Walking aids?
 

When I go shopping I HAVE to use a shopping cart to help me with walking. When DH and I take the kids some where like the zoo I use the baby stroller, now that the "baby" is turning 4 next month he doesn't stay in the stroller so what am I going to do, just push it with all 7 kids walking, LOL.

I have a cane but I find it doesn't help much and makes my arm/hand hurt. I just can't use a walker. DH is fighting me on the scooter thing, after all I can walk very well most of the time. Also I can't deal with the scooter having the handle bars, my arms can't handle it so I really would have to go to a power wheel chair. When I'm tried I get wobbly and my legs get weak.

My legs are now (at least they have been for the last 10 weeks) partly numb from my waste down all the time.

I don't know what I should do, I NEED my baby stroller, LOL :o I just can't give it up.DH fought with me the last time we went to the zoo, he told me that Brian (the almost 4 year old "baby") wasn't going to stay in it. I told him I know it but I HAD to use it. He agreed I could take it but I did feel silly pushing a stroller with-out a kid in it the whole time we were there. Brian is almost the same size as his just turned 5 year old brother so he IS getting to big to be in the stroller :rolleyes: so I know it looks odd for all the kids to be walking and me walking behind everyone with a baby stroller. :confused:

If it helps you walk and makes you feel more secure who cares what it looks like or what DH thinks? You can use it to hold sweaters and coats, your purse, packages, or whatever.

If I went somewhere with seven kids I would feel justified doing whatever the heck I wanted if it made things easier on me!!

Your husband is fighting you on a scooter? What do you mean by that? Is he embarassed that you want a scooter? Or is he trying to get you to use one?

If you can walk, but you need something to hold onto, get a rollator. If you need it, you need it. Your ability to walk without falling down is more important than what you look like to the rest of the world with a rollator. It's nothing to be embarassed about.

It's more embarassing to fall flat on your face in the middle of the zoo than it is to be using a rollator to keep yourself upright.

I've been lucky and am not having problems walking yet, but when I fell down the stairs and injured my knee in january, I was using one of my mom's rollators to get around in my basement on the sore knee. It was so much better than using the crutches the ER gave me or crawling on the floor.

Use the rollators...get an electric scooter if you need one. Of course, if you get an electric scooter, make sure you get a basket or two, because I'm sure all 7 of your munchkins will be having you hold their drinks and jackets and toys for them.

Some zoos actually will rent the electric scooters. My local zoo does. We've rented them to take my mom to the zoo before. Easier than hauling my mom's scooter into the back of my car. (her scooter is one of the huge ones that can be broken down for travel, but even in pieces it's seriously heavy)

He says I don't need one. :rolleyes:

I don't want to rent the ones like at the zoo, I can't handle having my arms out to use the handle bar type steering.

They do have chairs like this http://www.scootermobility.com/Power...-12-4-1883.htm that you can use. No big control yoke in front of you. Just a little joystick on one side, with a nice arm rest.

This is probably something that I would use, since I get tendonitis (or is it spasticity?) in my shoulders that would make it uncomfortable for me to use the scooters with handlebars.

This is what I have been leaning towards getting.

When we bought my mom her latest scooter (she had knee replacements and has spinal stenois) I was looking at all the electric scooters and chairs too. Kind of "window shopping" just in case I should need one someday.

I kind of like the ones that are more chairs than scooters. I played around riding a couple. The scooter type seemed to have more control because you had handlebars.

The chair type felt like it would take a while to figure out the joystick controls, but the people at the pharmacy we were at, said that they're actually very easy to control. They also can tweak the controls for you so that the response is sensitive to your hand movements, or not so sensitive.

I hope I wont have to use one of those for a long time, but I'm already shopping around for the style I'd like to get if I ever have to use one. (I trip occasionally, so I might end up with one sooner than I want one) A friend of mine who paints cars has said that he'd decorate the cover that goes over the batteries for me whenever I do get one. (in a nice patriotic design)

If your husband doesnt think you need one, try explaining to him why you think you need one. I'd point out that if you're so tired from walking that you're falling down, that for safety sake, you need a scooter or walking aide of some sort. You might not hurt yourself everytime you fall down, but all you need to do is fall just the right (wrong?) way and you could seriously injure yourself.

Tell him that it would be safer, and easier for you to have some sort of walkaide, and then you'll be able to help him easier with the Magnificent Seven that you have running around.

I know one thing, your husband is going to be sorry if you fall and break a hip.:mad:
Did you know that women are more likely to break a hip in a fall than a man is? It has to do with how wide apart or pelvic bones are.
Good grief, if you need a scooter or a power chair then you should have one.
I don't want to be mean but, what if he were in your boat? Then how would he think. If you have a scooter, just think, he would not have to push you in a wheelchair if you can no longer walk.
I can't walk any where and I hate it, however, my husband pushes my transporter chair or he assembles my scooter and gets it out of the trunk of the car.
Good luck. I have fallen so many times that I would not want to see anyone have to break something in order to prove a point.