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Debbie D 04-21-2010 07:39 AM

Why didn't you tell me not to remodel the kitchen?
 
What a mess!! DH has taken the soffets down, and he got a few surprises...
The bathroom vent bends down into the soffet area, and was detached, so there's dust and spiderweb thingies...then they ran the drain from the upstairs bathroom sink, which is in the middle of the house, out to the outside wall and down, you guessed it, into the soffet area. The conduit for the electric outlets also have to be moved...
it is going to take a lot of work to get this right. And the cabinets come tomorrow:eek: We still have to have the wood floors sanded and refinished, and also have boards placed where the cabinets were.
Ugh...I want to just float away and come back when it's all shiny and new.

Advice: NEVER let your spouse do the remodeling work...:rolleyes:

FinLady 04-21-2010 08:27 AM

My hubby's a remodeler, so can feel your pain. Luckily, we haven't had to do that yet here. But I know what a mess doing things like that can leave behind - or uncover. :rolleyes:

Hoping that the finished product is well worth it for you. :)

SandyC 04-21-2010 09:41 AM

I feel your pain. I didn't tell you because in the end it will be worth it I promise. :hug:

legzzalot 04-21-2010 10:00 AM

It was all Sally's fault with her talk of hunky guys and how much fun remodeling is. LOL

kicker 04-21-2010 10:37 AM

I had a pool guy come to fix my filter. Told him I really wanted a Pool guy, you know what I mean?The middle-aged man smiled sadly and said he was the best looking pool guy they had.

SallyC 04-21-2010 12:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by legzzalot (Post 646686)
It was all Sally's fault with her talk of hunky guys and how much fun remodeling is. LOL

Yeah Deb, ya shoulda hired my guys....no worries.:D

Kitty 04-21-2010 12:33 PM

Hey Debbie!! Don't let DH remodel your kitchen!

Oops.......I'm a little late with that advice, huh? :o

Lady 04-21-2010 10:38 PM

If the pipes, BR drain and electric are in the way, just buy some Wal Mart big flower pots (light weight) with lots of greens in them already.

After the cabinets are in, paint the wall and pipes the same color and put up the nice baskets or copper pots with fake ferns and ivy in them. Even big copper plates to hide the pipes and stuff.

I did this in my son's house one time he had the same problem. You can even put up a decorative edge across the top to match the cabinets and to hold the plants. Or put lights up there, muted, away from the pipes.

Or close it back up and put a new Sheetrock soffet to cover back again. ;)

When my DH does something, I always sit and watch, to be prepared to do a "Mac Guiver" on his work. Never fails. :eek:

karousel 04-21-2010 11:04 PM

Isn't that what always happens? You start a project only to have to do multiple projects just to finish that one?? We had problems when DH and my FIL remodeled our kitchen in our old house. It was a nightmare with the problems we had and how long it took. Now my DH is eyeing this kitchen and I said NO WAY!! He wants to take out the soffets...sound familiar?

doydie 04-21-2010 11:19 PM

I don't ever want my husband to do any DIY projects again. He thinks a permit is never needed, do it to make it look OK from the outside. Who cares that it isn't structurally sound. No, closets don't need doors, that drywall mud looks sanded enough. I have heard it all. And if you get a contractor you go for the lowest bid no matter what the quality or referneces are. I have a deck we can not use that cost over $1000, fake gutter guard that is worth zip, terrible paint job on the porch and soffits, botched up family room that took twice as much as the guys estimate to have a reputable company come in and fix his work. Then we didn't have it in the budget to decorate like I wanted. But when he wants a 60 inch TV! Only the best. Our kitchen is 32 years old and has the original cabinets and sub floor, avocodo stove and counter tops!

Debbie D 04-22-2010 03:33 PM

It is frustrating to be hitched to a guy that actually can do a good job...he goes around the neighborhood fixing peoples' garage door springs (very dangerous), helps them put up cabinets, fix their disposal, toilets, etc.
But when he replaces the wood trim around the floor, for instance, he always has to leave one board unnailed, so that it comes away from the wall when I clean.
Or he'll leave his supplies on our bedroom floor...:mad::rolleyes:
I am so worried he's not going to do the electricity right, or he'll install the cabinets so they're not level...

The cabinets arrived today...we are so not ready for them!!:rolleyes:

ewizabeth 04-25-2010 08:08 AM

Oh my gosh Debbie, he must be a distant relative of my DH. He's a do it yourselfer too but he's finally decided not to do the risky stuff like getting up on the roof with a ladder.

Good luck with the rest of the work, I hope your DH doesn't overdo it and is very careful with the electrical part of it.


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