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Released back to work!!
Oh my...I am just bursting with excitement right now. I saw the doctor this morning and she has released me back to fully duty work with no restrictions...just requiring accomodations for my disability which are very minor things that won't cost work anything. So I am just extremely excited at the moment. I've sent copies of the release and left messages with the various people involved at work but haven't heard back yet to find out if they will actually be letting me return but until I hear anything negative I am not going to let myself think that way. I have worked so very hard for this and just cannot wait to get back in there.
The rest of the visit went very well too. The doctor and her nurse both told me that I looked a million times better today at my appointment. Stronger, walking faster, just generally looked healthier...it made me feel good because I know that I feel all those things but when you see someone that you haven't seen for a month they can really see the big difference. The doctor also wrote a script for the TDCS equiptment. She's totally on board with the treatment and we are both excited about it...hoping that it will help me with the pain and sensitivity especially as those are two things that so far we haven't had much success getting under control...more that I have learned to cope with these things enough to allow me to get the function back. Fingers crossed that it all works out well and that the tDCS will just be yet another weapon for me to help fight this RSD monster. I'll keep you all posted on the returning to work thing...I just really hope that they allow me to come back now that I am released to full duty...they wouldn't let me when I was released for half shifts a month ago. Just that much closer to being able to finally put some of this stuff behind me and continue to move forward with my life. :D |
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Being released for work is wonderful news. Hearing your going to try TDCS is also great. Hoping for the greatest of success with TDCS. Joydee :hug: |
Congratulations catra121! Have you tried TDCS yet?
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How exciting!!!!!!! You deserve so much credit for not giving up, being totally focused on getting better, and routinely maintaining a positive attitude.
WELL DONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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I'm also fairly sure that once I am back working that I will see even more continued improvement in function and hopefully some weight loss too. The future really does seem bright for the first time in a long time. I feel like I have spent so much time fighting to get here and now it just feels like the world is full of marvelous possibilities. Of course...I still have not heard back from anyone at work yet about when I can start back again...but I hope it will be today some time. I'm sure they have busily been trying to deal with this "news" and are trying to sort out what to do with me now. But I don't care...they could stick me in the crummiest store with the worst employees and I would still be in heaven just to be back. I thrive in adversity anyway...lol! |
Yay!! So exciting, Im very happy to hear thatM best wishes to you moving forward!!
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catra,
Just got back from a little trip. I am so happy for you. You give us all hope just by being positive.:D Congratulations. |
It is great to read a "positive" reply here! Nice change of pace from some of the trials and tribulations that we are all going through with CRPS.
Whatever you can do to return to some sort of "normalcy" is very important! Work gives you a sense of purpose. And that sense of purpose is very important to our mental health. It is a component I have lost since having to go on disability. Good for you!!! Couldn't be happier for you. It may take a bit of time for you and your co-workers to adjust; stay positive and be open with them and it will work out!:D |
Sad to say...what should have been a crowning moment and joyous occassion for me has now turned quite ugly quite fast. I was told I should not report to work and that I would be contacted by someone at corporate which happened this afternoon. Sadly...instead of doing the right thing and allowing me to return to work they have decided to illegally discrimminate against me for my disability and retaliate against me for filing a work comp claim. It was said in no uncertain terms that they would not start termination proceedings against me until my work comp claim is closed but that upon close of my claim it will result in my separation from employment (I think this terminology was used because they hope that I will include resignation as part of the work comp settlement...which I will not). Disappointing...and I very emotional and upset right now...but I will fight this and file a charge against them with the EEOC and get myself a good employment attorney. I really really wish they had just done the right thing so that it did not need to come to this but I cannot control the actions of others. They will do what they will do and I will do what I have to so that I protect my rights. So sad...but life will go on.
Good news is that I should be able to start the tDCS treatments immediately since I will not have to adjust to my work schedule first. Small ray of sunshine in this otherwise dark situation...but I'll take it and continue to focus on improving my health while I go through all the legal battles. |
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The best is yet to come for you!!!!!!!! |
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Sorry to hear the news about your work situation. As they say it takes all kinds, but as for standing up for self, "you go girl". Just consider the response from your employer a bump on the road to success. Hang in there. Joydee |
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Good idea to get a good employment attorney involved. But that doesn't mean that you won't be able to return to work "somewhere", whether through a successful case against your employer, or with a different employer. Another bump in the road. All of us with CRPS get more than our share of those, don't we? This journey we are on is NOT a straight line! Keep up the determined spirit and good luck on your tDCS treatments! |
catra,
sorry to hear the disappointing news. My employer wouldn't let me come back on my rollabout either. I was heartbroke as I am sure you are. |
Catra - first of all I want to congratulate you on getting yourself to a point to be able to return to work. For that you should remain proud and excited.
For what your employer did, not so good! Sounds like you might have a good case there though. Looks like you might have two issues here, if it is workers comp retaliation, then you are protected under the Workers Compensation Law and possibly ADA for your disability. ADA has had a lot of changes recently, so check them out. You can get a copy of the Workers Compensation Act by googling it for your state and look for "Unlawful Discrimination". The EEOC does not cover workers comp issues, but it does cover discrimination! Good Luck to you!! Nanc :hug: |
Thanks so much everyone. It is sort of heartbreaking...but I will persevere and keep fighting for what I want. If I cannot return to work for my employer then I will find somewhere that I can work. I most likely will not be the same sort of position or the same sort of pay/benefits...but I will take that over nothing.
