The Round Peg -Square hole
 

Hi Girls is Mr Bitter---I am OK---No Gig emergency---No One to talk MS with tho----But I guess that's pay Back for being A guy with MS--------Its like Rachel Ray--The View and OH DARN The Convict form Connecticut all wrapped in one tight MS Package----
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No One to talk to about the new life--To BitC----H To....No one to be Pete with-------



Man that is a bummer its a double life sentence...............

My friend kid was dx'd with essential tremor? wow that hurts---he lost his DAD early--now this----MAN------that's A shot at ones faith----Hopefully ali12 will give me some words for his MOM my friend and his MOM-------And him-----how tough----what a bummmmmer



Thanks for given me the floor even if you ignore me===

Ahhh Pete? i am a guy with MS and talk all the time on here, and get a lot of help guidance and advise, this is a really great site. stop being so hard on yourself, folks here are fantastic helpful, kind and fun to know. I think if you give it a chance and visit more often you might find this site to be a wonderful blessing, i hope you are able to visit more and chat more, that is a major key to it all networking, feel better, hang in there and dont hesitate to yak if ya want i am on here 20 out of 24 hrs a day lately

Yeah, You sleepless guys in NOT Seattle, need to talk and straighten us out a little, as to how is is to be a MAN, with MS.

((((((Pete))))))) (((((Frank)))))))

Uh, Sal, I am a AMN with MS! How easily they forget!

Hang in there, Pete, every day has some good and some not-so-good in it. One of the many pluses here at NT is that there is more good here than out there in the rest of the world. :)

Ok I'm gonna be the one to say it...as everyone knows I am sometimes the queen of tough love.

How many more posts of people ignoring you...no one talking to you....being a bother to everyone...this is thread number what? In every single one everyone tries to encourage you...several offer to PM back and forth with you....I personally texted, called, and emailed with you. * edit*

Hopefully someone can encourage you enough *edit* this life is only what you make it out to be. Not trying to be a b-word here but speak from some experience. *edit* JMHO

I'm so sorry to read that you're still feeling down.

It sounds like you've been in a tough place where people don't understand you, and I certainly understand when you have no-one to talk to about how you feel, and about how MS is affecting you.

I too have been there. In fact, I only have my husband, my DD and my friends here on NT now that I can talk to. No-one else wants to listen, and MS has completely alienated me from my sister now. I suppose that wasn't quite true as my sister has always been full of herself, and her own problems have always been more important than anyone else's. 'My' MS has always been something between us. It's as if she's jealous that I have a diagnosable illness, and she doesn't!

It's not easy when all you want to do is talk, or vent or whatever word you want to use, but it sure is nice when some-one takes the time to listen, and that's what we do best here. We listen.

Keep talking to us, and hopefully soon we may be able to help you towards a more positive outlook. Just wanted you to know that I for one, care. :hug:

I believe that the above post should have been sent in a PM....but since it wasn't I will comment on it here on this forum.

IMHO......this site is about support.......helping each other along the way. Some of us need more help and support than others. We're all at different stages.......I remember when some of us needed lots of support while going through difficult life changes. And everyone was and is there for whoever needs it.

We never know what's going on at the particular moment someone is posting. We cannot see beyond the forums and the posts into the individual heart of the poster.

If someone reaches out (no matter how many times they have before) for help there's a reason for it. And I don't believe any of us should sit in judgment as to whether or not that person is justified in asking for help.....or simply venting about the unfairness (real or perceived) of their life at that particular moment.

some edits were needed here

a reminder of our guidelines

http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/showthread.php?t=1293

specifically

thanks

Sorry its so rough for you pete.:(:hug: I am here if you need to talk.
Yup...this ms sucks...some days more than others. We dont mind if
you only come here on your sucky days....we just hope when you
are not here...things are better.:) :hug:

MS does suck. Maybe a band-aid approach doesn't cut it sometimes, we all have MS in different ways. Think we all feel like square pegs in round holes but here I see I'm not a square peg in a round hole, these holes are more squared off. We have MS here and that's the norm.

Well for me---Mom and Dad--both got tremendously ill--my case with my state went terribly south

my rental I live in is in forclosure-------

not that my issues trump anyone else's------But I had enough---My meds--Work---Then they dont-----I just keep on getting weaker---


Sorry I am so neg---I have no release------I am scare I will be dead----soon


my Wife is growin tired of being wife---mother---maid----Maintenance guy----Her and me-------



I am so freek'n lonely----etc---I could go on----

PM me---By days end after someone touches my PC I know not who emailed me PM ME PC'd me----anything---------


I am as confused as tired----I can not help it-----everyone else has thrown stones------I may be weak---But I can take it-----

soo0n I wont have a home or a computer to know better-------Cause when you have no money the world takes horrible advantage of you---I know----I was foreclosed on in MAY---WAS told it could NEVER happen to ME---I am Handicapped---Yep I was given less than 2 weeks 2 leave......And its happening again....sorry I am moody...

Sorry others touch my stuff and I not know who whatevers me........


really what ever!!

I am so sorry you are having such a rough time right now. You certainly have quite a lot of negative stuff happening in your life. I see why you would be getting bitter about it.

I can't offer you solutions, just a prayer. There is only one who can help you and I pray that He intervenes in your life with the peace that only He can offer.

Im really sorry Pete but please keep reaching out....Ill be praying.:hug:

:grouphug:(((((((((((((Pete))))))))))))))

I'm really sorry, Pete, to hear all that you're going through. I think anyone would feel the way you do if they had all that on their plate at the same time. Hang in there. You're in my prayers.

PETE you really have a heavy
load to carry.

MS alone is heavy enough. It's no wonder why you feel the
way you feel.
I am glad that you found NT. Lash out, get the anger out.
We can listen, maybe give you some advise. (us crazy ladies) :D

We can't promise you the MOON only our friendship and
support.

Post anytime, even if you just want to say

"hello"---it's Pete

I FEEL GOOD

I FEEL TERRIBLE and you don't have to say
anything else if you don't want to.

Jappy :):)

:Good-Post: those were some very kind and encouraging words Jappy...
Im sure they are even helping lurkers some where. :hug:

Yeah, Pete, where are ya?

Hey, I can talk all day long about guy stuff.

Tom

Pete, where are you?? We're really, really worried about you :(. We care, a lot, :hug:. I've had a supremely bad few years financially, medically, death, you name it. We understand. Please check in. Please.

Hi--I have my Bad days--Then My terrible Days----Land Lord Lost my house---Make it 2 in a year for me renting----Its in the WPI section--

So Of all the luck a contractor---Nice man and his SON a WPI student are going to short sale---So we really are out----Funny--haha----Well the Wife hates it here----But we will Not be bullied out like last year-------The Wife thinks its a good thing---So Everything is GOOD----

Actually I had a OK day---OK is amazing----Thanks for not writing this moody selfish and cantankerous guy off-- Really---------It means a lot-----If I hurt any I'm sorry......You with the msg post PM's really picked me up at key times---If you believe its almost like an Angel says---Pssst say hi-------

Now its my turn to open my ear to our MS Angel-----You have my permission to until I start...And then still.

Thanks for the push----You know who..:hug:

Hey Pete

Hang in there and I'll say a prayer for another OK day!

Peace.

Hiya Pete...
OK is good. I'm pretty sure (though I know I can't speak for everyone, I do anyway :o) we all experience plenty of not OK days, so I'm happy for you! Maybe a change in locale will be a blessing in disguise. :hug: