Quiet Support...
 

You know, there are times when I come here to this place for no reason at all except to get myself another dose of quiet support. I sit down at my desk...turn on my computer...log onto this site and then just sit there and stare at the screen.

Not reading. Not writing. Just knowing that somehow, through the miracle of this internet, I am connected to other people who actually kind of understand what I am feeling. They understand something about me and my challenges in life that I haven't been able to explain to a whole army of "professional" specialists, or the people who I live and deal with every day and who "really know me", in over four years.

And just knowing that those people are out there - that by just stretching out my arms and tapping with my fingers I can reach out to ask for their help or offer my support - makes me feel better. It's NeuroTalk now, and I kinda like that name. But it's not about the name. It's about the people.

There's Barbara, "Moose 53", who answered my very first post on the introductory board at OBT four years ago and, by that simple fact, became a name that I will remember forever.

There's Curious...with her curious ways. Who'd of ever thunk a southern gal from Texas could have ever traded so many laughs with an eastern guy like me over so many sleepless nights? Hoot-hoot.

There's Chemar, with her gentle encouragement and endless supply of (((free hugs))) to make everyone feel better.

Heck, I can't name everybody...:rolleyes: These are just a few of so many people whose very presence here have had such a huge impact on me. Some know who they are. Most probably don't. There have been those whose posts I have followed for years, and who then just suddenly "introduced" themselves to me one day for no reason at all. And what am I supposed to say? I already know you?

And there have been those who I really respect but who, no matter how hard I try, I can never seem to connect with.

Anyway, I just wanted to thank you all for being here so much of the time. I doubt that very many of you realize how helpful you all can be.

:rolleyes: so NOW he tells me he's a yankee.

:p :p

does this mean i have to put weird things in your turkey stuffing? like crunchy things? :eek:

hoot hoot :D

Idealist

thank you so much for those special words.

I find your posts to be very encouraging to me, so you may not realise how much you inspire us too :)

I am so glad you are part of our community!

((((EXTRA BIG HUGS)))))

Awww now that made my day! You are so kind. What a great thing to post.

he's trying to see if buttering us up will work. he wants something...just wait and see.

what? cookies? my strata recipe? or my recipe for baked mac and cheese?

you do know you just get the friendship and support as a perk right? :p i charge nothing for the teasing and razzing....but hmmmm...maybe i should. ;)

(((((mr incognito)))))

Curious, I want you to know that I resent that! I happen to live within an hours drive of Richmond, VA...the CAPITOL of the Confederacy!!! :cool:

'Course, I was BORN in West-VA...the only state that seceded so it wouldn't have to secede...:confused:

So I guess you can dang me, hang me...or just hang with me...:p

Your choice, southern-belle...:D

But all of ya...this is MY thanks to YOU, remember...:rolleyes:

Don't embarrass me...:D You can thank me some other time when I deserve it...

did he REALLY say "don't embarrass me: ?:eek: :D

:p he is fair game now. mwhahahahahaaaaa

you didn't happen to visit portsmouth, i think it was the summer of 75 did you?

You nut, you...:)

Actually, I've never been to Portsmouth. I've been VERY close, but never actually there.

norfolk?

just want to make sure I'M not the one to get embarrassed....;)

Ditto to Portsmouth. You've got me wondering now...:rolleyes:

Idealist
 

here you are again in all your splender, we'll keep you, you're too close to let the yanks grab you:p I'm from good old South Carolina. We have everything, the ocean, mountains and all in between;)

You really do know how to reach out and touch someone, yes? I get lonely too. Not afraid to admit it. Well, knowing you aren't far away makes me feel better. See? you are helping others and I don't want to see you go away.

Yeah, old Curious is sumpin else. when it's hot we will hitch a ride to Texas and splash in her poole all day. How bout that?

Well, you reached out and touched someone and in turn I want to reach out and touch someone that is very sad. you help me, ok? old Jo

Thank you, Jo, for such a wonderful compliment! I don't know what to say...except thanks again...

I'm glad to have met you, Idealist. You seem to be a very kind person and I like your style.

:)

I like yer style, too, Scrabble. Very cool...:cool: And I'm real glad to have ya as one of my night-owl friends...hoot-hoot!

Thank you.

A reach-out and appreciation for saying this!
 

JoJo, Idealist, et al

Hello, Theta "The Quiet One ... yet still strong, determined"here.

I'm only just newly capable again, to 'spend brain energy' in some small level of actively participating, after a lengthy hiatus. It does 'cost me' some significant time/effort/energy.
I've needed to "reach out" on here for a long time and make the effort of at least some 1:1 connections. It's simply moreso my style, comfort level at present.

So, acknowledgement and appreciation for saying what you so courageously did. In your wonderful, clear, simple & direct way you said what I know many, many more/some of us struggle to be able to express. Or, as you've helped me here to learn about myself this morning and been afraid to "speak it", even in my own thinking. But, wow, have I been *feeling* it all year long!
I just couldn't 'name' it.

Much appreciation,
Theta

hmm ... I like this neighborhood ! Just discovered it.
 

This! Yes. Kudos.
Thanks so much for saying what I've been 'aware' of in my *feeling* experience over these 3 years. Yet couldn't reach out to convey.:o
My MTBI'd-PCS'd-PTSD'd brain has great difficulty in 'naming', 'labeling', formulating the 'lineup' of thoughts & words, to express in *both* writing and speaking!

Glad to make acquaintance with "y'all" here on this thread!
It's a my kind of neighborhood, where one feels quite comfortable to "speak" a Good Morning hello from the sidewalk. ;)

Theta

Hi Theta Z. The above posts where a part of a conversation that happened in 2006. You can see the date of the posts above the pictures.

When I was new on the forum,I learned these things too. Welcome to the forum. I hope that you find it as helpful as I do. I'm usually on the Bipolar forum.
Brokenfriend:hug::hug::hug: