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Dejibo 05-27-2010 04:44 PM

I offended a friend!
 
ok, #1 I dont feel good. #2 I am running on empty. #3 there is no excuse.

Anyway. I made a statement that hurt someones feelings. Have you ever just made a statement that you wanted to swallow.

The statement has NO reflection on this person, but had I been thinking, I would have realized it would have upset them. I should have just shut up, and I didnt.

so...can you say im sorry, and make it all go away? I hope so.

I am going to bed. I have had enough of this day. :o

Blessings2You 05-27-2010 05:59 PM

Of course you can't make it go away, but a sincere simple apology "I'm so sorry...will you forgive me?" can go a long way. :hug:

karousel 05-27-2010 09:04 PM

I second what B2Y said. Tomorrow when it's a new day, apologize and see where it goes.

SallyC 05-27-2010 09:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by karousel (Post 658868)
I second what B2Y said. Tomorrow when it's a new day, apologize and see where it goes.

Yep, its the thing to do...Good luck..:hug:

Dejibo 05-28-2010 03:51 PM

I have been forgiven. My friend understood that it wasnt directed at her, and that I realized that I offended her, even if unintentional.

In true graceful style, she came right back to me. :hug:

Debbie D 05-28-2010 04:30 PM

Dej,
I've always found the hardest part is forgiving myself...make sure you do that, okay?:hug::hug:

karousel 05-28-2010 09:50 PM

I'm so glad it all worked out with your friend.


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