Still no word yet...
 

And it's getting to the wire. We gave notice today so that we will be able to move in there in a few weeks given that they accept our application. I can hardly stand all this waiting...We gave in and gave notice to the current landlord without knowing their decision, they better NOT reject our application, I will be so disappointed...Hopefully it will all work out. Wish us luck on our continued wait...:p

Crossing fingers
 

Dear Pamster,
this is so frustrating...why the drag in the yes no answer...it is so unfair...and controlling.
you are doing well waiting...I am not a good at that...get very impatient.
it is like they are holding you hostage.
(((HUGS)))
bizi

Pamster - The waiting is always the worst. I have no patience with that.

I would be calling and checking on it, can't hurt, plus it makes you look very concerned and show's you really want this place.

That's me anyway.

Good luck, I am saying prayers for you!!!!!

No news is good news.......as they say.

Nikko:hug:

yes
 

Maybe it would be a good thing to call,no patience have I:( Hope
all goes well.:)

DiMarie,don't you dare cross those EYES,don't you know they will
stay that way!! The thought was nice though :D

If i could cross my fingers and toes without saying ouch i would,but
none of the eyes thing:wink: :wink: Sue

I appreciate the encouragement everyone, all I think we can really do is wait, I am about to call her office, it doesn't open until 2pm. I am calling to let her know we can move in at the end of May which I hope will help them say yes because it shows I am going on good faith. It is driving me up the wall all this waiting though. I just had to post about it! :eek: :mad: :cool:

Just as long as the end results in us living in this new place I don't mind waiting a few more days, just as long as the ultimate goal is reached you know? I am so scared something might fall through since they have yet to get our application approved or rejected. I sure hope we hear today but I won't be counting on it, I bet it will be tomorrow before I hear the answer. :(

Go for it and CALL..........you really have to know, since you already gave your notice where you live now, so tell them that.

Two weeks go by fast.......Well it's 2:30pm my time, not sure where you are and what time it is. Let us know.

P.S. Are you dealing with just one person in the office or talking to different people? Go to the source that you started the process with.

Lots of Luck, Hope, and prayers, Nikko:hug: ;)

Yes I would call too. I am also waiting for an apartment and its murder on the nerves. Luckily its not that bad just a pain in the *****. We are living in a very small apartment and I am surprised Todd and I haven't killed each other in the past 2 and 1/2 years. Our landlord has a 2 bedroom and much larger apartment that needs to be worked on and cleaned because two cats are residents right now. Todd is majorly allergic to cats so we have to wait until the kitties move then the true wait begins. Their work staff is sooooo sloooooow so who knows when we will get in there. I hope by fall. That would be nice.
So I know what it is like to wait......good luck! Let us know.

Thanks Wendy, and thank you too Nikko, I think I will hear something either today and next week at the latest, it's so hard to just be patient, but hopefully it's all going to be worth it. It shouldn't be this hard to get into an apartment. This is the most strignet application process we've ever been through. It will all be worth it but goodness the anxiety about possible rejection doesn't make my stomach tighten in knots and my abdomen flutter with fear.

It will be worth it once we're in there, but getting there will be very hard. We don't have a truck and I think we're going to move in a few days early, so we only have a couple of weeks before said move. I have so much to do it's not even funny. I hope things work out good for us and that we get accepted at the new place soon, so I can go get keys and start moving tubs of stuff over to it. ;)

We've got about twenty tubs so far and four or five more to go, so other then that and clothes, I figure I will be taking clothes over in garbage bags, folded and ready to be placed in the dressers. I just hope we're going to get that yes answer, whenever we get word, that the word is YES. That's the big fear right now. :)

Keeping my fingers crossed......

Moving is stressful in itself, so hang in there.

It would be nice if you got the word today, then you could have a happy happy weekend!!!!

Nikko;)

Pam,

Let us here from you today whether you got any news yet. I've been keeping my fingers crossed for you too.

befuddled2

Can you believe it? NOTHING yet? I am about ready to give up too. She said she was 'pretty sure' the boss would okay everything, but that it was up to him, and that she'd call the moment she got the word. I don't know about it though, I don't think we're going to hear anything for a few more days, and I just have to endure another weekend of NOT knowing. I am so tired about this waiting, I don't know what we can do to get it resolved any faster either. The woman seems to have only one speed, slower then turtles, you know? :confused:

It might be mid next week before we hear anything, they have so much paperwork to go through that we filled out so I wouldn't be surprised that it moves to Wednesday before we hear anything. :p I am going on the assumption that this lady is right, her boss won't reject us because of my credit or lack thereof. Already told Jackie and he's understanding it I think, I asked him, "Do you understand Jackie?" After telling him he'd have his own room again and a park to play on and he replied "yes" so he gets it.

I am working on the idea that we're moving in there because we've jumped through all the hoops they asked us to and now they have all their precious paperwork, now the big boss can make his determination next week and give us the go ahead so we can go put down a deposit and get keys. We're organizing and getting ready to start moving, hopefully soon like in the next two weeks start to take tubs of stuff to the new place. :)

Honestly I cannot believe it's Monday and we didn't hear anything. I am so sick of this waiting! :mad: I don't want to be patient any longer I want KEYS! Hehehe. ;) I hope they call tomorrow or I am calling to ask how long does it usually take before we hear because I am really up to HERE with just looking at the phone willing it to ring. :(

I am really stressing over this. I want it so bad and the fear of losing it after all this time is really hard to cope with. I hope that it works out awesome and we get a new aide to come out and help us take Jackie to that park that is there. I really want it for him more then anything, for him to have this new place to grow up in. It might not have a fenced yard but we're going to make the most of it. :)

