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megveg 11-20-2008 12:29 PM

I feel Selfish posting this but, it's my birthday.
 
I'm 19 years old today. I really couldn't tell you if I'm excited and happy, or I just don't care. Birthdays for me have been a terrible experience every year (i'm surpised I haven't heard my mom say 'well you dont deserve a birthday' yet')

I don't know, i thought maybe if i shared with my NT family, my birthday would be kinda better then it has been.

I have to work today 2-10 at the pharmacy so i really wont be doing Anything today other then dealing with grumpy people. :( and i'm getting home so late that everyone in my house will be asleep.


I just want a happy birthday for once. I feel terrible posting this because I feel like I'm just complaining :(

Bets 11-20-2008 12:40 PM

Happy Birthday! And, many, many more. (sorry, I don't know where to get all the cool clip-art everyone uses)

I suspect you have a lot of happy birthday's ahead of you to make up for the ones that weren't so great. It will make the good ones more special anyway. There is no reason why you can't plan your own birthday either, you could get together with friends on the week-end as a belated celebration.

Alffe 11-20-2008 12:41 PM

Happy Birthday Meg! :grouphug:

Jomar 11-20-2008 12:58 PM

I get these from {http://www.glitter-graphics.com/}:)


Do something special for yourself - maybe go out to a nice lunch??

kicker 11-20-2008 01:06 PM

Meg,
Happy Birthday. you should buy youtself a little treat (candy, ice cream, specil anything - nothing $$$) because your birth is important and should be comerated.(sp?)

megveg 11-20-2008 01:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jo55 (Post 411547)
I get these from {http://www.glitter-graphics.com/}:)


Do something special for yourself - maybe go out to a nice lunch??

i would if i didnt have work and if i had money . :( i still havent gotten my first paycheck yet. hopefully tonight.

i have this weird stigma that the actual DAY of my birthday is always terrible, like, i could do fun stuff before and after but the actual DATE is always terrible, like i took tomorrow off from work and i dont work saturdays so im prob going to do something then, but it wont be on my actual birthday so ill think the whole time im doing something fun, that it should have been on my actual birthday :( i dunno im a mess :(

Aarcyn 11-20-2008 02:22 PM

Dear Meg
 
Happy Birthday

My daughter will be turning 19 at the end of this month. So you are just PERFECT from this mom to you. Wow! Can you believe you are so OLD???

This being said from a woman old enough to be your mom!

Maybe you cannot celebrate by taking yourself to lunch or buying a special something but you can take a moment to breathe deeply and to know that you can make a difference in this world.

Smile at that grumpy person, tell them you are 19 today. You may just make them smile and it will change you, just try it.

Let your inner self shine on the outside today, like a birthday candle. You were SO SMART to let us all know it is your birthday today!!!:hug:

You made my world a bit brighter so THANK YOU and most of all...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

karousel 11-20-2008 02:24 PM

Meg, Happy 19th Birthday! I hope today is a happy day!!!

GladysD 11-20-2008 02:48 PM

Happy Birthday!!! :hug:

SandyC 11-20-2008 02:50 PM

Happy Birthday. :hug:

jmiller 11-20-2008 02:58 PM

Happy Bday to you, happy bday to you, happy bday dear Meg, happy bday to you.

I remember feeling that same way when I was in the service, so I picked a different day to celebrate my Bday. It was New Years Eve, because for some reason I had off that day everytime and not my actual bday.

Kitty 11-20-2008 03:36 PM

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MEG!!!



lor 11-20-2008 03:40 PM

I guess you won't see this till the day after your birthday, cuz you are at work now. I hope you had a good day. HAPPY DAY AFTER BIRTHDAY!

FinLady 11-20-2008 03:42 PM

Happy B-day. :Birthday:

ali12 11-20-2008 03:45 PM

Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday dear Meg
Happy Birthday to you!!

I hope you have a great Birthday for a change Meg and that you get everything you wished for!

http://dl4.glitter-graphics.net/pub/...qzzhy39no4.gif

Koala77 11-20-2008 05:10 PM

http://i265.photobucket.com/albums/i...op_fifties.gif

I hope you had a lovely birthday Meg,
and that for once all the clients at the pharmacy had a smile on their face,
and not one of them was grumpy!
:D

Ivy2 11-20-2008 05:26 PM

Here's hoping Meg's birthdays start looking up!

Riverwild 11-20-2008 05:53 PM

Hey Meg!

Something good happened 19 years ago today! You were born!:)
Something good happened today! Look at all the people who came out to wish you a Happy Birthday!:)

Seriously, take a few minutes to do something JUST for YOU, even if it's just a rest and a breath of fresh air! :)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!



tkrik 11-20-2008 05:59 PM

Happy Birthday Meg!!!

Thanks for letting us help you celebrate your special day!:hug::grouphug:

weegot5kiz 11-20-2008 06:04 PM

Aw Meg coming from a person whose bday is two days b4 xmas I know how messed up bdays can get,

So to you Meg i am wishing a most splendid Birthday, enjoy your special day, its your day and no one can take that away from you, smile, it looks good on you:hug: Happy Birthday Meg

..........................http://i303.photobucket.com/albums/n...birthday-3.jpg



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Chemar 11-20-2008 06:15 PM

:hug: Happy Birthday Meg :grouphug:

http://msp300.photobucket.com/albums...Birthday-1.jpg

dahlek 11-20-2008 07:03 PM

Happy happy happier!
 
How old you are and what you FEEL inside are the things that count!
Every day is a blessing, but special days are even more important.
I'd splurge and go out and buy my favorite candy bar, and get myself into a PLACE I KNOW I'll enjoy it and then eat it! Small present to yourself....what used to be called a 'circe' -tho don't know why. I always viewed it as a little treat.
Sometimes it's those little things that are comforting. Go with that and get on with all the other life hassles.
Later, like on the weekend? Go celebrate as best you can with friends [even if it's over a cup of herbal tea or something] and just find ways to laugh. That is what can get us all thru it all...
You aren't selfish at all! Not at all! Never think that - wait till you hit 40 or worse! Then worry? But not NOW!
Hugs and fun in your future! - j :hug:'s

snoozie 11-20-2008 08:06 PM

Meg--Meg--Meg--...it seems like just yesterday you were just a young pup of 18 LOL

Now I want this year to be a good year for you. I want you to see the glass as half full and your life ahead of you full of promises of a better day.

If I was there I would give you a big hug and sing really really loud to you. Hopefully out in public so I could watch you blush.

If you are off work on Saturday take a walk and really look at the world around you with new 19 year old eyes. See the beauty that is around you. I just spent the day teaching 26 kindergardeners. Now they can make you smile. Try to see the world through a 5 year olds eyes and I dare you not to laugh. Have fun this weekend and happy happy happy birthday to you...Sue:hug::hug::hug:

bluenurse 11-20-2008 10:18 PM


braingonebad 11-21-2008 09:53 PM

Happy belated BDay, Meg!

My dd turned 19 in Sept, and your avatar resembles her.

YOU deserve a special day. YOU deserve to celebrate you. Life is tough, and there may seem like there are 400 reasons to cry. But there will always be one reason - if you look really hard - to smile. Look really hard if you have to, and smile every chance you get.

But you should always know that you were meant to be born, and your Birthday is your day. Celebrate that the world is lucky enough to have you.


(I told my dd this on a very hard bday a couple years back, and I mean it sincerely for you as well)

:hug:

Debbie D 11-22-2008 05:27 AM

Meg...on the day you were born, no one else like you made an entrance onto this beautiful planet. None of us, none of us, has been born without purpose.

You are here for a reason...your journey this year is to search for that reason...

You are worthy of the time and attention it will take this year to discover what makes Meg special...and we all are special, Meg.

Never dishonor the day that marks you entrance into this world...for it is the day that no one like you came to make a difference.

Each person, grumpy or happy, has a story...look beyond the exterior, see the person who also came for a purpose, and know that many feel very alone in this world...a smile would make them feel better...it also makes you feel better.

I hope that you have done or will do something special for your day...because you deserve it!:hug:

Happy, happy birthday, Meg!!!

PS I hope you keep on here...there's a lot of great peeps on this site!!:D


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