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toto 05-05-2009 10:42 PM

How many bad things can happen
 
I mean seriously; do I have a black cloud hanging over my head. Did someone put a hex on me?
My partner looses her job a few months ago, I get dx with ms, have to file for bankruptsy, and tonight my sis calls to tell me Mom was thrown from her horse and is in the hospital. She has a broken collar bone and all banged up.
The other bad things I can deal with but my Mom getting hurt like that nearly ripped my heart out.

I am just venting, so thanks for letting me rant, I just so upset.

Friend2U 05-06-2009 12:23 AM

Hoping things start looking up for you very soon! :)

Desinie 05-06-2009 01:01 AM

Sorry to hear of all you're going through. It does seem when it rains, it pours, doesn't it? Hang in there, better days are coming. :hug:

Kitty 05-06-2009 04:44 AM

So sorry to hear of all the bad news. I can certainly relate to some of it. I hope your Mom is on the mend and feels better real soon. It is very hard to hear of a loved one being hurt or sick. I'd rather it be me than them. :hug:

Dejibo 05-06-2009 08:02 AM

it does seem that our lives go in circles, and I hope you have turned that corner and are now headed back to the brighter side of the circle.

its tough when others lose their jobs, or get ill and or injured. I hope your partner finds a new job and your momma heals up quickly. Riding horses! woo! I miss that.

Vent away, we all do it. :hug:

soxmom 05-06-2009 10:58 AM

Hope things start getting better real soon.:hug:

SallyC 05-06-2009 11:04 AM

Well, I am glad the black cloud moved from over my head, but, so sorry it landed on you..:(

I'm sorry about your DM and I hope she heals soon....Prayers coming your way. :hug:

toto 05-06-2009 11:42 AM

Thank you for all the well wishes. I talked to DM today She is in pain but good spirits. She said an ortho is going to look at her to determine if surgery is needed for the broken collarbone since it is not a clean break.

DM says Domino(her horse) will only be a pet now. He is a super seet horse just to unpredictable. His previous owner was not very nice to him when trying to break him, and that is why he spooks so easily. Mom thought working with another trainer would get him over that and he could be safely ridden but appharently not.

ali12 05-06-2009 02:44 PM

Hi Toto,

So sorry to hear about everything that you are going through right now!!:hug: I really hope things start improving for you real soon and please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and if you ever need anyone to talk to, I am here for you!!!

Take care of yourself and feel free to vent all you like here - that is what the forum is for and we do understand some of what you are going through and will try and help you the best we can!!:hug:

Alison.

DM 05-06-2009 03:18 PM

NO more black clouds for you, Toto! Glad to hear your Mother wasn't hurt worse.

Hoping things turnaround for you soon. Take care.

SandyC 05-06-2009 04:20 PM

That darn black cloud! Just keep moving and maybe it will get confused.

Hope your mom gets better soon and things get better in the job search for your partner.

Kitty 05-07-2009 05:35 AM

I hope things are better today. :hug:

Sometimes.....when seemingly bad things happen to us......we can look back over that time (months or even years down the road) and see the good that has come out of those circumstances. Couldn't see it when it was happening......but later on it becomes apparent.

It's happened to me. I'd be the first to tell you that I'd have never believed it if you had told me that while the negative stuff was going on.....so I don't want you to think I'm just a "Pollyanna" trying to make you feel better with false words of hope.

I can't say that I'm happy the negative stuff happened.....but I can see the other side now. I hope things get better for you. :hug:

yeahbut 05-07-2009 06:52 AM

Toto - sorry things have gone bad for you for a while by the sounds! I hope things start looking up for you.

toto 05-07-2009 10:18 AM

I spoke to DM this morning. They release her from the hospital and are not going to do surgery for the broken collar bone. She is in good spirits, partly due to the pain killers :wink: DM will be out of commission for a long time, which it ticking her off royally but at least she is ok.
I am feeling much better knowing DM is on the mend. The other thing will work out somehow.
Thank you all:grouphug:

NurseNancy 05-07-2009 10:31 PM

i'm glad your mom is going to be fine.

it does seem like bad things come in doubles, or triples.
i hope all works out on the bright side for you.


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