This is the only way I can get through this, is to day dream about being there in a few weeks. I don't know what else to do, I can't write, can't concentrate enough to work on editing my first novel, it's maddening to still be waiting! :eek: :confused:

Dear Pamster,
I am so sorry that you are still waiting for an answer.:confused:
You poor thing.
I hate waiting and am very impatient....
They know that you have given notice????
just wanted to shout out to ya and give you a hug
((((HUGS))))
bizi:grouphug:

Thanks so much for the hug bizi, I really am in need of some TLC about now. I feel so on edge. I just want to get it over with and move on and into the new place. I can see the end of the month coming where we're going to be expected to move in and have everything taken care of. I am just nervous they will reject us based on my lack of credit and all. That could still happen, so hopefully this boss person will get my application approved tomorrow morning so this manager lady can call to give me the good news, that we qualified for the unit we signed up for. :)

How else can I be dealing with this you know? I can't think of any other way to distract myself OUT of worrying. It seems to be the best I can do, and each day passes brings us closer to the end days of May where I pray we're going to be in this new place by June 1st. It's so darn hard having so much hinging on the decision they come to about our application, I am so tired of the stress, I just want it all over with. Thanks for caring bizi. (((((hugs))))

Pamster,

Whenever I come here, I look for your post that will say that you got the house and have started packing.

You'll get it. I just hope that you don't wear yourself out with worry first!
'Keeping fingers crossed for you.
Mari.

Thanks Mari, I can't wait to make that post! :D It's coming, I am sure it is. Just hate the itty bitty, nagging doubt I have about their decision. I am calling today to ask how much longer does she think it's going to take before we hear back. :)

Any news yet?????????????????????????????????



Nikko:hug:

Not one word....Can you believe it? :mad: :confused:

It's Wednesday now, did they give you any idea when you will have an answer???????

Keep on them, that's all I can think of.

Prayers are with you......Nikko:hug:

I feel like their silence is the answer, meaning "no..." I hope I'm wrong and they call tomorrow saying they have a lease ready for us. I am trying to get a hold of her and she never answered the phone today, so I assume she was busy doing other things. :( Hopefully this will work out, I am depressed as heck over it. Saw my T today and talked about how upset I am about this. It was nice to be listened to and I am glad to see her again. I went about a year and a half between the last visit and this one. Still feel pretty stable in spite of feeling depressed about the situation. :(

sigh...
hang in there...
((((HUGS))))
bizi

Thanks bizi, I am doing my best to be patient but my patience is worn out from dealing with this lady. Thanks for the hugs. :)

This is crazy......I think it's time to go right to the top! Is it a large leasing company? I would call and ask for a manager or someone on top.

They have to give you an answer. Tomorrow is Friday, I would tell them you need to know before the weekend. Good Luck

Hugs, Nikko:hug:

Yeah, I am really about to give up on this. I feel so disppointed, I don't think it's going to work out and we're going to be stuck here. I talked to her today and she sounded like things were moving along, but she still hadn't heard from her boss. I don't think it's going to work out that we get in there. Been crying off and on today, just so down it's not even funny. :(

Why does life have to suck so much? Why can't we get a break and have this work out for us? I don't understand how they can be taking THIS LONG to decide on our application. I just hate my life right now. Hate all the stress and the pain I feel over this disappointing experience. It's such a shame that this couldn't work out. :(

But I don't see it working out. I see us stuck here and I hate it. :(

Oh pamster...I am so sorry that this is happeneing to you guys...
They have treated you so poorly in this decision making...
anyway to go above her and complain like her boss.
You are heart broken and I am so sorry for this.
(((((HUGS))))
bizi

You said it, I am heartbroken, I sat here and cried yesterday afternoon while the kiddo was at school and this morning I am planning on going back to bed and sleeping with the phone next to me just in case. Because I really don't think it's going to happen, I mean we're in the middle of the month just about and still NOTHING. :(

Thank you for being here for me bizi and for caring, it makes me feel a little better to know that my friends support me during the good and the bad times. And this is definitely one of the bad times. I haven't laid in bed all day for awhile, but I think I am due for it. I am just sick over this. I can't write and I can't edit, I sat here yesterday thinking about how I can't DO anything right now, my heart just isn't into it. :(

I too am so sorry you are being treated like this.

I hope you feel better soon.

They seem very unprofessional to say the least. I wish you could get someone at a top level there to talk to - or get the woman's boss's number.

Or even better, go there. I know you don't feel up to it.

I would be very upset too.

Lots of Hugs, Nikko:hug:

Well guess what? The lady called and told me today around noon that we got approved! :D So things are looking up. :D I was so sure things were going to go the other way, I guess patience paid off. ;) :)

YIPPEE! Now finally you can get your ducks in a row again!

I know it's awesome isn't it? :D Now to get the keys and sign the lease! :D

Oh, Pamster - I am SO happy to hear this good news!!!

Yippeee!

Thanks MM's Mom! I am just tickled pink that we get to move forward with things. :) It's made my weekend so much better. ;) :D

Pamster,
I love good news!
Blessings on your new house.
M.

THis is just fantastic news!!!!!
I am so happy that you will get your new home and hopefully soon a new car!
((((HUGS))))
bizi:partytime2:

I am so glad, you sounded so sad and discourage Pamster, this is truely wonderful for your family!
Much happiness,
Di

Thanks everyone, I really had given up, I was certain they were about to tell us the big N-O, but I totally embrace being wrong-LOL! :D Now the hard part, getting in there and settled. :D

YIPPEE - So happy for you.......:D

Have a great weekend!!!!

Nikko:hug:

*does a happy dance* WOOO HOOO! :D Thanks everyone for being here for me during this incredibly LONG trying wait, I really was sure things weren't going to go our way on this but I think it was meant to be. I am so relieved! :D