Started the process with the EEOC today and scheduled an appointment to meet with an investigator. I am loving the fact that I save everything and have lots of documentation to support my case...so I have begun to gather all that together to put in a file that I can bring with me when I meet with the investigator. I have also been very diligent about making sure that I not only put everything in writing myself but that I got many things in writing from my employer as well which will support my case. Best case scenario as far as I am concerned would be if I was reinstated at work and paid my back pay from the beginning of this mess AND that the EEOC makes my employer put things in place to ensure that this sort of discrimmination does not take place in the future. I do not know whether my employer would ever consider reinstating my employment...but if not then they can pay through the noses. In any case...I will not allow this sort of illegal behavior to just be swept under the rug. I don't care how long it takes...I will fight for my rights and the rights of others. I also have some phone consultations set up with various employment lawyers. Now that I've had the "pleasure" of working with an attorney in my work comp case I believe that I have a better understanding of what I am actually looking for in an attorney. So my fingers are crossed that I will find one that I like soon. But the more important thing is filing the charge with the EEOC. Thank you everyone for your continued support and kind thoughts. I know some people don't find much value in the relationships that they form on the internet...but I surely do. It means a lot to me that there are people out there who are compassionate and understand what I am going through. It really does mean a lot to me and I am so very thankful for this forum. |
If I remember correctly you're in the medical field? As am I. The human resources dept has made it quite clear to me full normal duty is not in my future either. I'm a civil servant and have more rights, union. Are you unionized? They've been helpful and free! About the only thing that is!
Good luck to you! |
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It is great that you have an appt with EEOC already!! It is also great that you have all of your documentation, it will help them and YOU so much in pursuing this! Some internet relationships can be the best...I met my husband online :D We have been married almost 13 years now, and he is great with all I go through. He didn't sign up for this as I was in remission when we met, but he loves me and it shows! I am lucky in that respect, for sure! This forum has helped me quite a bit too, so I agree with you wholeheartedly. Keep us posted and I wish you the best! Nanc :hug: |
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At any rate...I will fight them with whatever means I can and hope for the best. Even if I lose (big comany vs little old me)...at least I will know I gave it every effort. In the mean time I suppose I should start working on the old resume (been working for this company since I was 17...almost 11 years) and see what kind of work is out there for me. Good times... |
catra,
I thought about filling with the EEOC but I just gave up fighting. A year has now passed since I last worked and now I believe the time limit is passed. |
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I think employers do a lot of things and take advantage of employees betting that they will not fight it. Some won't because they don't know what sorts of remedies are out there for them...but I imagine many just don't have it in them to fight and just give up. At least...I have seen this in particular with work comp cases. They just make you miserable until you throw your hands up and say it just isn't worth it anymore. It's so messed up. A couple years ago after I was first injured they pulled something at work where they didn't pay me for one day where I showed up, worked for an hour, and then they sent me home (disagreement about my restrictions). Well...I'm salaried and I worked for an hour before they sent me home so that means according to federal labor laws...I get paid. I informed a number of people at the company of this including my boss, payroll, and HR and they all just ignored me. Fine...I called the department of labor. Several months later after an investigation they had to cut me a check for that day. Seriously...does anyone really think I gave a crud about $168? But that wasn't the point...it was illegal and I wasn't going to just let it go. I gave them every opportunity to correct the situation...even informing them of what the law is...but they didn't do it so I brought in the department of labor. Now they're doing something illegal again and I am filing a charge with the EEOC. At any rate...you are not alone Alt...this is what emplyers want is for us to be so dejected and frustrated that we almost HAVE to give up fighting or the stress and frustrations will kill us. That's part of why I want to fight and not just sweep it under the rug as part of a settlement...I want to do my part to help make sure that this does not happen again...or at least that it is harder for them to do something like this to another employee. |
I am sorry that you have to face this added uneeded stress. I think your positive view and fighter attitude is amazing and will pay off.
Also that is great about starting the new treatment which I have not heard of but am going to look up. Regardless I wish you health,pain free,and a wonderful job. Who knows maybe this will open a door to something even better? Stay strong |
My wc atty wanted me to wait until my wc was settled. Unfortunatley, it took more time than what was allowed. Which I don't know if I would go back at this point or not. Their atty. says I need to look for employment elsewhere while the HR director says she has never fired me. (and I still have their insurance) so I guess I am still employeed their.
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Isn't it interesting how HR and their own attorneys never seems to talk to one another? Just more of their games I think...
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Well...today was my big day...my meeting with the EEOC. It seemed like it went well and that I have a solid case. Now it's just about waiting to see where things go from here...what my employer's response is and whether they are willing to work things out. But a charge has officially been filed against them for disability discrimmination and all I can hope is that we are able to come to some resolution in a quickly before I go completely bankrupt.
In the mean time I have started to put together my resume and started looking in to different opportunities out there. I am realistic...the walker is going to be a huge obstacle to my getting a job...and anything out there in my own field even if I DID get hired would mean a very large paycut (and loss of certain benefits that I have earned over time with my current employer). I have also started to look into and think about other careers which I might enjoy. I love what I do now...but if I can't find a job doing it then I will have to do something else. There's a few things that I found that I could maybe do from home but...well...pay would be a big factor and I don't know what the insurance situation would be in those situation (do people who work from home generally have group insurance through their employer...something I would have to look into). I also don't like that they would be less active...but if I can't find something in my own field then I would likely be limited to similar non-active work environments even if they were in an office. But anyway...fingers crossed that we can get this worked out and that I can just go back to work with my accommodations. That would be the best outcome in my opinion...but I just have no idea what work is going to do. So far they have acted in ways that I couldn't even expect (even when I expected bad)...so we'll just have to wait and see what they come up with next. |
Glad the meeting went well. I hope that things will work out. You have a positive spirit and it sounds like you are working hard to figure out an alternative.
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Not sure what type of work or injury you had, but I am SO sorry for the manner in which your employer is acting. I wish you the best in your recovery and the possibility of continued employment elsewhere.
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