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bizi 10-16-2012 11:46 PM

good thoughts and prayers requested.....
 
My sister and her family are undergoing a trial related to the death of my 9 year old nephew mathew...ten years ago.THey will be in court for this week and possibly next week. It has been awful for them...all of these years and hopefully will have some closure soon.
sending good thoughts to jill and jim and jimmy.
bizi

Brokenfriend 10-17-2012 12:41 AM

Bizi I just said a prayer for the family.:smileypray: BF:hug::hug::hug:

waves 10-17-2012 12:44 AM

Dear Bizi

Oh my! That is a long time to wait for a trial for something like that. I feel for them. Of course I will send good thoughts as they undergo this process. please keep us posted. :circlelove:

love and big hugs to you :heartthrob:

~ waves ~

Brokenfriend 10-17-2012 12:51 AM

This sounds like a terrible ordeal that they have been through. BF:hug::hug::hug:

Dmom3005 10-17-2012 02:20 PM

Bizi

Sending prayers and some hugs. I think this makes everything I'm going
through seem so small. I hope they get some closure.

Donna:hug::grouphug:

Abbie 10-17-2012 02:36 PM

Holding all of you in my heart while lifting all of you in my prayers!!!!!

Hugs,
Abbie

mymorgy 10-18-2012 08:00 AM

sending good thoughts and prayers. how awful.
bobby

Mari 10-18-2012 08:39 AM

Dear Bizi,

I am sending good thoughts and prayers.



M

ginnie 10-18-2012 12:38 PM

Hello Bizi
 
I will pray for your sister and her family. I hope there is closure for her family. ginnie:hug:

BlueMajo 10-19-2012 02:07 PM

Aw, I understand how stressful that can be !! :hug:

I will keep you and them all in my thoughts and prayers so this can end soon and in a positive way without hurting much...

:hug:

Let us know.

bizi 10-19-2012 09:39 PM

Well week one is down and they are doing as good as can be expected. yesterday was especially hard but very empowering. I am getting updates from a good friend of theirs and my dad. Next week the defense bring in their witnessesthey will be done thursday or friday.
thank you for your prayers and good thoughts.
bizi

BlueMajo 10-19-2012 10:19 PM

Keep us posted bizi.... :hug:

DiMarie 10-29-2012 01:14 AM

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Originally Posted by bizi (Post 924121)
Well week one is down and they are doing as good as can be expected. yesterday was especially hard but very empowering. I am getting updates from a good friend of theirs and my dad. Next week the defense bring in their witnessesthey will be done thursday or friday.
thank you for your prayers and good thoughts.
bizi

I am so sorry for the Bizi. Especially this week as the defense has their go. They attack the emotions, break you down, relive the horror. My prayers for strength will by with them.
I know what they are going through and how difficult it is. There is no word to describe how it takes a toll and the defense preys on that.
Hugs and prayers.
Love Di

Ms manic 10-29-2012 01:57 AM

I pray for God's peace to rest on them (and Aunty too).

bizi 10-29-2012 08:42 AM

I am sorry for not updating you guys.
the trial is over it was a hung jury....they could not come to an agreement on 2 of the 3 charges/entities . one they the surgeon they found not guilty, the anesthesiologist they found 5 out of 6 found him not guilty but the surgicenter they found it 5 out of 6 guilty. so that now they will either settle out of court or have a new trial. I hope they settle as they spent so much money on the trial and it has gone on for 10 years...I want my sister and her family to have some closure and heal. IT is long over due.
thank you for your kind words of support.
bizi

waves 10-29-2012 12:44 PM

Dear Bizi,

I'm sorry this ordeal your family endured did not give them the closure they had hoped for. My hopes are with you that they will be able to settle quickly at this point, so that they can indeed move on.

My continued well wishes to your family in this matter.

(((hugs)))

~ waves ~

DiMarie 11-02-2012 05:33 PM

Oh, not the out come I was hoping to hear for them. Ten years, their aching hearts. I don't know what is wrong with juries. I am so glad that I decided to go with a mediator. Because of his wife's death near the end it added five extra months, but finally over and favorable.

The monetary is bitter sweet. There is no way to explain how you feel when it is used. Even to make new memories, the old ones are relived and feel so unfair.
I hope there is a generous settlement made and closure. Healing, does not happen,but the battle is finally over.

My prayers for their family.

bizi 11-02-2012 05:54 PM

they are waiting on some new test results....their is a condition called rapid metabolizer that some of these other kids who have died following this same procedure. they had tissue samples left to be tested to rule this out for him. I hope that comes back soon.
bizi

katmae 11-07-2012 06:54 PM

prayers
 
all my prayers and best wishes for closur to your family I know how hard it is to lose a child as I lost my middle son in 2001 and it still not easy to deal with , I gess because it is not sapose to work that way are children are sapose to out live us not the other way around,just know I will be sending up many prayers for you and them:grouphug::grouphug:

bizi 11-07-2012 07:15 PM

thank you katmea!
bizi

Goshawk 11-08-2012 11:38 PM

Heart and soul
 
My heart goes out to you and your family. I wish you well for your family and the trial ahead. Best of luck! Be mindful of what you do have in the present.

katmae 11-13-2012 05:13 PM

family
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by bizi (Post 929618)
thank you katmea!
bizi

I hope all is going well with the trial and that your family is doing well:hug:

bizi 11-14-2012 09:17 AM

The second trial is in the works the lawyers are posturing and we are hoping that they will settle instead of going thru another very expensive trial.
thanks for your kind words.
bizi

katmae 11-14-2012 10:42 AM

I hope for your familys sake that it settle, it sounds like they have been through enough with out having to do it all over again, how are you doing I hope all this is not stressing you out to bad I will continue to pray for all of you((hugs))

katmae 11-16-2012 09:25 AM

bizi
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by bizi (Post 923276)
My sister and her family are undergoing a trial related to the death of my 9 year old nephew mathew...ten years ago.THey will be in court for this week and possibly next week. It has been awful for them...all of these years and hopefully will have some closure soon.
sending good thoughts to jill and jim and jimmy.
bizi

I truely hope all is going well for you and your family,I am stll praying for all of you :grouphug:

katmae 11-16-2012 09:31 AM

worried
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Abbie (Post 923450)
Holding all of you in my heart while lifting all of you in my prayers!!!!!

Hugs,
Abbie

Abbie, I hope everything is going okay for you everyone seems to be worried just remeber that you have friends that love,care and pray for you:grouphug:

bizi 11-16-2012 10:22 AM

My sister said there was much healing going on during that trial. She has a good head on her shoulders and lots of love in her heart. She has amazing strength.:)
bizi

Ms manic 11-18-2012 07:14 AM

Sounds like you do too, Bizi.

katmae 11-22-2012 06:04 PM

still praying
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by bizi (Post 932116)
My sister said there was much healing going on during that trial. She has a good head on her shoulders and lots of love in her heart. She has amazing strength.:)
bizi

I hope she can handle it all,I don't care how strong you are or how good your head is,when it comes to our childern that would have to be real difacult,I still pray for y'all every day:hug::grouphug:


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