Has anyone heard from BJ?
 

She hasn't been on here in about a month. She was also suffering with intense pain from a automobile accident,in which she was a passenger. Can anyone call her on the telephone. Another person has sent her a letter. What can we do? Can someone make a welfare check to her residence? I don't know what to do,or say. I'm worried about her. BF :hug::hug::hug:

hi BF,

you should change your name to "Best Friend" :)

Sometimes, I think people get into a "funk" that they just don't or want to or can't talk...

I know that I get into moods like that....

on the other hand, as we all care about her, of course we worry when we don't hear from her...so, hopefully, somebody will know something about BJ and maybe let us know...

thinking of you ,BJ...

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Thank you "who moi". She might be in a depression,and experiencing more pain,and anxiety then we know. Gosh,I know how tormenting the mind can be. The thinking processes can be so cruel.

She's also by herself. She has been going through a deep valley for a long time. That can take a great toll on us,and sort of cover up our hope,and make our vision of our later years in our life look fogged over.

BJ. The Lord is with you in these deep valleys. Hold on,and hang in there. BF:hug::hug::hug:

Just wanted to share that I heard from BJ today.
She is ok now....
beth

Bizi thank you for letting us know :hug:

BJ .. keeping you in my thoughts and prayers dear one :hug:

I have heard from BJ as well. I ask that we please keep up our prayers and surround her with lots of love and continue to let her know how very much we love her, unconditionally!!!!!
We do dear BJ. We love you!!!! :grouphug:

Bj are you listening? Are you laughing yet?
http://www.boyntonfordmusic.com/images/monster.jpgBig hugs!

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Unconditional love is the only kind of love we know around here!!!!!

:heartthrob: keeping you in my prayers!!!

I want to be in this circle, I need to be in this circle. Sibling survivors, the abandoned ones.

I had a dream last night where I tried to commit suicide by hanging myself just like Mark did. I actually dreamed that I felt the pain of the rope on my neck as I started to hang but I decided not to go ahead with it and managed to free myself. I woke up with fingernail marks in my neck trying to remove the imaginary rope. But for Mark the rope was real, it took away his pain. My psych said I’m unable to overcome feelings of guilt and turning the aggression on myself.

I shouldn’t have read that book Alffe, you’re right. But I did and I can’t get these thoughts, those words out of my head.

I’m going to listen to it now Alffe and can’t wait to hear the story about the cow.

((BJ)) I am so glad to see you posted. Much love:hug:

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I'm so happy to see you back in this circle BJ...we missed you! I'm off to bed but in the morning will send you the cow story. *grin :hug:

Dear BJ
 

Every time you think of that book,try to as if it where a TV program,to change the channel. Think of it as a TV program,and change the channel. Also try to not think of those thoughts that you cannot get out of your head for 15 minutes at least. Those thoughts should decrease in intensity. It could be making steps toward being able to do it in the future. There is allot of hope dear BJ.

All of this is hard. You where dreaming about these things. I grit my teeth in my sleep,so that shows that these things are deeply ingrained in our thoughts.

I have recently tried this changing the channel away from these unpleasant thoughts technique in my mind. I'm working on keeping my thoughts off those disturbing thoughts for 15 minutes.

My counsellor is teaching me this. I write down the worry,or burden on a piece of paper which I save. I mark off the problems that I aggrandized in my thoughts later when they have been taken care of.

I've had some very vivid dreams recently. Two nights in a row I have dreamed about my family members. One night it was unpleasant,and the next night the dreams where pleasant of my family. BF:hug::hug::hug:

did someone ordered some "circle of friends?"

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