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Alffe 06-15-2011 11:30 AM

What's on your plate...
 
Squash rolls are rising..it's raining so I'm glad I got the grass cut yesterday.
We are going to Chicago tomorrow, lunch at the Art Institute with sil and then Mr.Alffe & I are going to the taping of "Wait Wait"...that very clever NPR show that aires every Sat.morning at 11:00..home on Friday so Cassie won't be boarded very long...although she loves it having lived most of her life before she rescued us, in a cage. *grin

The book "Legend of a Suicide" arrived this morning and I'm going to hit the couch with it...I didn't realize it was fiction based on the author losing his father to suicide...it got rave reviews...thank you again Lara for the link.

On Monday I am having an MRI of my brain...dr. wants to rule out a tumor.

Working feverishly on my bucket list. :D

Hugs for the room...what's on your plate?

DMACK 06-15-2011 03:15 PM

GOD i hope its not a tumour ....................:hug::grouphug::hug::grouphug:


David

DMACK 06-15-2011 04:40 PM

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking, so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine as children do.
It's not just in some of us;
It is in everyone.
And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others

Nelson Mandella

David:hug::grouphug:

FeelinGoofy 06-15-2011 05:14 PM

today..... hmmmmmm its started last night with a hail storm and high winds, tree limbs everywhere..... no electric till around midnight... got to bed about 1. phone call from the place my FIL lives at 4:00, he fell and cracked his eyebrow a good one... alot of blood :( had to take him to the ER. got home around 8:00 jumped in the shower and was at work by 10:00. just got home.... fixing supper then trying to clean up the yard.... LOL hopefully an early bed time..... :rolleyes:

Alffe 06-15-2011 05:49 PM

Oh that's awful goofy...so sorry about your fil. Crazy weather everywhere...be safe. :hug:

Lara 06-18-2011 05:54 AM

:( Special thoughts heading across the vast oceans to dear Alffe and Goofy and to everyone who needs them. There are so many. Often the silence here is deafening.

Thank you very much to David for reminding me of the lesson in those words. :hug:

What's on my plate? Too much.

love to you all.

p.s. I just wrote that I had too much on my plate. That's wrong.
I realized a very, very, very long time ago that no matter what it's never really too much even though it may feel that way for a moment or a day, or a week. It's all a cycle and will work out in the end. I hope ;) lol

Alffe 06-22-2011 05:46 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Y1wtgLAytA

Lara 06-22-2011 06:10 AM

One day at a time...

I'm there with you. Honest.

Love you.

Wren 06-22-2011 07:34 AM

(((( Alffe )))) I'm praying for you too:hug::hug::hug:

FeelinGoofy 06-22-2011 08:42 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEp8lZQxm_c

It isn't christmas but this song is for you Alffe :)

Alffe 06-22-2011 09:54 AM

Thank you all...it is appreciated. :grouphug:

May I once again recommend the book "Still Alice". :o

Addy 06-22-2011 11:26 AM

Good morning all... geesh, Alffeeeee... please let us know asap what's up with your MRI.. man, I hate getting old(er)...

I've got a bit of a stomach bug today which resulted in me staying home and laying low... I may lay by the pool and swim but we'll first see if my tummy settles.. its chorus rehearsal night so I hope I can go!

I'm saving for a camping vacation with my little Grand-Addy and her momma (in August) ... everything is booked and I'm so excited! My sis will be there with her daughter and Grand-Sparkles :) and we will be in heaven! She and I love being together with our little offspring ... so lucky!

Alffe 06-22-2011 12:22 PM

Not trying to be mysterious Addy. I'm in a very frightening place right now. The mri was normal and my dr. is sending me for cognitive testing as she suspects that I have altz/dementia. She prescribed aricep:rolleyes:t.

I have a lot of pride..too much pride for my own good. It embarrasses me when I can't make change, don't know the answers to things I know, telling myself to just take one day at a time but my hands are shaking as I type this.

Hugs for the room. You all know that I love you. :grouphug:

Addy 06-22-2011 06:24 PM

oh gosh, and you know that we all love you, too... I know you're not being mysterious :hug: cuz you really don't know until you know...

