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keep smilin 11-21-2010 06:21 PM

I have missed you.. but sad news..
 
Hello my family...

I have missed you dearly.. I have been going thru a sad time, as my sweet Mom has gone on to be with my Dad recently (11/8/10)..as many of you know..this is so hard..my emotions are on a rollercoaster never knowing when the flood gates will open next. I was with my Mom right thru the end..I placed her frail hand in my Dads that night.. and then I did her eulogy, proudly!!.. She suffered from strokes and demensha and depression..she is now free of all of that..and now my Dad has her.. that is wonderful! My heart is now broken and very sad..it has a huge hole in it..I miss her so..

I am sorry for my distance.. I hope you all are doing well..

Love, Kathy (KS):hug:

AintSoBad 11-21-2010 06:40 PM

Kathy,
My prayers for you and your entire families protection, faith, and comfort, as well as anything, our God can bring you.



I hope truly, that You and your family can find some comfort, in the closely held memories that you all have, those together, and all those gorgeous little 'tidbits' that will pour out, from here on out.....

I pray for you comfort, and for 'finding the way' to remember all the best!

Life's stages....

KS, Kathy!

Love and Comfort!

Pete

keep smilin 11-21-2010 07:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AintSoBad (Post 718422)
Kathy,
My prayers for you and your entire families protection, faith, and comfort, as well as anything, our God can bring you.



I hope truly, that You and your family can find some comfort, in the closely held memories that you all have, those together, and all those gorgeous little 'tidbits' that will pour out, from here on out.....

I pray for you comfort, and for 'finding the way' to remember all the best!

Life's stages....

KS, Kathy!

Love and Comfort!

Pete

Dear Pete,

Thank you so very much for your wonderfully comforting words.. I am so very appreciative... you helped my heart!! You are such a nice friend...

hugz, Kathy:hug:

SandyRI 11-21-2010 07:45 PM

Dear Kathy,

I am so very very sorry for your loss.

May loving memories of your parents comfort you. And the knowledge that they are at peace together.

Welcome back, you have been missed.

Much love, Sandy

loretta 11-22-2010 01:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by keep smilin (Post 718414)
Hello my family...

I have missed you dearly.. I have been going thru a sad time, as my sweet Mom has gone on to be with my Dad recently (11/8/10)..as many of you know..this is so hard..my emotions are on a rollercoaster never knowing when the flood gates will open next. I was with my Mom right thru the end..I placed her frail hand in my Dads that night.. and then I did her eulogy, proudly!!.. She suffered from strokes and demensha and depression..she is now free of all of that..and now my Dad has her.. that is wonderful! My heart is now broken and very sad..it has a huge hole in it..I miss her so..

I am sorry for my distance.. I hope you all are doing well..

Love, Kathy (KS):hug:

Dear Kathy, Thank you for sharing your pain with us. Your many wonderful qualities makes us know your Mom must have been a kind and loving Mom. Please allow us to be here for you anytime you need. I, too, have lost both of my parents and know how difficult it is.
Please take care of yourself, I'll PM you later. Your friend, Loretta

gabbycakes 11-22-2010 05:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by keep smilin (Post 718414)
Hello my family...

I have missed you dearly.. I have been going thru a sad time, as my sweet Mom has gone on to be with my Dad recently (11/8/10)..as many of you know..this is so hard..my emotions are on a rollercoaster never knowing when the flood gates will open next. I was with my Mom right thru the end..I placed her frail hand in my Dads that night.. and then I did her eulogy, proudly!!.. She suffered from strokes and demensha and depression..she is now free of all of that..and now my Dad has her.. that is wonderful! My heart is now broken and very sad..it has a huge hole in it..I miss her so..

I am sorry for my distance.. I hope you all are doing well..

Love, Kathy (KS):hug:

Kathy,

So sorry to here about the passing of your Mom. It has to be the hardest thing to lose a Mom, I lost mine in July 2003. My heart and prays go out to you and your family at this difficult time.

BIG HUGS.Gabbycakes

daniella 11-22-2010 09:51 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thought and if you want a friend to chat with I am just an email away.

wswells 11-22-2010 10:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by keep smilin (Post 718414)
Hello my family...

