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Prayers, please!
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This is Jadison, my 2.5 yr old granddaughter, whom I love with all my heart. My only grandchild.
Her parents have been divorced for a year now. Her mom has a hx of domestic violence and overdose. She was awarded custody, but still, asked that we watched Jadi 3-4 days a week. Last July, she called me, had taken a handful of pills - in her own words - and said it was too much, so she was leaving the state to be with her BF (also her cousin). My son filed for custody, and Jadi's mom came back to town one week before the pre-hearing, with BF, to stay at her mom's house. All the while she was gone, she had been collecting child support - which she has spent, who knows on what. She has only had one job in her life, back before she went out of state, for a few weeks. The guy she is with has been in so much trouble, even his family says to keep him away from Jadi AND her mom. Okay, all of that, you might hear as gossip in any custody thing. But Jadi's mom knows she is not in good standing in this case, what having left for 8 months and all. She is desperate, so she called CPS and filed molestation charges. From what I know, CPS went to talk to my son and they seem to think he is doing fine raising her and there is nothing to be concerned about. But Jadi's mom alleges my dd's bf did something to the baby. I have known this boy for three years, and he has never been in any trouble. If I thought for one second he did anything to my Jadison, ttrust me, he'd have more to worry about than CPS - he'd be dealing with ME first. And you all know me well enough to believe that. Where Jadi's mother is staying, with HER mom, all kinds of people are going in and out - she has a teen brother, all his friends who are constantly in trouble, her mom and all her barfly bf's - who molested her kids over the years - not to mention baby's mom, and all the guys she had been with since the divorce. So what does CPS decide? They say for now, Jadi can only be with my son or Jadi's mom or her mom. Because dd's bf lives with us, she cannot be here. I cannot see her until the investigation is over. If that child has been molested - and I pray to God she has not!_ it was at THAT house - and that's where CPS wants her to be. All the time when her daddy is working, she is right there with them. And it would be bad enough if her mother was doing this because she desparately wanted her child - but she only wants to hurt my son. If she wanted her daughter that badly, she never would have abandonned her to begin with. Constant, constant drama with her. Things like this could eat you up alive. How will CPS know WHO is in that house? All I can think is I hope all this backfires and they find that she is making false accusations. Can she go to jail for that? If anything did happen to Jadi, we will never know WHO did it, there are TOO many people over there who are like that! Anyway, please keep this poor little girl in your thoughts. All I want is for her to be safe. Thank you all. :grouphug: |
prayers for the baby Cathy.:(:hug:
It seems to me if there are false allegations found....its a complete waste of precious time which could be spent on children who need it.:( fortunately ,they take molestation allegations seriously. I hope they find your granddaughter has been safe. hugs Cathy......im sorry that you and yours have to go thru so much drama.:hug: |
:hug:Cathy, I know your heart is hurting big time over this. :hug: Your granddaughter will be in my prayers.
:Bang-Head: I really hate when a parent plays these games against their own child... because that is who they are ultimately hurting when they "can't get along".... I have a similar family drama that thankfully hasn't escalated to CPS involvement yet, just threats by the noncustodial parent....:hissyfit: |
Aw Brain,
I'm so sorry the poor little girl is going through this. Also for your son and you. :hug::hug: You must be so worried. I'd be sick over this. :( Take good care of yourself and try to relax as much as you can... :hug: |
I'm so sorry to hear about this. It's always the children who pay the biggest price for all the drama. I know this is breaking your heart and you're all in my prayers. Surely those in the right will prevail in this. Sometimes the "systems" rules seem like a bunch of red tape that takes the focus off the real problem. I pray that the truth comes out and that this little girl is able to go permanently with your son.
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Oh, Cathy!! That is horrendous. I will pray for her.
I hope they find the allegations to be false (very quickly!) and bring her up on charges for filing a false report! I have heard too much about this girl over the last couple of years and she is in no way a fit parent. This further proves that. I am so, so sorry you have to deal with this and I pray that NO ONE ever touched that baby. |
prayers for the family being raised. :grouphug:
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You got 'em, Brain.
