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I'm having a bad day-Bubba's 59th Birthday :(
Words cannot express how much I miss this man !
I'm so sad. :( Happy Birthday Bubba....I love you Debi |
Hugs to you, Debi...:hug::hug::hug:
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Thank you mrsD
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Debi |
Hugs to you Debi,
I'm sure Bubba is smiling down on you on his Birthday. |
I'm so sorry Debi. :(
Thinking of you :hug: |
Debi,
Oh Sweetie, I am so sorry. I am sending extra hugs. Know that you are carried in Love each day, especially the hard ones... :hug: |
Dear Debi,
Know that I think about you daily. There will be these difficult days, nothing can be said to reduce the loss. But Anniversaries will pass any you will be left with the warm glow of memories filling your heart. Know that you generate so much love, from those around you and from your friends here, that you are never alone.:grouphug: Dave. |
Thinking of you and sending extra special hugs your way.
It's so hard when these days come along. I hope you've had family around today to help get you through. Sometimes nothing works except a good cry and then a nap. I remember when these days would come around. Seemed everything I did or saw or heard or thought of reminded me of him. The first year was hard. Second year not as hard but still stung. It's been 15 years (or will be this July) since he's been gone. I never thought I'd survive without him......but I have. It's been tough sometimes but I'm still here plugging along. I hope you feel better tomorrow, Debi. Nothing I can say or do will take away the pain you feel but I know it will ease up with time. :hug: |
To all
Thank you all for your caring words and hugs. Very much appreciated.
So far every 'special' date or Holiday has really gotten to me. Hoping these are just 'firsts' and won't last every year. I just still cannot believe he is gone....Gone from this life where so many loved him. I know he rests in the comfort of our dear Lord. It was just so soon in his life and mine. I always thought we would grow old together and have our little fusses and make ups. All of this has been much easier to get through due to all of you my dear friends. I cannot thank you enough for supporting and caring for me. Debi |
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as you reflect hold on to the fact he loves you and you love him you so miss his touch his voice "is there anything i can do for you" his thoughtfulness unlike any other i am certain i cannot say i know what i am talking about i would hope if it were me i would hope to remember that You are loved by Bubba i am sad for you love me |
Debi, I think of you almost daily, I wonder aloud how is Debi doing today and I log on to see how you are, I'm so sorry I missed yesterday. Today, the day after, I hope and pray you felt Bubbas presence, in the house, just a breath of air, an unexpected warm patch previously unfelt. We all love and support you as you mark another occasion xxx:hug:
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Hi Debi,
I have not been reading any posts the last few days so I am late seeing this thread. Nothing more I can say that others have not already said. So sorry that you will not have the chance to grow old with Bubba but he will always be in your heart. |
thinking of you debi and wanting you to know how sorry i am for your loss. but i too believe he will always be in your heart. hope it helps to know that you have friends here that care about you and are always here if you need to talk. love and hugs.
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Thank you RSD
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I had my taxes done this evening and it was hard....I cried a little talking about Bubba. Thank goodness Luke was with me. I kept putting off getting my tax info together because I had to go through my 2015 calendar where I wrote everything down. It was like going through all of the heartache again with Bubba. All his visit dates and notes were just there....starting at me from the calendar. So very sad. And then I get home and see your message to me....God is good you know ? I have so many awesome friends here that have always been by my side. Priceless I say. And to my Hope....I love you sweet lady ! Debi |
reminders
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Your loss never to be forgotten your friends always here to catch you it must be difficult this i have not gone through myself a suicide yes and this i wrote about to have surprise situations that brings up the memory of Bubba welcome it i sound nuts right there just give me a chance to explain it must be one of the most painful sad experience i may bypass not having that special someone you my sweet friend have awesome memories to alway call upon it is still so close to his passing time does not heal all wounds and have the memories your memories you can always call upon is a special gift left behind until you are one again and i think you understand what i mean leaving religion out of this his birthday maybe can be celebrated in his honor who knows but for now know you have us to lean on while our Father drives Your train the goo bad indifferent you have it all having shared Your life with Your LOVE his Spirit lives it lives through YOU and the ones who remember him when on this planet we call earth i am trying to suggest rather then stay sad of his physical being gone to kiss him just one more time oh sweet Jesus i has to be excruciating hats off to you and for your constant love for Bubba nobody but you and him know where Your heart lies until you meet again you live life as you existance MATTERS you matter we matter we must keep moving forward and know we have each other many times i feel lonely but i refuse to give up there are persons interested in me we shall see as i stay true to myself and not let sadness prevail but let moments of memories bring happiness to your heart and a smile on your face he is at your side this i believe with much love at a time you are feeling sad me |
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