Off topic - My heart is breaking.......
 

Oh Erin,
I'm sorry and I can definitely sympathize! My daughter moved to Texas when my grandbaby (who turned 10 today, by the way), was 18 mos. old. I thought I would die. They had lived with us her whole life, and I remember when I said goodbye to her with tears streaming down my face, she gave me the most puzzled look! It still almost makes me cry remember the feelings.

One thing I can tell you, is that your little Lilli won't forget you - call her often - and you'll see, their voices are even sweeter on the phone from a long distance. And remember, nothing is permanent! Do you think your sis would let Lilli come for visits with you in the summer months?

Big hugs to you Erin! My heart breaks for you, so your's has company!

erin-i don't know what to say but know i'm praying for you! yes- definitly send things,call write, hopefully they will cooperate. even keep a little book or journal and share it with her at a later time. i'm so sad for you and mike.but on a brighter note how about voluteering or big sister time of thing to fill the void. love xmas 25:sorry:

Oh Erin, I am so sorry sweetie. I wish there was something I could say or do to make you feel better. I know you will miss her terribly. I don't think your sister would object to you calling her often. You can send her letters and lots of pictures, she would love that. Maybe you and Mike can visit them in NY and maybe she can visit you too. My heart goes out to you.

Big Hugs,
Pat

Erin, so sorry to hear someone you are so close to is moving so far away. Wish there was something I could say to help you feel better. You will be in my thoughts.

ckitty

Hi dear, its sad to see what they're doing to you! Wish there were things that we could all do to make you feel better, but I think all you wish is to see her with you. Continue to write Lilli letters, send her cards, photos of you and Mike, and call her whenever you can! Am sure she'll remember you when she grows up!! :hug:

Hi Erin,
I'm very sorry for what is happening to you, you certainly have the right to be sad…but I would like to tell more: there will be other moments which will be as rewarding as the past ones, and may be even more.
When we married (in Belgium, 46 years ago…), we flew to Central Africa for my work, we stayed there 4 years with a four month holiday in between, our first two sons were born over there, we corresponded with the family, we shot color movies which we sent to the parents and after one year stay in Belgium, we were sent for two years in Pittsburgh, Pa…and we continued the system!
Now, one of our sons is settled in Montreal (Canada)…and it is our turn…but nowdays, one could call and webcam do work wonderfully…
One last thing, 2 weeks ago, we had a party for my 70th birthday (a surprise for me!)with all the family and some friends, most of them coming from about 500 miles away and gess what, my son from Montreal was there, just for the week-end!
Those are also unforgetable moments…
Maurice.

Erin
 

It must be awful being part of lilli's life like that and then they up sticks and move.

She wont forget you and hopefully she can come and stay with you during the holidays. When your sister sees the cost of childcare, she will realise you will be doing her a favour!

How about webcams so that you can see her when you talk to her? Maybe buy one as a leaving present for lilli?

I dont know what else to say, but my heart goes out to you.

Love rach xx

Erin, I am sorry you are going through this but it at least explains the distance your sister started putting between you {since she knew she was going to move} Maybe she thinks if you are mad at her then it makes her moving away easier on her and you? As for your niece, I am sure your sister in time will allow her to visit you for summer break. But having lived in upstate NY myself, don't be surprised if she doesn't move back home soon LOL. Just keep communication open with her and in time things will work out. Big hugs :grouphug:

Erin, It's never good to feel like your heart is breaking! I think having family members far away is the toughest thing ever. I'm really sorry she is moving so far away. Emails and phone calls just aren't the same as seeing someone. I hope it isn't too hard on you because your MG can't really take the stress.

Annie

Erin
So sorry to hear that, Annie is right phone & emails don't cut it, my boys & family are spread out, it is hard to be a part of there lives at such a distance, & miss so much.

Hey Erin,

how are you doing. I can't imagine what you are going through.
I have a brother and sister in law about a 5 minute drive away, and my sil is like a sister to me. She rang up the other day to see if I could have my niece for the day so she could go out to a meeting. I agreed and said we would spend the day cooking, as we both love it so much. I can't imagine not being able to just pop up and see my 2 darling nieces. I will be thinking of you
Kate

My son and all my family is spread out throughout the country as well. Nothing can take the place of being with them. It was a difficult adjustment to make. Hope everyone is having a good day! Take care;)

Hugs,
Pat