Doesn't CPS have to do frequent impromptu home visits when there are allegations? Maybe you could encourage them to adhere closely to their own policies. At any rate, I'll just pray and hope that the whole truth comes to light quickly. Hang in there, Cathy. :hug: |
Prayers for you and your dear Grandbaby, Brain. I hope it all turns out what is best for the child.
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AW Cath~ I'm so sorry to hear this. That little one is so adorable and her eyes just make me melt. I agree that CPS should keep close tabs on this case; hopefully the truth will come out soon. It's just so unfair to keep her loving Grandma away from her.
Hang in there Cath~ I'm praying for little Jadi, you and your DS. |
Oh dear God, please keep this family in your loving arms. Keep this little girl close to your heart and away from the demons who threaten to mess up her life. Give her mother the grace to admit her wrong doing if she is lying and to come clean and allow this precious child of yours to live a normal life. Protect Jadison from beings who want to hurt her and use her for evil. In addition, lay your loving hands down on Grandma BGB and Jadison's father who need you more than ever right now.
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AMEN....thanks, Sandy..:hug:
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Aaaackkk! That's just awful, Brain! Hate to think about stuff like that, but will definitely remember you and your dear granddaughter in my prayers. Praying she is safe and sound. :hug:
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I can only hope this will have a happy ending. Keep us posted.:hug:
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As always, Cathy, you're in my thoughts and prayers.
I see a little bit of you in her face. Tom |
oh brain, i'm so sorry your little GD is going thru this.
you guys need a good lawyer. i hope you have one. i will keep little jadison in my prayers. please keep us updated. you're all in my prayers. |
Your granddaughter will be in my prayers. ((((HUGS)))) to you.
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This just broke my heart. My grandaughter is 27 months old and I can't imagine anyone who cares for her or even meets her not loveing her to death and doing anything in their power to protect her. You have my heartfelt prayers and ever present thoughts.
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We will be praying for her. Check your inbox. I have a few suggestions.
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Cathy, I'm so sorry to hear that your family is going through this...CPS should be doing a better job of interviewing everyone, and visiting everyone. I hate some of these services that tear families apart.
Prayers for your granddaughter, and you...:grouphug: |
Thank you all for listening and caring.
:grouphug: This isn't the first time the baby and I have been kept from each other, but it's terrible every time. I can only hope and pray everything works out for the best, you know?That poor little kid has been through so much in her short life. |
Cathy, I'm so sorry things have gotten so bad for you and your precious granddaughter. It's just awful to keep the two of you apart like that.
You and Jadison are in my prayers and thoughts. Please take care of yourself with all of this going on. :hug: |
Okay, update. CPS is supposed to interview everyone involved. Here's one problem, this is going to span 3 counties. How much can go wrong trying to coordinate 3 different cps systems? UGH...
So we (here at my house) have not heard anything, have not been called nor had a house visit. I am not sitting here letting this eat me alive though - it well could, but I refuse to allow it. Finding everything I can to divert my attention, and doing laps around the ol' Rosary beads. :winky: We painted the kitchen, finally. Now that's a diversion for ya. :grouphug: |
i'm still praying for you and your family.
CPS should be able to see where the best place for your GD is. they must have a lot of experience with dysfunctional families and manipulative parents. i pray they see the light, and it is you. |
Oh that is awful, I am SO sorry that you, your granddaughter and your family are having to deal with all of this right now:hug:! I really hope that things get better real soon and that your granddaughter gets the help and care that she desperately needs and deserves.
She is absolutely adorable and is so lucky to have you - you're one incredible lady and I mean that!:hug: I'm thinking about you all and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us all updated as and when you can! |
Still keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers, Cath! I'm just still so befuddled at how these things can happen to good people. Lil Jadi deserves better and I'm praying she will get to see her Grammy soon.
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Cathy you your grandbaby and DS are in my prayers.
I just don't understand what CPS does at times. I have seen to many children put in the hands of the wrong person. Wishing that all goes well. Jappy :hug: |
So sorry you're going through this. :hug:
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