I have missed you dearly.. I have been going thru a sad time, as my sweet Mom has gone on to be with my Dad recently (11/8/10)..as many of you know..this is so hard..my emotions are on a rollercoaster never knowing when the flood gates will open next. I was with my Mom right thru the end..I placed her frail hand in my Dads that night.. and then I did her eulogy, proudly!!.. She suffered from strokes and demensha and depression..she is now free of all of that..and now my Dad has her.. that is wonderful! My heart is now broken and very sad..it has a huge hole in it..I miss her so..

I am sorry for my distance.. I hope you all are doing well..

Love, Kathy (KS):hug:

Oh dear Kathy, I am sorry to hear this news. What an honor for you to have been there for your mom, and to be able to euligize(sp) her, I know she has been going thru too much, and at least now you know she is at peace. I'm sure your heart feels broken, but hopefully that hole will fill with glorius, wonderful memories of both of your parents. Again I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you and your family.
Wendy

lorigood243 11-22-2010 05:01 PM

Dear Kathy

Im SO sorry for your loss, i lost my mother several years ago and i talk to her everyday, i know she can hear me. Talk to your Mother, even though she isnt physicaly in the room she hears you. love conquers all
Hugs
Lori

finz 11-23-2010 03:42 AM

Kathy, I am so sorry for your loss. What a gift that you were able to be with her despite your pain. I understand how ill she had been and I'm glad she is in a better place.

May God's peace be with you. You will be in my prayers.

keep smilin 11-23-2010 08:17 AM

Thank you!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by finz (Post 718971)
Kathy, I am so sorry for your loss. What a gift that you were able to be with her despite your pain. I understand how ill she had been and I'm glad she is in a better place.

May God's peace be with you. You will be in my prayers.

My heartfelt thanks to each of you for your kind words and prayers.. I am blessed to have had such a wonderful relationship with both my Mom and Dad.. And now Iam so happy they are together..right where I want them to be, stressfree. I remember the final night I had with my Mom, while holding both of her hands..softly speaking from my heart..over 19 hours..The nurses kept coming in saying..what a gift I gave Mom..But, I have to disagree as I feel Mom gave me the best gift ever.. her love.. My love and respect for her will never tarnish nor weaken. Each time the nurses asked if I was okay..I boldly said..yea..this is about Mom right now.. I will collect my pieces later..Well, 'later' is here..and as a dear friend said..some days just placing your feet on the floor is a big deal.. well, each day I think to myself..well, I am up!

God bless both my Mom and Dad and also each of you..For without your genuine words of support and caring, I could not be as forthcoming and positive..

I hope you all have a good day and RSD is is not too harsh on you today..

Much love to all, Kathy:grouphug:

Jimking 11-23-2010 07:19 PM

Very sorry for your loss Kathy.

Lisa in Ohio 11-23-2010 07:32 PM

Oh Kathy, I am so sorry for your loss. I am really very inspired by your faith and attitude. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Peace to you my friend, Lisa

MarriedtoRSD 11-29-2010 11:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by keep smilin (Post 718414)
Hello my family...

I have missed you dearly.. I have been going thru a sad time, as my sweet Mom has gone on to be with my Dad recently (11/8/10)..as many of you know..this is so hard..my emotions are on a rollercoaster never knowing when the flood gates will open next. I was with my Mom right thru the end..I placed her frail hand in my Dads that night.. and then I did her eulogy, proudly!!.. She suffered from strokes and demensha and depression..she is now free of all of that..and now my Dad has her.. that is wonderful! My heart is now broken and very sad..it has a huge hole in it..I miss her so..

I am sorry for my distance.. I hope you all are doing well..

Love, Kathy (KS):hug:

I dont know you but my prayers are with you. As you said, shes no longer suffering and with your dad in a much better place than this. I lost my brother and 2 of his children a couple of years ago and it was my knowing theyre in a good place that made it easier for me to deal with. When I get sad, I just close my eyes and remember something they once said or something we did together and smile cuz I know theyre still with me, just not physically.


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