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coachV 01-21-2009 05:44 PM

for Debby at this sad time
 
Many of you, especially the oldies, know Debby, who lives in NoCal (see post "Help?!?!Help?!?!?" on 1-6-09 if u aren't sure who i mean).

Debbie's daughter Erin died yesterday: she was in her early 20's and this was entirely unexpected. As we all would be, Debbie is heartbroken, grieving, angry, shocked, sad and feeling lost.

Please send a kind thought or a heartfelt prayer in Debbie's direction right now, as i'm sure it is much needed and would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks to all.

Liz

GalenaFaolan 01-21-2009 05:52 PM

OMG! Sending out a lot of thoughts for Debby and her family! I'm so sorry to hear of her loss. May her and all the family have the needed strength to make it through this time. I will be thinking of her. Lots of hugs for her.

Hugs,

Karen

Curious 01-21-2009 06:04 PM

:smileypray: My prayers are with you and your family Debby, during this very sad time. I am so very sorry for you loss. :hug:

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Thank you Liz, for letting us know. Debby has a picture of her and her grandchildren as her avatar. I'm sure she is holding them close right now.http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/im...ine=1164068934

DianaA 01-21-2009 06:12 PM

Prayers to Debbie
 
I am so sorry to hear this news. My prayers go out to Debbie and her family at this time. I am just stricken, knowing the pain Debbie must be going through. Please send my love and prayers. May God bless her with the strength she needs now. This is really so very sad and heart breaking.
Hugs, love and prayers, Diana

llrn7470 01-21-2009 06:37 PM

So sorry to hear this
 
Debby,
Know that you have my condolences-they say that there is nothing worse than the death of a child and I have no idea how painful this must be. Please know that I am thinking about you and praying for you and your family.
Lori Lee

Chemar 01-21-2009 06:39 PM

my deepest sympathy for your loss Debby

buckwheat 01-21-2009 06:55 PM

Dear Debbie,

You and your family are in my heart and prayers. I am soo very sorry for your loss. Much Love, Roz

loretta 01-21-2009 07:33 PM

Thank you Liz, for letting us know about Debbie's daughter Erin. I just sent her a pm. It's always devasting to learn of a parent losing a child. One of my best friends lost their only son a year ago. We attended the funeral, out of state. As difficult as that was, parents and family need all the support and prayers of their friends. My meds had to be adjusted for several months, rsd always flares when we are under such emotional trauma. Thanks you again for letting us know, Take care, Loretta

Abbie 01-21-2009 07:55 PM


Koala77 01-21-2009 10:08 PM

Debby, I'm so sorry!

Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.


Jomar 01-21-2009 10:49 PM

Debby,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your daughter.
Prayers, hugs and comforting thoughts going out to your whole family.



watsonsh 01-21-2009 11:13 PM

Debby,

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you and your daughter. :hug:

Darlene 01-22-2009 02:38 AM


Sorry to hear of your lose. Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

Darlene:hug:

fmichael 01-22-2009 02:52 AM

Dear Debby -

As one who has known you for what feels like many years, I am filled with grief on the news of losing Erin. You have already (and too recently) been through so much. This is beyond words.

You and your family are in my thoughts and heart.

much love,
Mike

MominPainRSD 01-22-2009 06:39 AM

Debbie,
I am so deeply terribly sorry for your loss. I am new to this forum, but I already feel that we are all "family" here. I hope you know that we are all sending our love and support to you in this horrible time. Please know that we're all here when you are ready to talk about this or if you need us. My heartfelt condolances to you and your family.

ali12 01-22-2009 07:03 AM

Oh, I am SO very sorry to hear about this and will definitely say a prayer for Debbie and her family and am keeping them in my thoughts also.

I lost my grandad 2 months ago and it was SO hard but I can't even begin to imagine how hard it must be to lose a child at such a young age - it must be the hardest thing in the world.

You are in my thoughts and prayers Deb and if you ever need anyone to talk to, please know that I am here for you!:hug:

Love,
Alison.

Pauliana 01-22-2009 09:56 AM

Debby,

I am new here also but I still feel for you in the heartrending loss of your sweet daughter.. My heart goes out to you..

Hugs, prayers and sympathy..

Pauliana

DM 01-22-2009 03:42 PM

I am so very sorry to hear of your tremendous loss. Please know that your NT family is saddened by this news. Please accept my deepest sympathy and prayers to you and your family at this most difficult time.

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allentgamer 01-22-2009 04:03 PM

:eek: Awwww dang :(

Deb you and your family are in our prayers :hug:

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jenno 01-22-2009 08:29 PM

Debbie,
I am so very sorry to learn of your loss. You will be in my thoughts and in my prayers.
Love,
Jeanne

Rita 01-22-2009 08:50 PM

Debby,
I am so sorry for your loss, and you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Please take care of yourself, and know we all love you, and are praying for peace for you.

kejbrew 01-23-2009 09:43 PM

Debby,

I am stunned and saddened to learn of the loss of your daughter. Please know that my thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.

One can only imagine the hurt and emptiness that you feel right now. May God bless and keep you, give you strength, and peace of mind.

Psalms 61:2
From the end of the earth will I cry unto thee, when my heart is overwhelmed: lead me to the rock that is higher than I.

Sincerely,

EJ

Friend2U 01-25-2009 10:10 PM

Debby,
 
So very sorry for your loss. May comfort find:hug: you and your family.

tiffanyc 01-26-2009 09:23 AM

I am sorry...My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Doody 01-26-2009 02:36 PM

Oh (((Debby))). I am so very sorry for your loss, so very sorry.

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angelrsd 01-26-2009 09:05 PM

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Debby i am so sorry about your daughter i will keep you in my prayers

debbiehub 01-26-2009 09:33 PM

So sorry
 
Words can not express how hard this must be for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you Debby

Love
Debbie

daniella 01-28-2009 01:07 PM

I am so sorry for your loss as well. You and your family are in my thoughts and preyers.

Debby 01-28-2009 02:11 PM

Once I have caught my breath & wiped the tears away I want to say Thank You from the bottom of my heart. I didn't know that CoachV or anyone for that matter even posted the saddest news to hit me yet in my life time. I thank her for that. And I want to thank all of you who posted whether you know me well or only a little or even not at all. It means so much to read all the well wishes & prayers sent to I & my family. I thought loosing both of my parents & then Ron, Jack's grandson whom I helped raise a few years of his life were hard too loose. But loosing ones own child whom you carried under your heart & gave birth too & had so many dreams for passes well it is the worst pain ever.

Thank you again.

DebbyV

DiMarie 01-29-2009 06:58 PM

I am so terribly sorry Debbie
 
Our Deaest Debbie,
When you catch your breath, I am here to catch you. I understand your loss, there have been a few that have lost a child the last two years.
You are right there is no discribing, or expressing it....except with a towel, not tissues.

I was morning the two year loss of my daughter De when I heard the devestating news and all I could say is no, no, no. Please why our children?

I knew though I always had such deep caring friends that were praying for me and holding me in spirit.

Nothing cures the empty ache as we watch for our child to come in the door, play the answering machines with their voice on it, not want to part with anything they have, but hold their things to our face and take a huge deep breath to smell them near.
I know by now the tears are running and I don't mean for that to happen, but I know that it is what we need to do, cry until it seems not another tear can flow.

Feel free to contact me.....
di


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