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sassy 01-25-2008 09:27 AM

Just need to share-a death of a beautiful young woman
 
My sister's niece passed away last night. She was 19 years old and had a very severe case of Marfan's. She wasn't expected to live when first born so she has been a miracle all her life in more ways than 1.

She had at least 2 open heart surgeries to make room in her tiny chest to make room for heart and numerous other procedures, surgeries and hospital stays.

Her mother passed away 2 years ago from ALS after living longer than what was ever expected also.

Last night Nicole was taken to the hospital having problems breathing, she refused any treatment...she'd had enough in her young life and was ready to rest.

I truly believe she and her mom have been reunited. May we all live life as bravely and with such fullness as these two beautiful women did in their short lives.

God Bless you Nicole, Melinda and your families!

tkrik 01-25-2008 09:34 AM

Sassy, I am so sorry to hear about this. I will pray for you and your family.

susieq 01-25-2008 09:36 AM

It's so hard when they go young. But she's at peace now, and I also believe she's been reunited with her Mother. And they're both in a better place.

momXseven 01-25-2008 09:41 AM

I'm so sorry, I'm sending some prayers for your family.

MamaMonkey 01-25-2008 09:44 AM

Bless her heart. I am so sorry to hear this. I'm sure she is now at peace and definitely reunited with her Mom. Peace and strength to those of you she left behind :hug:

barb02 01-25-2008 09:54 AM

I just want also say I am very sorry and hope that she is at peace now. :hug:

AfterMyNap 01-25-2008 09:57 AM

God Bless you Nicole, Melinda and your families! Amen. :(

soxmom 01-25-2008 09:58 AM

Oh Sassy what a brave young woman:(. Wishing you and your
family peace at this time.

Thinking of you,

Sox

Bearygood 01-25-2008 10:25 AM

sassy, I am SO SO sorry. Sincere condolences to you and your family. :hug:

MSCherokee 01-25-2008 10:34 AM

Aw Sassy. :hug: I too believe that she's been reunited with her mom. My condolences.

kicker 01-25-2008 10:38 AM

So sad to hear this, but she got rest finally and I do believe she and her mother are together again.

Kitty 01-25-2008 10:40 AM

Sassy, I am so sorry - it's so hard to lose those we love. These women sound like such brave souls. I have no doubt they are reunited at this very moment and have no more pain. :hug:

suzyqz_2007 01-25-2008 10:54 AM

I am so sorry Sassy. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

sassy 01-25-2008 10:56 AM

Thank you all and Amen to no more pain!

She was such an inspiration to her entire family. It makes it hard to complain about little things when her and her mom faced such a difficult life with such bravery, compassion and a smile on their faces.

I remember the last time I saw both of them alive was at my dad's funeral, Mindy in a wheelchair at the age of 38 and Mindy at the young age of 11 pushing her mom with smiles and hugs for all of us.

God Bless

That is how I want to remember them. Happy in spite of all they had been through.

Riverwild 01-25-2008 11:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sassy (Post 196599)
Thank you all and Amen to no more pain!

She was such an inspiration to her entire family. It makes it hard to complain about little things when her and her mom faced such a difficult life with such bravery, compassion and a smile on their faces.

I remember the last time I saw both of them alive was at my dad's funeral, Mindy in a wheelchair at the age of 38 and Mindy at the young age of 11 pushing her mom with smiles and hugs for all of us.

God Bless

That is how I want to remember them. Happy in spite of all they had been through.

No words, just hugs for you, Sassy :hug:

sugarboo 01-25-2008 11:14 AM

:Sorry: :hug:

greta 01-25-2008 11:24 AM

Sassy-
I'm so sorry. So unfair that one family has to endure so much. My best to you and the rest of the family.

SandyC 01-25-2008 11:28 AM

Awww Sassy, your right. She is with her mother now and without pain. God bless you and your family.

turtle_78 01-25-2008 12:02 PM

My thought and prayers are with your family

MooseasaurusRex 01-25-2008 01:23 PM

((((Sassy and her family))))):hug::grouphug:

Bannet 01-25-2008 01:26 PM

((((Sassy)))) I am so sorry to hear about your sister's niece. It just doesn't seem fair sometimes, does it?

My prayers have been said.:hug:

Jodylee 01-25-2008 01:48 PM

Oh Sassy!

My prayers are with you and all of your family. I believe, too, that they are together now, at peace. :hug::hug:

Chris 01-25-2008 03:25 PM

Oh Sassy!
I just got chill bumps reading this! How utterly sad!:o My thoughts and prayers are with you, and your sister's family right now. God bless all of you! What a blessing that you had this little girl in your life for so long. I'm sure she was a very special young lady.

All the best always,
Chris

the Bird 01-25-2008 05:41 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss, Sassy. You made a beautiful tribute to Nicole and to your sister.

Jappy 01-25-2008 06:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sassy (Post 196599)
Thank you all and Amen to no more pain!

She was such an inspiration to her entire family. It makes it hard to complain about little things when her and her mom faced such a difficult life with such bravery, compassion and a smile on their faces.

I remember the last time I saw both of them alive was at my dad's funeral, Mindy in a wheelchair at the age of 38 and Mindy at the young age of 11 pushing her mom with smiles and hugs for all of us.

God Bless

That is how I want to remember them. Happy in spite of all they had been through.

Sassy my heart and prays go out to you and your family.
You know that they are together. Happy and no more pain.

May God give you the strength and peace to go on and remember the
happy times.

Joyce ( Jappy ) :hug::hug:

snoodles 01-25-2008 07:11 PM

I'm so very sorry...

Snoodles

GladysD 01-25-2008 07:20 PM

Sassy-

My deepest condolences to you and your family. Sounds like you are doing well in the grief process with your positive outlook. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.

thav1 01-25-2008 07:22 PM

You have my sincerest sympathies.

Koala77 01-25-2008 07:35 PM

I am so sorry Sassy. My thoughts are with you and your family. :grouphug:

sassy 01-25-2008 10:46 PM

Thanks everyone for your kind words and thoughts.

ckepi 01-25-2008 10:55 PM

God Bless your family Sassy and may they rest in each other's arms now.

Taffy 01-25-2008 10:57 PM

Thoughts and prayers at this time.

Twinkletoes 01-25-2008 11:36 PM

How very touching. Condolences and hugs to you. :hug: They are together again and free from pain! Thanks for sharing.

Vonn07 01-25-2008 11:56 PM

God bless you and your family, Sassy ... my prayers go out to you! (HUGS)

duvabw 01-26-2008 01:24 AM

Sending prayers and hugs to you and your family.

:hug:

mommywms 01-26-2008 01:34 AM

im so sorry to hear this sassy.
god bless your whole family in this time of need.

alyson

FinLady 01-26-2008 10:44 AM

Sassy, sending prayers for you and your family. What a strong young woman to have gone through so much.
:hug:

AfterMyNap 01-26-2008 11:43 PM

Are you holding up okay, Bren?:hug:

BaxterTheBunny 01-27-2008 12:32 AM

Sassy, so much grief for one family.

Sending prayers for peace to you and your family. :hug:

sassy 01-27-2008 12:03 PM

Thanks again all!

And AMN, I'm doing ok. It is hard on my niece, she was really close to her cousin. Hard to explain to a 15 year old why someone just wanted to be peaceful and not in pain.

Haven't decided if we are going to the funeral. I told my mom if she wanted to go we would make the trip up north (Cadillac).


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