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alex sent me a picture of andy and his uncle and him in a restaurant in nyc. andy is the middle brother. I wrote that I wish I could be in contact with andy too.

I am sure nothing will come of it.alex didn't mention andy in the picture which I thought was weird.
this is one of his websites Welcome to Breaking Matzo - Breaking Matzo

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Is it that the one who made this web site (middle?). I getting a weird vibe - - - - - is a little lost and damaged? Sorry if I am speaking out of turn.

Although some say that the middle one is the most adjusted.
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At any rate, I am sorry that they are so distant from you. VERY Sorry. Hugs.

I have a family member who lives about 15 mins from me that I last saw 25 years ago. He has pretty much
left the whole family -- so it is not just me.

M

He is the billionaire, the middle one// at least I have my father now. It became so easy. I recognized the bipolar traits in daddy that I have and it all made sense. He couldn't help himself and that is why he raged and drank but loved me and spent a lot of good time with me

I have never met one of those. Not that I was aware of.

Wild and weird to be related to someone with that kind of money.



:hug::hug::hug:
M

you are confusing me but that is funny

Your nephew must be very, um... eccentric?
You may be better off without any contact with him, Bobby. You never know...

My father is an undx BPI alcoholic (my mother was an alcoholic, too). As destructive as he is, I was always Daddy's Girl. I have some horrible childhood memories, but I have some lovely ones as well. I understand my father a lot better now as an adult (especially since I have the same problems as him), but that doesn't mean I forgive him for everything.

I am a lot older than you and my father has been dead for a long time and I made peace with him after he had the stroke and I saw him suffer and his taking it like a man. then he became a hero to me. that helped big time. the other night I radiated with love for him even though he called me every name in the book when he was raging. I hope it happens to you!
I don't know about andy. I just asked for an email. He always had karisma.
I am really ticked at my youngest fat nephew. He said practice practice. I told him richard said not to.
love
bobby

What does Andy want you to practice? :grouphug::hug::hug:
Singing lessons? Piano?



M

alec wants me to practice walking

He has no freaking qualifications.

i am still not depressed but boy do i feel like letting him have it.

It is possible that he thought he was being helpful -- lots of well
intentioned people would say something like that.


M

you can't mention his weight. he sent me a picture of his uncle walter and andy and saidd that was his uncle walter and didn't andy but said they were in nyc

"He has no freaking qualifications" lol.

"You can't imagine his weight" lol.

You guys are so funny... lol.

Sometimes people mean well, but well... lol. You wouldn't believe some of the advice people give me, and the people who try to give it. Sometimes it ****** me off, but sometimes I just have to laugh because it's ridiculous.

Mari is right, he doesn't know what he's talking about. Now is not the time to practice walking. Richard will give you the proper guidance...

But I do think your nephew was probably trying to give you a pep talk or something... just misguided.

he is always telling me to think positively. He won't come 30 blocks to meet for lunch but says to meet in midtown where he works. He ignores my walking situation. A cab would cost too much money for me, probably at least 60 dollars round trip. Richard is being cautious with me. He told me not to practice. He wants me to use the walker. Today I have to go across the street but I think i will take a cane. I have a block towards the walker.

I want you to be safe bobby....
(hugs)
bizi

thanks so much bizi
bobby

I hope your trip across the street went well :hug:

It's a shame that your nephew can't meet you for lunch closer to your apartment. Maybe he can't get the time off of work...
Maybe lunch on a weekend, or an early dinner would work out better?

maybe I am being hard but I think they were all raised by Myra and they lack compassion. Harold probably had something to do with it too but I knew myra.
can't wait to tell my psychiatrist I am not depressed. I didn't go out yesterday.

In no part of the world is the aunt expected to move 30 blocks to meet the
nephew.

No culture would find that acceptable.
It is especially wrong for him to know that you have current mobility issues.
Then to give you advice re walker is worse.


At best, he is a weird guy.


If he does not want to get his own *** across town, then he is supposed to
pay for a cab for you.
He knows the mores for this but he chooses not to
follow them.

(Sorry that I am feeling protective of you --- or generally bitchy.)

Sorry.

M

that made me really feel good. I thought I was being too demanding

No, Mari is right...
I told you they are little sh*ts.