Tgif -weekend Check In................
 

Happy Mother's Day to all. I hope you all have a nice day. Check in.....

I am a bit upset. Mike called and kept text messaging me last night. I took my phone off the hook, and the messaging finally stopped. I only spoke once on the phone to him.

He had been drinking, and blaming me for everything in the relationship.

It's like he held a bunch of crap inside and just let me have it last night, when he should of brought up what bothered him, at the point it did.

He wants to be friends, give me a break.......ugh grrrrr

I can't even talk about it anymore. So, glad it's over.

Hugs, Nikko:grouphug:

Good for you Nikko! Keep it up he will get the hint sooner or later....hopefully sooner! Jean-Claude should be at your door shortly!:D

Good for you to not take his displaced anger Nikko, you don't need it. You are a decent, kind and loving woman who deserves a man who's able to articulate his feelings better and one who isn't an alcoholic like Mike sounds like he is. You would be smart to not be 'friends' with him because he'll just take pot shots at you every now and then about your 'failed relationship' and you don't need it. At least that is what my experience has been like with ex's I tried to stay friends with. :p

Happy Mother's Day to everyone! I am pretty happy now that I got the call I was waiting for, we should be moving in there by June if all goes well. :) Life is looking up. :D

{{{{{Nanc}}}}}

Stay firm.

Pam, glad to hear the good news.

befuddled2

I am really happy, now we just have to get ready to move. :D

I peeked in Doug's door today around 4 when I was handing the banannas to his roommate Carl when Carl got back in the wheel chair. Doug told me I could come in. We visited for 2 1/2 hours and had the best ole time. He's hurting bad though from kemo and cannot eat. He has a fever. When I left he was laying down on the sofa and his feet were near the door. I held one of his big toes and wiggled it and told him to take care now. That's when he said for me to come back anytime. I really do think he thinks I'm special. He even ignored 2 phone calls while I was there. He has a good sense of humor. He told me where to take my car where I wouldn't get screwed and they should give me a ride home and if not he'll follow me there and bring me back home. He's got 17 more chemo treatements before getting a break but if he can't eat they will put him in the hospital. He asked me what kind of car my husband has and when I told him he said if he sees my husband car at the apartments he'll call the cops.

I just wanted to shout to the mountain tops, I AM SO HAPPY.

befuddled2

Dear Nikko,
I am sorry that you are getting this crap from him.
Please take care of you....
How is your mom?
bee...glad that you are having good conversations with your friend!
This feeling stuff is hard work...I am so glad that you are getting it.
Have a great mothers day weekend to all ...I am not a mother but I am to my cats harriet and hobbes!
anyone else watch the "PG" version of sex and the city?
It is my favorite! 6 nights a week....
the girls always bring a smile to my face..
bizi

How wonderful BF and Great Mothers Day thoughts
 

Thanks Bizi and Di,

Bizi I hope you have a nice weekend also.

Di, I am sorry to hear about your husband acting like that. I hope to go to the nursing home to visit my lady friend for Mother's day and take her some candy. She may not even get any visitors since her sons live about 12 hours away.

befuddled2

So much to write. Wow.

How about I love you all so much and I want you all to know I am thinking about you. Whether you are hurting or are sharing your joy, I am right there with you.

I am just doing life a step at a time right now. Nothing exciting, and nothing traumatic.

Really love you all.

HUGS :grouphug:

Happy Saturday to all..............hope it is a good day for all.

Need coffee.............going to be a hot one here today.....101

Thinking of you all - Smile:)


Nikko:grouphug:

Mrs. Bear, hope today is good for you.

Hi Nanc,

My brother is suppose to bring over my digital cameral I left there a few weeks ago and am waiting for him now.

befuddled2

I'm so glad things are working out with Doug BF. I've been following your story but couldn't think what to say. And Pam, finally congrats on the move. :D

Happy Saturday everyone. :Bawling:

Thank you Me BP, I am just tickled pink that we got the word Friday, makes for an awesome Mother's Day weekend here. :D

How are you doing? It looks like you're having a tough time judging by the crying emoticon, you ok?

