I broke it off with..............
 

Hi,
I broke up with Dirk. I am fine. I couldn't take his drinking, insecurites, paranoia and lies.:mad:

Took me a few months to realize all this crap, but I cannot live like this, and I don't deserve to.;)

Now just waiting until he moves OUT, should be ASAP. At least I hope so by the end of the month.

Hugs, Nikko

so sorry, but glad you saw these issues before getting too entangled or too invested emotionally.
:grouphug:

((((((Nikko)))))),

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Damn straight -- you don't deserve it. Glad you realized it.

Now you can start focusing on what you DO WANT. I can't wait to see what kind of life you are going to get when you focus on YOUR WANTS -- you are going to be kicking @$$ and loving it :cool:

BIG HUGS (and love).

Barb :hug:

you have such a winning personality that you deserve the best. If only you could meet a dog lover. That is how you might meet somebody deserving of you. YOU ARE SO BRAVE....BRAVO
BIG HUGS
bobby

Wow!
I hope he moves out sooner and hope that he isn't being a jerk to you...
YOu deserve to be loved and treated well.
period!
((((HUGS))))
bizi

Nikko,

I'm sorry to hear things didn't work out but it is better now than later. Hugs to you my friend.

befuddled2

Nikko

BRAVO!! TO YOU

I have to say I'm very impressed with you. And I also think its just the
first step in lots of happier days for you.

Donna

Dear Nikko,
You are doing great to make decisions and changes based on what is good for you.
I applaud you.
M.

WOW! I need to catch up!......pardon me while I read some threads!
Sorry to hear about this Nikko. I know how much you liked him. But at least you found out about this quickly.

RELIEF - After work yesterday he moved some clothes and personal items to his brother and sister in laws, and is staying there from now on. I know why he decided this, 1. So he can drink over there 2. So he wouldn't have to pay the rest of the month's rent. All is ok with me.

I got the keys back, and told him to call when he is going to pick the rest of his things. Although I don't think that it won't be done in one shot.

He kept saying how he loved me, and please think about this, like begging me.

I stayed to my guns. I have to for my sanity. I also found out more about him from someone, that I really don't like at all.

I just hope this is a swift move of his things out of here. My anxiety level has dropped, yet I know I have to deal with him again when he comes to get more things. ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Hugs, Nikko:grouphug: