cecilia
 

there was a misunfderstanding

Glad to hear that things are o.k.

M

She's such a good friend. I hope that things will turn out alright, and soon :hug:

i don't know

i called cecilia about my neighbor's having problems last night. she called today and then asked if i wanted to go for coffee. I said no thank you. I was going to the senior center. she is going to syracuse to show sofia. I called epic a drug program and once again heard great news that they cover the donut hole. that save one or two thousand dollars.

i feel relieved unless the pharmacies have something up their sleeves. I caught them on one drug.One wanted to charge me 56 collars where epic charges 7 dollars! the other pharmacy at first wanted to charge me 26dollars but after a few tries charged me seven dollars

Coverage in the donut hole is HUGE!!! I don't have it, but wish I did. I don't get extra help, so it would be so expensive for me it wouldn't be worthwhile.

Have you seen Cecilia at all since the misunderstanding?
What are your feelings about seeing her in the future? Do you feel like you just need more time, or do you need her to make an apology or some kind of concession first?

it is topamax. I made the first step about calling about our neighbor. she asked about going out for coffee. I said i was going to the senior center. I don't trust her and am really hurt. i don't know if it was a misunderstand or what

I am sorry you don't trust her. maybe you could send her a quick note????
bizi

i sent her a note and asked her why she hit me on the neck two months after the operation

she hit you on the neck, :eek:
I don't remember that.
sorry.
bizi

on the side where the surgery was.she still hasn;t answered me. I think it is the end of the friendship

i hardly have any friends now

I think that if she hit you on the neck intentionally, that is a justifiable question that deserves an answer. I wish you had asked that question earlier though because I know how much it has bothered you since then, and I don't blame you one bit :hug::hug::hug:

You haven't gotten an answer back yet, so don't jump to conclusions :hug:
I hope that she answers you back soon with an apology, and I hope that you can work through this without this issue escalating. Take some time before you reply to her answer if you can. You are good friends.

Bizi, Bobby deleted the part of her first post on this thread about Cecilia hitting her, so that is why you don't remember reading about it.

thank you for validating me. I am afraid she isn't going to answer me. do you think she is crazy?

I couldn't say, especially not based on just one incident. You haven't mentioned any other abnormal behavior. It may just have been some kind of knee jerk reaction. She may even have been feeling guilty about it all this time without saying so… you never know.

Stella's behavior is kinda bizarre…

She is weird.
Not a friend.

Also remember Cecilia was gone for the weekend correct. And she may
have other things to do before emails.

Unlike me who would be checking them first. If you don't hear try resending
the email. Only to ask if she received or it got in the box and she didn't see
it.

I have lots in one of my emails, and don't always find them when I need to.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

she gets the email on her smart phone. I feelfunny about sending it again





robert volunteered to step in to help me in place of cecilia

she just called me. she said she doesn't remember me. she apologized. i feel so tired

She is weird.

Good luck with that stuff of hers.


M

I don't know how she ****ing forgot something like that, but I'm glad she apologized to you. Do you feel satisfied with her apology... is it enough for you?

It was really nice of Robert to offer to step up and offer to help you like that. He's a good friend.

I hope everything works out for the best, Bobby :hug::hug::hug:

it was really nice of robert. I mentioned abby's nails since it costs 25 dollars across the street. I woullld rather buy food for Mickey. He turned down hamburg for Michey and said he didn;t like it but I said to try it. He tried it anad gobbled down a quarter of it. yeah. Mickey is dying of heart failure. He has a cough and it breaks my heart. He is on expensive medicine. He is eleven. I believe cecilia. It is just so weird. Her 82 year old brother in law whom she liked died this weekend suddenly of a heart attack in portugal. I don't think she will fly to sweden for the funeral.She is leaving everything to his daughter who is so very nice.I just feel weird. Marcia is coming over today. I will take her out for coffee. Yesterday I went to the post office and returned something. the woman was so nice. she couldn't read my writiing so she filled out the forms. another woman had said they weren't allowed to do that. then I went into bed after stopping for a bagel. I took a cab there and walked home. I stopped a few times. I was so exhausted.

I am glad that you do have some friends....
glad that she called you and can't believe she forgot that happening. wierd.
((((HUGS)))
bizi

somebody had a theory that her cancer operation where her neck was cut across triggered the slap and anger. I am crazy. I just sent her a note saying she could use my new shoe stretcher if she wanted to Household Essentials(R) Women's Cedar Shoe Stretcher - Bed Bath & Beyond

I don't think that note was crazy. Maybe that can kick start something and you can get back into regular contact and move on from the incident. I think it's nice that you have given her the benefit of the doubt :hug:

i ran into cecilia in the elevator yesterday. she was friendly and acted as if nothing was wrong

How do you feel about that Bobby?
Do you wish that you were closer again?

i don't know how i feel

I ran into cecilia again. She looked friendly. She asked where I was going. I already told her I stopped drinking coffee and a,d yesterday I told her I really can't walk. I hugged her and said I missed her. she said she missed me to but she is very busy. She is very busy

I'm glad that you ran into one another. It was a nice opportunity for the two of you to reconnect :hug:

It's too bad that she is so busy. Maybe you could see more of one another otherwise.