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Hi i am sherry and i am on a roller coster ride my life is very crazy right now and i do not know where to post so i hope it is not in the wrong area if it is forgive me! Well i am a mother of 2 sons one 28 the other is 29 years old i have no one to talk to so hear i go.On Dec 2 2007 My son the oldest one killed my ex- husband with a machette in Palmer,Alaska and then turning on his fathers girl friend and hacked on her the State of Alaska never did nothing to protect me not him from his father he abused me pulled me down stairs by my hair hand cuffed me in the basement ect..... He beat both my son and my self and put him down very badly he was a drinker and a doper in no means do i think it is right what my son did no i do not.I am seeing a Doctor now for depression now and have very bad anixity atacks i have a assist dog he travles every where with me and to the court room in Palmer , Alaska now the judge here in Anchorage will not allow me entry to the court room with my dog a small poodle saying he dosent allow a doggie day camp asked me what was a medical need and i do not have to ancwer that hippa law pt. privicay act:) i have never been refused entry to any where and feel like i can not go with out my dog the with me eases the anixity i have and i feel like i do not know where to go for help with this i know fed. law over rules state law and i have rights he stated my dog is not school trained and no paper work but i have a letter from my Doctor he is not a dog for the blind so i dont have to have him schooled i just hope some one can point me in the right area where i need to go to be able to be let in with my assist dog my son also shot 3 people here in Anchorage i am very sad what he did i do not agree with what he did but i do love my son and have every right as a mother to be there he will be in jail for life and my heart is so very hurt no one will ever know just how bad i feel in side.I miss my son more than words could say. for me not to be able to go to this part of the trial is unfair and wrong and somthing i will have to live with for the rest of my life.Like i told his lawyers in Palmer kids just do not wake up and say i am bored i think i will chop up my father. my son Erin has been in 2 burn units for his father and the State of Alaska knows and has all the proofs of abuse and hospital records i wish not to set him free no not at all i think they need to look at some mental help but there not not to be free . i hope some one could give me some help in the area of assist dog refusal entry to a court room what i can do if your just gona put me down and tell me off please do not reply i feel bad enough and need postive feed back where i can go :(:(:( Thank you for allowing me this time to write and for you to read this Sherry

Dear Sherry,
I'm so very sorry with all you have been going through. :(

We have a forum here concerning Service & Support Animals Forum
I wish I could give you more information about the assist dog, but I live in Australia, a long way away, and I've no idea what to suggest right now. However, I'm sure there are people who check that forum who would have more information for you.

As well as posting here, I would also suggest that you may find some very supportive people in the Survivors of Suicide Forum

Hello Sherry
welcome to NeuroTalk tho I am so sorry to hear what brings you here:(

I see Lara has given you the link to the service animals forum and the SOS group :grouphug: and I hope you will find the information and support that you need for your support dog as well as for you .This must be so very very hard for you

I will be praying for you and your son. May God work miraculously in this whole situation and bring blessings even in the midst of it all

THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSAGE these are very hard times for me i will look at the web sites that were left for me

WOW Sherry, what a Horrible situation you are in! I'm so sorry for all the abuse & sadness that everyone has & will have to endure. I can't even begin to imagine how badly you must feel as a mom. My prayers are with you. I'm very new here but these people are so caring & extremely helpful! I know you will find your way. Stay strong.

laura thank you this may help me out
 

Laura thank you i think thius may help me out my dog dosent have to have any schooling has i can see it is medicaly for me thank you a lot Sherry

That's ok, Sherry.

I know there are a few people who use the Service Dog forum who have a lot of knowledge. I hope you get some answers or information about your dog.

You take care of yourself there. It must be awfully difficult for you right now.

Hello dear Sherry,

Well, unfortunately, I know nothing about animal law in your country :mad: So, I might be useless for you...

But I will do the only thing I can do for you now:

Pray
and
send you hugs !!!!!! :hug:

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Im sure you will find tons of help in this forum as I have :)

XOXO
God Bless !

Hi Sherry, my heart goes out to you. I hope that you found the information you needed. Are you seeing a counselor? They might be able to help you with these questions as well. I can not imagine being in your shoes right now. It has to be more than overwhelming. I have sent my prayers for you and your children. :o :hug: I hope you will all find some peace and strength as you work through this nightmare.

Praying for you, my dear. :hug::hug::hug:

A very big thank you for all who wrote to me
 

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Thank you to all who have wrote to me with the warmest wishes i am seeing a therpist now and have been. Just very hard i love my son with all my heart and sole he has always been a very careing son to me and helped me in my yard and i may say i had the nicest yard on the block then flowers but now it not much. It hurts so much to know when i do die my son will not be there and for me. To talk about this is very hard people tend to judge on what they know nothing about and can get very ugly i have had people blog very ugly things about my son and me and people i do not even know some people i guess are not happy unless they spout out uglyness and not care what there words are truly doning to a person and how much it chips away at a person a little at a time. Never a day will go by i dont cry and wonder if i will ever get better how i truly do not know when or if i ever get to hug my son.Some people in Palmer ,Alaska went in my sons place and took all his things and made a bon fire out of his stuff so i have really nothing but some pictures and my assit dog he gave to me his name is lucky he is a poodle and means the world to me threw this when i cry he comes up in my face and i just hold him i have had him for about 6 years my son found him in the middle of no where so we named him lucky lucky a bear or wolf pack dident get him and he was matted so very bad you could see his ribs and back bone eyes all matted now he is a spoiled boy and fat! I really hope the State of Alaska keeps my son here we have a max prison in Seward Alaska it will be hard to go to a prison but i will go and visit him. I have a very hard time sleeping at night so my Doctor gave me sleeping pills i do not like takeing them but if i dont i still cant sleep this is like a very bad dream somthing i would never wish on anyone to ever go threw ever in a million years But to all of you that wrote to me the warmest thank you you do not know what it means to have total strangers write such nice careing messages means a lot to me i like this site this is the warmest things that have been said from Dec2 2007 till now once again thank you very much from my heart Sherry

(((Sherry))) Hold on there.

I see your name in chat. I'm trying to get in there, but nothing happens.

Edited later to add: I did finally get into chat by using the Quick Links.
I'm sorry I missed you. Hope you finally get some sleep.

dearest Sherry
I am so sorry about your family. This is a horrfic situation even for the strongest of people. Please feel a part of the family here for prayers and support.

I wanted to add also to contact NAMI. They have a lot of information and lawyers available. I know they can not keep a blind persons dog from entering and there should be equal consideration for your disability. At a NAMI conference I got to meet a few folks with service dogs so I hope they can help you.

National association for mental illness or something similar. I think the were changing the title to be friendlier sounding.

Another would be the local county or representatives office you are at. Look in the phone book for their support offices. Also a legal Aide in the area.
I would even try Sarah palins office!!!
Know our thoughts are with you...
Di

Dearest Shelly...people are always afraid of something that they don't understand. I am so sorry that you and your family are being treated that way. Know that we are holding you in love and prayer for added strength.....Please take the meds for sleep. That is very imortant right now for mental and emotional balance. And, yes, you do need Lucky by your side. That is a beautiful analogy, you all saved her when she was in dire need and now she is helping to save you. God truly does work miracles even in the direst of situations. :hug: