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DMACK 12-21-2008 07:13 PM

Christmas is coming
 
Well its that time of year again, and for so many it can be a painful time emotionally.

I WOULD LIKE TO LEAVE A SONG on this thread to anyone feeling low, sad, unloved, forgotten, and or desperate,

I Sincerely ask you to play the song link, and read the words below along with the song.


http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=uiCRZLr9oRw


#words#

In this proud land we grew up strong
we were wanted all along
I was taught to fight, taught to win
I never thought I could fail

no fight left or so it seems
I am a man whose dreams have all deserted
I've changed my face, I've changed my name
but no one wants you when you lose

don't give up
'cos you have friends
don't give up
you're not beaten yet
don't give up
I know you can make it good

though I saw it all around
never thought that I could be affected
thought that we'd be the last to go
it is so strange the way things turn

drove the night toward my home
the place that I was born, on the lakeside
as daylight broke, I saw the earth
the trees had burned down to the ground

don't give up
you still have us
don't give up
we don't need much of anything
don't give up
'cause somewhere there's a place
where we belong

rest your head
you worry too much
it's going to be alright
when times get rough
you can fall back on us
don't give up
please don't give up

'got to walk out of here
I can't take anymore
going to stand on that bridge
keep my eyes down below
whatever may come
and whatever may go
that river's flowing
that river's flowing

moved on to another town
tried hard to settle down
for every job, so many men
so many men no-one needs

don't give up
'cause you have friends
don't give up
you're not the only one
don't give up
no reason to be ashamed
don't give up
you still have us
don't give up now
we're proud of who you are
don't give up
you know it's never been easy
don't give up
'cause I believe there's a place
there's a place where we belong






You do have friends here who will listen to whatever you wish to say, our intent is to comfort/support and above all HEAR YOUR WORDS

The holidays can be a stressful time, [personally roll on 2/1/2009]

We all get through it the best we can, but if you do feel lonely...stop by in here there's a lot of love to share and cyber hugs are free as well:hug:

January will soon be here, then spring..with all its new life, fresh hope, and pastures new.
As painful as this time of year can be.....you will come through it....and be much stronger for it....


A peaceful festive season to you all, & may your memories all be happy ones, and your sadness be short lived.

David:hug:

PS. PLEASE DON'T GIVE UP

who moi 12-21-2008 09:45 PM

dear David,

thank you for this...

I had a really hard time last night thinking about my father....I let some really raw emotions out....

your posting this today....it is as if you heard my thoughts...

thanks, my friend...

Buffheart 12-23-2008 04:01 AM

Thank you for saying this. It gives us all hope

Nik-key 12-24-2008 01:55 AM

((David)) I haven't been able to post much, but I wanted to thank you for sharing this. :hug: Thank you for talking about "it" and making this holiday more bearable.

I keep repeating over and over...........

The anticipation of the day, is worse than the day itself.

Grief makes 1 hour seem 10... BUT even the worst day, is only 24 hours.

tamiloo 12-24-2008 09:50 AM

Thanks so much for sharing this with us...how beautiful!:hug:

mistiis 12-24-2008 10:10 AM

...thanks for bumping it up with your kind thoughts (((tammi)))....just reading the words can help. Put out on the screen like this, and the way they are written, it jumps out at you and puts the feeling and the words where they need to be, in the mind and in the heart. And it truly does help one to fight, or keep going even if it be for the next few minutes, and then the next, and then the next.....:grouphug: I think it is really needed...I know it helps me....:hug: :grouphug:

who moi 12-24-2008 11:20 AM

at that moment...

when you feel all alone through others laughters...

at that moment...

when you feel like you're dying inside through others cheers....

don't forget to peek in here and see that you are NOT alone...

don't forget that there is at least ONE of us that care....

I am planting a seed in your heart....please start to "water" it....

as you feel alone, please feel it grow inside your heart...let it sprout out its arms and wrap around your heart....and know that you're NOT alone...

and beat that beast and let the warm fuzzies flow through and embrace the ones around you (including all furry creatures, even porcupines)

and just follow it and let it flow....and smile.....

smiling with you...

moi....

DMACK 12-25-2008 12:43 PM

gabriel 4097

THE SONG IS FOR YOU PLAY AND READ THE WORDS:hug::hug:

DAVID

Alffe 11-27-2009 06:30 PM

Bumpity bump bump....missing David. :grouphug:

Doody 11-27-2009 06:53 PM

Thanks for bumping this up. Admittedly, my daughter and grandson still make this season okay for me. My sister died on Dec. 15, 1986, and the funeral before Christmas...it has been hard, but we always remember her with love.

I miss seeing ((David)) too.

Addy 11-27-2009 09:18 PM

David's song is playing on my speakers... loud and clear.....


Man, I sure miss a lot of wonderful folks in this thread...

David :hug: how's things on your side of the world? ... I hope you've been able to pop online from time to time... just give us a quick thanks when you can to let us know you were here :hug:

tammy and that hippie-hubby of yours! .... :hug: to you both!

mistiis :hug: and Nik-key :hug: ... moi and the mrs :hug::hug:

Alffe and Doody :hug::hug:

:grouphug:

Spanish Moss 11-29-2009 08:43 AM

The Mois send their love to all and want you all to know that we are very thankful for you dear people here. We are all doing well - just the usual colds and such - but our little famly is getting into a good groove and we are all learning each day from and about each other. It is quite an adventure! Please forgive our quietness. The pace is such that prevents us from visiting here much. You remain in our thoughts and conversations even when we are absent from this place.
Moi is in rehab and continues his slow but sure recovery. He is a wonderful pappa.
Love to you all.....Spanish Moss

Addy 11-29-2009 01:26 PM

I'm just so thrilled to hear from you dear Nan!

You forgot the Golden Rule = no apologizing for not writing here! :hug:

My love to you both! and those wee ones!

:grouphug:

reyn 11-29-2009 07:20 PM

Christmas is coming . . .. And I'm so thankful for each and all of you.


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