray the memories deep within your heart help to soothe you at this difficult time and in the days ahead. You and your family are in my prayers.
Keep the faith

Love and {{hugs}} :hug:

Hope

Edelweiss 01-23-2007 06:18 AM

I am sorry!
 
Di, I know, I cannot help you through this hard time - but I am very sorry for the loss!
Words are not enough - and I hope you get care from your family.
The forum will always be a place where you can talk when you need it.
All my thoughts,
Barbara

heyjude5050 01-23-2007 06:40 AM


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Di,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter.
No parent should have to endure such pain.
My prayer will be with you and your family,
Judy

mrsD 01-23-2007 07:31 AM

I am saddened to read this...
 
I am very sorry for your loss.:hug:

dabbo 01-23-2007 10:59 AM

Di - I am so sorry about your loss - If there's anything I (or we) can do, please let us know. You've always been the strong one around here, willing to lend your ear and support when we've needed it. Don't be shy in asking us to do the same for you. Take care,
- Dabbo

Gromlily 01-23-2007 12:21 PM

Oh Di !!!!!!!!!
 
I am heartsick...I am so very sorry!!! We have talked before about your Dee and my sister, so I know what all you have been through in trying to help your precious daughter. I'm so, so very sorry this happened.

I wish there was something I could do to help you now, you've been a wonderful source of support and comfort for me personally as well as others here on the forum. I am sure that in reading through all these posts you have been able to feel all the love that everyone here has for you.

Di, in this truly difficult and hard to understand time,I pray that God will surround you with his peace that passes all understanding. I pray that you will find hope and comfort in knowing that Dee is in the best of all places now and is pain free! Sweetheart, I will pray that God will give you the strength that you will need to get through this difficult time, and that soon you will be able to find joy in the memories of the good times you, Dee and your family had together.

Hubby and I will be lifting you up in prayer. Please let us know how you are doing when you can.

God Bless and keep you Dear One,
All my Love,
Gromlily ~

Jomar 01-23-2007 12:27 PM

Everyone here is so Awesome and wonderful!
I know Dimarie feels the same about you all too.
:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

(((Everyone)))

DDayMBB 01-23-2007 03:49 PM

I Just got off the Phone with DiMarie, she sonded like the same wonderful person we all have come to love and as usual was worried about others, more so than herself... she has come about in arrangeing DEEs wake; hours limited to 10am-11:30am, with no internment services From the: McCune Funeral Home
80 S. Mountain Blvd.
MountainTop, Pa 18707

By request cards may be sent to:
Please PM jo55 or myself for the address

The Lord is my Shepherd;I shall not want
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures:
he leadeth me beside still waters.
He restoreth me soul: he leadeth me in the
paths of righteousness for his name's sake
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow
of death, I will fear no evil : for thou art with me:
thy rod and thy staff comfort me.
Thou preparest a table before me in the the
presence of mine enemies: Thou anointest my
head with oil; my cup runneth over.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all
the days of my life: and I shall dwell in the
house of the LORD for ever.

BarnBum 01-23-2007 04:07 PM

I am so sorry for your loss....

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers...

tshadow 01-23-2007 11:28 PM

We can send flowers for her service
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by DDayMBB (Post 62426)
I Just got off the Phone with DiMarie, she sonded like the same wonderful person we all have come to love and as usual was worried about others, more so than herself... she has come about in arrangeing DEEs wake; hours limited to 10am-11:30am, with no internment services From the: McCune Funeral Home
80 S. Mountain Blvd.
MountainTop, Pa 18707

By request cards may be sent to:
Please PM jo55 or myself for the address

The Lord is my Shepherd;I shall not want
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures:
he leadeth me beside still waters.
He restoreth me soul: he leadeth me in the
paths of righteousness for his name's sake
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow
of death, I will fear no evil : for thou art with me:
thy rod and thy staff comfort me.
Thou preparest a table before me in the the
presence of mine enemies: Thou anointest my
head with oil; my cup runneth over.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all
the days of my life: and I shall dwell in the
house of the LORD for ever.

Mark,

thanks for putting up the funeral home info., but what date will her service be? I would like to send out some flowers on my (and maybe a few other TOSers) behalf to young De. Could you post the date and time of service? Or, is the wake considered the service?

Also, I will try to call you tomorrow - Wednesday - since it's too late your-time now.

Mark, if you talk to DiMarie, could you let her know that the So Cal TOSers give her our condolences, and want to be there for her.

Jomar 01-23-2007 11:33 PM

I believe there will be only the Wake - no other service.
I'll try to get the date verified also.


We will pass on the message to her.
she says she may be able to read the forums tomorrow- but she is still very heartbroken as we can all imagine.

gibbrn 01-23-2007 11:52 PM

My deepest sympathy
 
Di,
I wish to pass along my deepest sympathy and prayers to you and your family. I want to let you know that so long as there is a prayer in your heart you are not alone...you walk with God. You have had a horrific experience, however know that your daughter is in the great hands of the Lord and will suffer no more pain and will watch over you with her spirit and guide you along. I hope your faith is strong and that you can understand what I am saying. It is in no way glib, it is from my heart and what I believe. I know I will keep you and yours in my thoughts and prayers.

Again my deepest sympathy.

most sincerely,
Victoria


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