Family asking for a huge fee
 

My brother in law wrote me a e-mail. I wrote about it in the SOS forum.

I don't know what I'm going to do. He's asking me for $12.350 dollars. I don't have that much.

I'm shocked,and I'm trying to make it through the night. BF.:(:hug:

I've answered you over in SOS, BF.

dear Friend
 

((((((((((((( HUGS )))))))))))))))

i'm going to SOS right now to read your post and see what this is all about.
that is an awful lot of money.
well, it is to me, and clearly to you as well. :(

try to hold on. :hug:

~ waves ~

What's going on Brokenfriend?? HOW can they just demand money from you like that?? I can't find SOS anyone got a link? I am so sorry this is happening, why do they think they can just email you and demand 12 Grand like that?? DOn't they know you don't have it?? How are you holding up? We're here for you Brokenfriend....:(

Dear Friend,
I am sending you prayers and good thoughts.
Try to breathe and be patient while you are waiting for Emergency Services to help you.
Mari

Hi Pamster. It was,and is a shock. I still can't get him on the phone. I can't afford that money. This is unreal. BF:hug::hug::hug:

Here is the link to BF's thread on the SOS( Survivor of Suicide) Forum: http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/showthread.php?p=575395#post575395

Thanks for the link Abbie! :D I am so sorry Brokenfriend. They most likely CANNOT do this to you legally, so try not to worry. You just make sure you don't SIGN ANYTHING For this BIL, NOTHING okay? He'll try to make you pay 19 months of rent and without a lease he hasn't a leg to stand on legally. Hang in there....

Yeah ... AND, for that matter
 

do not agree to anything via email either.

pretty sure emails are legally acceptable / binding nowadays. even an acknowledgment on your part could render the situation more difficult.

i think the best thing might be not to reply at all, until you get some advice from legal aid on how to proceed.

keep breathing... one step at a time. you will make it.

right now, i hope you are managing to get some sleep and that you will feel somewhat better upon waking.

:hug::hug::hug:

~ waves ~

Can you talk with your sister?
maybe he is doing this without her knowledge?

in the court cases on tv - if some is letting you live somewhere rent free for a long time and no rent was ever asked for before , they can't come back and try to collect anything.

If anything they could ask for you to start paying some rent now and for the future...

try not to stress about it , maybe he is just messing with you..:(:mad:

{does he have gambling or other issues that might have caused money problems for them?}