I would like to know
 

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Firemonkey:

I'm sorry if I haven't anwered your posts. Sometimes though by time I read the recent ones I need to get offline because of pain. Sometimes I don't know what to say to a post. There may be reasons why others have not been answering your posts. Please don't give up on us.

befuddled2

Information sharing
 

Fire monkey if I am at fault it was not intentional. I find many post informational, on forums you post to, that I can read and add to favorites or just absorb the information.
On one forum I frequent I post many, many informational type post that don't need a reply, just a place for reference for a historical location in searches.

I also do a lot of reading and absorb what is being said. Sometimes really don't have a proper thought out response. I find the information useful for me or keep it in mind for others. If they are your personal post, as many here, I read, if it is needs a moment of a quiet prayer of need, I do it without posting.

Many are close to my heart, just comeing on every morning and before bed at night I know I am amoung friends even without posting.
I hope you don't take offense, I am sure it is not personal.
Di

Dear Firemonkey,
I like seeing your posts on the forum.
Mari

Firemonky I don't know you from BT but I just want to reassure you that I read every one of your posts. You have a wealth of knowledge and I'm learning so I read and read. But I can't think what to say. I'm having a hard time thinking straight and I'm so afraid that things will come out wrong so I just read.

But I'm sure that you are well-liked and appreciated. I completely and totally understand about your paranoia (see I read the other post :D ) and know where you're coming from. Just keep plugging away.

{{{{{{{{{{{firemonkey}}}}}}}}}}}}

Ditto...I didn't know you from BT so please don't take it personally. I am new to this forum so I just read right now. As for your postings on other forums (I see you kicking around ;) ) I don't know why others don't or won't post. Most of the time I just read and I am not sure what to say or what advice to offer so I don't post.
Sorry if I offended you.

Firemonkey - I am sorry if I haven't posted to you threads. I do read them.

I wouldn't take it personally, we all have our days. I think it happens to all of us, we post and not everyone posts back.

Nikko

No, it isn't funny. I think it is that some informative posts are hard to respond to, they are read though as you can see.

The chitty chatty posts as you refer to, are really supportive posts that many people need.

I do not agree with you, this is a welcoming place. It helps many people.

Nikko

i never saw you on other forum

firemonkey...
clouds isn't calling you a liar. he woudn't recognize the name firemonkey. i wouldn't even know who you were if i hadn't seen the one post of yours. :)

hi firemonkey,

not everyone is going to reply to all posts. just like in any group converation, not everyone has something to say. it doesnt mean that that somebody is being ignored.

you also need to remember that this forum is a mental health issue forum. everyone has their own triggers. they may decide that certain topics are too apinful for them to reply to. or even ( and i am not saying YOU in particular ) certain members may have a tendancy to post triggering or upseting posts, so they might have them on ignore. that is for the member to deicde what is in their best interest and in no way should another be offended by that.

if you are thinking that a certain member should be replying and isn't, then please pm me so we can discuss this. also...the nuber of views on information type of posts, are really like getting an answer. it means somebody has read it. :)

I am really sorry you feel that way.

All I can say is Post what you want to post, nobody is "just not" replying to your posts because you are you, you cannot take everything personally.

You know you are welcome, you know people read your posts, whether informative as many are, which is good because many of us don't post informative posts, so we are lucky to have people like you.

Whether you choose to chat on other posts, that is up to you, you don't have to be good at it, God knows all we can do is try and support each other.

Hang in there, don't let this all get to you.

Hugs, Nikko