:grouphug:

Burntmarshmallow 06-22-2011 06:43 PM

:hug: alffemom :hug: :hug:
:Heart::circlelove:

mrsD 06-23-2011 05:27 AM

Oh, Alffe :hug:

I am sorry you are having medical problems. Don't hesitate to PM me if you need any information or support.

Chemar 06-23-2011 07:33 AM

((((Alffe)))
praying for you:hug:

Kitty 06-23-2011 08:13 AM

:hug: Alffe :hug: I'm praying for you. :hug:

Koala77 06-24-2011 06:49 AM

Thinking of you Alffe, and sending my love. :hug:

........ http://i288.photobucket.com/albums/l...mage89hugs.gif

DMACK 06-25-2011 04:28 PM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ffnd5kwxJiQ

You're my world, you‘re every breath I take
You're my world, every move I make
Other eyes see the stars up in the skies
But for me they shine within your eyes
As the trees reach for the sun above
So my arms reach out to you for love
With your hand resting in mine
I feel a power so divine
You're my world, you are my night and day
You're my world, you're every prayer I pray
If our love ceases to be
Then it's the end of my world for me
With your hand resting in mine
I feel a power so divine
You're my world, you are my night and day
You're my world, you're every prayer I pray
If our love ceases to be
Then it's the end of my world for me


T0 my :hug:best friend ALFFE ...With love :hug:


David

Lara 06-27-2011 05:51 PM

What's on your plate?

I have vegemite toast to start with, but then I need to finish the washing. I have my washing machine working at last and it's like a new toy really. No more sore wrists from wringing.

My daughter is coming for a few days so I'm really looking forward to that. I need to move the cat off the end of my bed so I can do all the linen today while the sun is shining.

I probably will catch a quick nap this afternoon as I was up very late last night (and a few other nights before that) watching the tennis at Wimbledon. One of those time zone things. lol

If I feel up to it later I'll go do a surf check and a whale check on the headland. I thought I saw something the other day, but I think I need new glasses. :cool:

webcam

One day I should go stand in front of the webcam and wave. ;)

Edited to add: Surf

Alffe 06-27-2011 08:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lara (Post 781927)
What's on your plate?

I have vegemite toast to start with, but then I need to finish the washing. I have my washing machine working at last and it's like a new toy really. No more sore wrists from wringing.

My daughter is coming for a few days so I'm really looking forward to that. I need to move the cat off the end of my bed so I can do all the linen today while the sun is shining.

I probably will catch a quick nap this afternoon as I was up very late last night (and a few other nights before that) watching the tennis at Wimbledon. One of those time zone things. lol

If I feel up to it later I'll go do a surf check and a whale check on the headland. I thought I saw something the other day, but I think I need new glasses. :cool:

webcam

One day I should go stand in front of the webcam and wave. ;)

I love webcams! Maybe tomorrow I'll see a whale! or maybe we'll see Lara! I'm off to bed...this new medicine does take some getting used to!:rolleyes:

pooh_ac 06-27-2011 10:24 PM

Just lots work, rest, meds sux
:hug:z

FeelinGoofy 06-28-2011 11:28 AM

meeting some friends from junior high for an early lunch then Rebecca has her wisdom teeth out today at 2:00.... should be an interesting afternoon :rolleyes:

Addy 06-28-2011 02:16 PM

I just looked at the webcam... lol... its dark! silly time zones! lol :p

I don't know why they say you can't catch up on your sleep because that's what I feel I'm doing today.... after another Grand-Addy visit! She's almost 3 now... and I've never been so much in love!!

Not much on my plate today ... visit a friend, swim (read: exercise) in the pool.. and ok, clean the house a bit.

Abbie 06-28-2011 09:55 PM

WOW.... just watched a couple of kite surfers in Aussie Land!!! Too Cool!! The surf is up, the sky's a little cloudy...but the guys are having fun!!!

FeelinGoofy 06-28-2011 10:12 PM

I just looked at it too.... that is just to cool..... dont think i'd want to try kite surfing, but its fun to watch :)


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