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Nik-key 06-08-2008 01:26 PM

Dad.......Photos
 
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Wren 06-08-2008 01:29 PM

Thank you for such wonderful and heartfull, heartfelt photos.

Nik-key 06-08-2008 02:07 PM

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THAT SMILE-THAT LAUGH!!
This is how I want to remember him.

At the service, they had to drag me off his stone....but on a more positive note..... I had a yellow butterfly follow me around all day! It even landed on me

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Me and my twin Missy...take my hand....

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This one just cracks me up...he was telling Mis it wasn't too late to run!!!
She should have listened!

Twinkletoes 06-08-2008 02:10 PM

What a great smile!

Ahem, who's in the wedding pic with him??? Hmmmm? :p

Nik-key 06-08-2008 02:16 PM

I am trying.... I put together a slideshow for my family and for my myspace page. I cried, but I did a lot of true smiling too!! Its the first step. I wanted to share them with the people who have helped me make it so far too! Thank you for all your support:hug:

And yes that is my wedding photo:p

tamiloo 06-08-2008 02:27 PM

Oh Nikkey...I have no idea what you are feeling right now. I hope you can soon feel peace. Your Dad is a handsom guy!!

Nik-key 06-08-2008 02:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tamiloo (Post 295902)
Oh Nikkey...I have no idea what you are feeling right now. I hope you can soon feel peace. Your Dad is a handsom guy!!


Thank you :) The first photo is my all time favorite, as a little girl he spent most of his time overseas in the Army....I would just stare at it for hours, I thought he was just the most handsome man in the world! Thank you for letting me share these with all of you, it is sooo hard, but it is also healing:hug:

FeelinGoofy 06-08-2008 03:13 PM

Nikkey,

I was thinking the same thing... he is so handsome.... Thank you for sharing your photos.... :hug:

KathyM 06-08-2008 03:48 PM

Nikki :hug:

What a handsome man. What a beautiful full-face smile. :) Thank you for sharing his photo with us.

Burntmarshmallow 06-08-2008 06:02 PM

Yup your Dad great looking I agree :).
Thanks for sharing some good times and happy smiles with us.
You and twin sis look so cute b.t.w. :p.
ha ha my mom has one of me and my twin bro . . . we about 2 yrs old he's going pee and I am standing next to him with my pants down crying my head off cus I dont have a "thing" down there to aim and fire :rolleyes: .
okay shh what ever happens here stays here ;)
PEACE and healing wishes.
a smile and big hug too :D :hug:

Abbie 06-08-2008 08:33 PM

Nik-key,
Thank you so much for sharing.
I agree with you... Your dad---HANDSOME!!!
That smile... infectious!!!

When you spoke of the butterfly... I could see it... the thought and your words gave me goosebumps.... :)

You and your twin.... I had to do a double take... sorry for the pun...but you both look like my best friend from high school!!!!!!!!! She could be your triplet!!!!!

Please keep sharing...
Sending big but gentle hugs,
:hug:
Abbie

Koala77 06-08-2008 08:38 PM

They are lovely photos Nikki, and I too thank you for sharing.

You're so right to treasure these pictures. Sadly I have very few photos of my own mother and father, and as they both passed away around 20 years ago, I'll not be getting any more.

Sending you some hugs across the miles. :hug:

Nik-key 06-09-2008 03:55 AM

I thank you all so much :hug: :hug:

I have been working on the slide show since after his service, only breaking to go to his grave......and yes the butterfly was right there on the yellow roses I left him.......yes abbie...chills is a good word.....

At times I just sob my heart out, I can still hear his laughter, that chuckle before his face would break out in that huge grin. I am indeed lucky to have these...right now they hurt still.......but I can't seem to stop looking at them.
When the tears dry up, I find myself smiling at a memory......as is the motto here ...baby steps ;)

I emailed this to my brothers and sisters....and wanted to share it with you.
You got me through some tears, so ...share in a smile :hug:

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Doody 06-09-2008 09:23 AM

(((Nik-key))) Just beautiful. Thank you for sharing. :hug:

Alffe 06-09-2008 09:33 AM

I've had you on my mind all weekend Nikki..mailed to a post card from NY. :hug:

who moi 06-10-2008 01:02 AM

those photos are just precious...

thanks for sharing, nik...


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