We just did two more rubbermaid storage tubs of stuff, and I hope to be able to move some of them into the new place soon. Hopefully we can get things moving next week. :D

Arggg just the thought of moving gives me the creeps. I swear I'm never, ever moving again. But you sound so upbeat and cheery and for that I'm glad. :D

It's a very hard weekend for me with Mother's Day, hence the crying guy. And I still have a terrible headache from having my wisdom teeth out. I posted about her in grief and loss and gave God a call.....

http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/sh...ad.php?t=19510

I miss her so much. :(

I know how you feel about moving, its stressing me out to a degree, but the place is so nice I am ready to embrace all the work just to be able to get it over with. It will be so wonderful there, I kinda see us there already even though we've yet to move the first tubs of stuff. :p :wink:

I posted in that thread you started and I just want to offer you another hug :grouphug: you're not alone Me BP. This weekend will pass, I hope you don't cry too much tomorrow, it always leaves me congested and my eyes scratchy when I cry a lot, but sometimes I feel better afterwards. Take care Me BP. :(

Last night we went downtown and listened to a band play...an outdoor concert. they have music on friday evenings called downtown live!
WE sat and watched children play in the fountains that come out of the ground synchronized to different patterns.
What fun, even got a little wet myself.
Ran into some friends and watched their little girl Emma(16 months)
playing as well....she is adorable!
we are going to an art walk downtown tonight...they have this the 2nd saturday of the month. galleries are open from 6-9. will watch the munchies and wine that they all serve. Should be fun then we are going to watch a movie called Little Children...looks good anyone see it?
bizi

Just wanted to say that I know that this will be a very hard mothers day for you.
I hope you can give some hugs and kisses to anyone there close to you.
((((HUGS))))
bizi

i'm here. kids already gave me the mothers day cards they made they could not wait. how cute. feeling better. more energy and less depressed. i hope you all have a wonderful mothers day. we had dinner last night at my moms house she is going out of town today to visit her mom. have not been realy wanting to do anything social latley. been keeping to my self. shelly

I just love to see how close all of you have become here :grouphug: . I can't write very much, as I am wearing my wrist brace for my carpal tunnel, and it makes it hard for me to type; becomes a problem sometimes at work.

I'm glad everyone of you sounds happy, and enjoying life! Di, living to the moment and making as many good memories as you can is a great way to try to live your life!

Tomorrow, on Mother's Day, we have a few stores we have to get to, like Lowes and BJs. We dinally got our tax money back, it was quite a bit, and now we are going to FINALLY get a new front door and storm door. We haven't had a storm door in years, it was old and falling apart, and a windstorm really did a number on it! We are also going to get one of those beautiful screened gazebos to put in the backyard. In the afternoon, when it's supposed to be sunnier and fairly warm, we are going to a beautiful park in our community, and every Mother's Day, they have 'azalea day'. It's a beautiful park to walk through, lots of beautiful trees and flowers and pretty waterfalls, fountains, and other things. A lovely way to spend a Mother's Day afternoon.

Enjoy the day tomorrow, all you Moms, and all of the rest of you, too!

Jacquie http://bestsmileys.com/angles/12.gif

:hug: back Bizi :hug: I hope you enjoy your night out.

Sure will. I got my fur baby right next to me and will pass them on.

It's only 9:30 but I'm going to bed, will try any way. I'm so tired emotionally and physically. :Zzzz:

Hi,
I hope that people are doing well this weekend.

I slept off and on all day -- didn't even go outside. Hubby called my mom for mother's day and they talked so long that I fell asleep and missed talking to her.


M.

My friends and family
 

Thanks all, I am wishing a bright weekend, BF it is so kind of you to visit your lady friend. I know she is going to be thrilled to have a visitor and gift. You will be a blessing to her. Our Pamster will be packing and smiling, Nikko will have such warm weather and basking in the sun. Everyone have a great day.

I could use a collective group hug....it is just tightening in my chest, the memories and missing the goofy and the loving Mothers Day cards De would pick out and they all would sign. Thirty years ago Mothers Day they placed her pink cheeked, and tiny body in my arms, where I nursing her....

I had a few moments today when we were out. De would love that park. She always had so much pain, but had the biggest smiles and forget the pain for a few hours while enjoying the rides, picnic, and family fun.

She would normally take off with her younger brother and do the big stuff that she could tolerate and then meet up for lunch. Seeing Connor on the rides was her joy....Her brother just stuck with us today and then I stayed with grandson as he napped and the older ones rode the coasters. I am NOT a coaster person, even pre-injury.

Sorry, bit of whine with the post...I just hide it at home so they don;t worry about me.
I love you all dearly, have a grand day how ever it is spent.
Di :hug:
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Dear DiMarie

:grouphug:

I'm sure that she was a beautiful baby.
It is good that you have these memories.

M.

dear Di,
my heart goes out to you today as well.
amazing how much support we get here.
I am thankful for this.
the movie little children was very good and suprise ending
no wonder it was up for an award.
and I just love kate winslet!
was able to clean my bathroom which was in desperate need of attention, scrubbed all of the old hairspare off the floor that had accumulated over the years. the room smells of pine saw and I love using that for cleaning.
hubby cleaned his bathroom as well which was growing some black mold of sorts.ugh!
but it is much cleaner now, he used this cleaner called "Bam" sounds toxic
he was very careful using the stuff.
Art walk was fun, saw a couple of folks that we knew.
will be calling my dear mother tomorrow...well actually it is today!
bizi