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bizi 05-03-2012 05:15 PM

OT: Sell your old jewelry and coins.
 
I dug out of my jewelry box rings from old boy friends etc and silver quarters and an old tarnish bangle bracelet. Took it to the gold market at the mall and sold it for $100.
woo hoo! Called jeff and told him I was taking him to dinner!
boiled crawfish and char broiled oysters!!!!:D
bizi

Abbie 05-03-2012 08:25 PM

I could use the money and I would do that but I've got rings that will go to my nieces and chains that will go to my nephews....when or in time.

I have a ring that was to go to my recently deceased niece..it's silver with her birthstone--aquamarine. I paid a forture for it and was going to give it to her on her 25th birthday...but since that can't happen, I've decided that I'm going to dig it out of it's safety box and wear it in her honor/memory.

My other jewelry will just have to wait...the girls can fight over it maybe for their girls somewhere down the line.

:confused:
Abbie

bizi 05-03-2012 10:48 PM

hugs for you dear abbie
((((((HUGS))))))
bizi

Brokenfriend 05-03-2012 10:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Abbie (Post 875909)
I could use the money and I would do that but I've got rings that will go to my nieces and chains that will go to my nephews....when or in time.

I have a ring that was to go to my recently deceased niece..it's silver with her birthstone--aquamarine. I paid a forture for it and was going to give it to her on her 25th birthday...but since that can't happen, I've decided that I'm going to dig it out of it's safety box and wear it in her honor/memory.

My other jewelry will just have to wait...the girls can fight over it maybe for their girls somewhere down the line.

:confused:
Abbie

Abbie That's very sweet of you to where it in Ashley's honor/memory. BF:hug::hug::hug:

Mari 05-04-2012 01:16 AM

Jewelry is fun.
 
I gave away my one one or two gold rings when I was manic a while back. I have not bought jewelry since then.
The nicest thing I have is a sliver ring with a citrine stone I bought in Fort Meyers last year.


M

Lara 05-04-2012 06:56 AM

Well done, bizi!

I reckon we all need to do a little feng shui from time to time. :) I try to do it by sorting out things and not collecting what I feel is clutter.

I use/wear a lot of crystals these days and have done for years now. I've gone back to my roots really.

Many, many years ago I wore gold and diamonds and pearls. My wedding ring had a sideways cut in it to fit the pear shaped diamond of my engagement ring. When my ex and I were moving from our first house (this is over 21 years ago mind you), I lost the diamond from my engagement ring while I was packing. I was so terribly distressed at the time. BUT.. It was never found. My ex got the insurance and spent it on something else. :o Some years later after we had split up, I threw my cut out wedding ring off the side of a cliff. Don't get a wedding ring with a chunk out of the middle. It's not a good look. :(

:Blush2:

Mari 05-04-2012 07:01 AM

Lara,

Literally tossing a ring is probably quite liberating. You freed yourself. :)

M

Lara 05-04-2012 07:26 AM

It was great in the moment. What's that word? Cathartic?

Let's just say I tried to free myself by that gesture but that wasn't rational.

In the moment and on some level I freed myself from some things, yes. We have two amazing children (grown up now) so one can never really "disconnect" from a relationship like that I don't think. <sigh>

bizi 05-04-2012 09:30 AM

cathartic is a good word!
hugs to you lara!
I need to clean out some clutter...some day...:rolleyes:

waves 05-04-2012 10:03 AM

old jewelery for fancy food? ... No way, not me!
 
I have very little jewelery. Each of the few pieces of I do have is meaningful - given to me by this relation or that person, some now deceased. I take them out and look at them sometimes, let each item stir memories of who gave it to me, our bond, that period of time, our times together - often happy ones.

Selling any of that is not for me... much less for one night of fancy eating.
:o :( :Noooo: :( :o

~ waves ~

bizi 05-04-2012 05:53 PM

WEll I could not remember who gave me them or where I got them from
(not family heirlooms), a couple of rings that I bought myself that had missing stones etc.
worked for me.
bizi

Mari 05-05-2012 01:14 AM

Bizi,

You did great. Maybe you have some other things to sell.


M

waves 05-05-2012 06:51 PM

different strokes for different folks.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by bizi (Post 876224)
WEll I could not remember who gave me them or where I got them from
(not family heirlooms), a couple of rings that I bought myself that had missing stones etc.
worked for me.
bizi

i guess the title just kinda hit me. sounded like an instruction "Sell your..." - not "I sold my..." :o Accordingly, my post was not about you - it was about me. I thought it was ok to say I had a different situation and felt different. And I don't have any heirlooms, just little gifts.

Reading your post felt pretty poignant despite the different situation. The title as an suggestion to do the same felt really poignant ... I guess my reply was too.

I am sorry if I upset you, Bizi. That certainly was not my intent.

~ waves ~

Mari 05-05-2012 07:15 PM

Waves,

It is beautiful that you have gifts. I can see why you treasure them. I do not have anything like that.


M

bizi 05-05-2012 11:11 PM

no offense sweetie, was hoping I had not offended you.
(((((HUGS)))))
bizi:o


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