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Broken up, angry weepy and losing hope

I moved to Israel about 3 months ago .
My wife and I decided, or actually I decided I needed my family and the weather here is better than the cold winters of Canada.

My wife has been able to move on. I was hoping we could work on a long distance relationship.But she seems fine removed from our 15 year togetherness with comments like' we had problems before you got sick'

Reading the 'weeping' post has helped me see how 'normal' I am. Well in the crying area:cool:
I cry non -stop when we Skype. My numbness and headaches, and vision get worse but I can't seem to stop.

I was never a big crier. But this move in with my mom who denies I am a Lesbian but tells people I left a boyfriend in Canada. My wife who is cold and tries to show support just so I will stop crying.
My medical Insurance taking 2 months for approval

Being treated like a silly little selfish girl with mood swings who needs all her decisions made for her by her mother, is enough to send you to a very white room

Sorry I needed to vent about this and clarify to myself why I have been absent from the board.

I just needed to visit again and still believe its not all my fault

It's NOT all your fault. :D :hug:

It sounds like you are in a safe, sheltered place, right now...not a happy place, but maybe with a little reaching out, this can be your happy place, again.

Quit Skiping with old heartbreaker and try to move on.

Good wishes and prayers.

You moved away, there must have been more than the weather that made you want to leave. I believe you knew that your relationship with your (wife) was not going well for a while.

I say what Sally said, stop talking and weeping on Skye. What's the point? Start over in Israel and have a new and better than great life. Over is over. Stop beating yourself up. You have friends and family so go on from there.

You can't change the picture. She said the problems began long before you were sick. That may be her excuse to exit. It is hard to believe this now, but in time you will be glad that you made the move for your health, both emotional and physical.

You take care and no more weeping. Put a smile on your face, hold your head up high, and enjoy life. JMO

No advice, just hugs! cry all you want, my skin is waterproof, and my clothes will dry. Blubber all you want. I know exactly where you are coming from. Climb up here and tell me all about it, I promise to listen. :hug:

I'm sorry you're going through so much emotionally as well as physically.

I second the advice everyone else gave. Make yourself unavailable to her. Don't allow her to make you miserable. You decide when and if you speak. You deserve a chance to be happy. :)

you made a big move to shelter yourself from unhealthy stressors.
don't put yourself in a situation you know will result in hurt and crying.

you're #1. con't to work on building yourself up. the better you feel the stronger you will be.

kudos to you for making such a change.

I am all 'feklempt'
:hug:
you guys just made me smile while I'm crying..... breath out ...long long breaths.

My mind says you are right my heart just needs to catch up.
Thanks guys:grouphug: