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sadkell12 03-05-2012 01:17 PM

lost hope..
 
I thought I had found new hope in my puppy dasiy, but she has been ripped from me, everything has been taken from me ripped out of my hands I no longer have hope or something to hold on to.. feel so lost and broken..

Lara 03-05-2012 07:11 PM

:(

What do you mean, Kell?
Where is your puppy?

ginnie 03-05-2012 07:48 PM

wht happened sadkill?
 
What happened. Please let us know so we can help you. I care what happens. Nobody takes loosing a pet well ever! ginnie

sadkell12 03-05-2012 08:29 PM

my baby dasiy
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by ginnie (Post 858344)
What happened. Please let us know so we can help you. I care what happens. Nobody takes loosing a pet well ever! ginnie

My baby dasiy, (I didn't like dolly) she is gone the owner came to get her even tho my husband paid for her.. she said that we paid 50 thru her friend and the lady showed up demanding.100. More aand we just couldn't do it.. and had to give her back.. I loved her and itts like yet another baby even tho not humen was taken from my arms..I. hate this life I hate everything I hate that lady dasiy was for me.. she slept with me she never. Left my side. When I showered there she was waiting for me on the rug, she followed me around the house she satt on my lap when I sat down and cried on the edge of the couch.. and she was taken from me... f this life my heart can't take anymore..

Jaycojade 03-05-2012 11:15 PM

You've been thur so much; with losing ur babies & now ur puppy too. I wish words could take away all ur pain & bring you comfort & peace forever, they do help ~~ for awhile. But then all the pain comes rushing back. Praying & talking to Jesus is what gets me thur my sorrow & sadness. And my memories. I will still send you..... the hope for peace & my prayers. Take care.:hug:

Ponygirl 03-06-2012 03:13 AM

Welcome to NeuroTalk, Kell!!!!!!
 
:hug: Please, continue talking to us!!!
We 're so glad, you're here, and care about you so much!!!!!! :hug:

Phyllis

Alffe 03-06-2012 08:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sadkell12 (Post 858357)
My baby dasiy, (I didn't like dolly) she is gone the owner came to get her even tho my husband paid for her.. she said that we paid 50 thru her friend and the lady showed up demanding.100. More aand we just couldn't do it.. and had to give her back.. I loved her and itts like yet another baby even tho not humen was taken from my arms..I. hate this life I hate everything I hate that lady dasiy was for me.. she slept with me she never. Left my side. When I showered there she was waiting for me on the rug, she followed me around the house she satt on my lap when I sat down and cried on the edge of the couch.. and she was taken from me... f this life my heart can't take anymore..

I'm sorry Kell. Have you considered adopting a dog? Many of us have done this, including me. There are so many dogs that need a new life and I think you could provide a lot of love for a dog in need. :hug:

ginnie 03-06-2012 10:09 AM

Hi sadkill
 
I am so sorry, that someone added to your grief. I am sorry that your dog was taken from you in that fashion. I know it hurts, and added to the hurt you already felt.
I lost my best friend scruffy over a year ago, I know he was only a cat, but he was my traveling companion during the years I worked. I had a lot of loss in my life too, and loosing him was horrible. Having said that, I adopted another. Even though I do not love this one in the same way, it did help me with the feelings of loss, and helped me to move forward with my grief. He doesn't take the place of what I lost, but he aided me in the grieving process. He wound up being a blessing in my life, even when I though it wasn't going to work. Please adopt, allow another pet, which someone can't take away from you. Shelters are busting through with pets, wanting a home, and love. This will help with your grief. Go to the shelter and just look. Your heart will open up and some animal will look at you, and you will know right away, that the animal should come home with you. Allow God to work in his ways, to provide help with your grief. A furry companion on your lap is a healing thing. I hope you will give this a try. I care about you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. ginnie

Leesa 03-09-2012 01:33 PM

Bless your heart! My heart aches for you. I'm so sorry this has happened. The owner is a cruel, heartless woman.:mad:

Please don't lose hope -- there IS light at the end of the tunnel, believe me. Look at all the responses you got --- there are people who love and care for you! :wink:

Please keep talking to us!!! It's the best "healer" there is -- friendship. :)
We'll be here for you whenever you need us. God bless you sweetie, and take care. Hugs, Lee

Saffy 04-04-2012 10:46 AM

All I can offer is love, from a distance, to a stranger who is hurting. X


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