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pooh_ac 11-12-2010 08:34 PM

Wonder thread #237
 
Just starting this to honor BMW's wish for the light to be shut out on the last one:grouphug:
Has antone heard from smae????:confused:

thelonely1 11-12-2010 08:42 PM

I wonder when Smae will feel well enough to check in with us... I hope she's sleeping soundly.

Alffe 11-13-2010 08:19 AM

I wonder how much longer this beautiful weather will last...

I wonder if my neighbors are sick of all the smoke I am causing with all the burning I am doing...:o

I wonder, but need to go check, that smae is posting on fbook but it may be her mother doing it for her....

I wonder if BMW can feel our love..and Goofy, I know you know....:hug:

da duck 11-13-2010 10:27 AM

I wonder if Alffe knows how ambivalent I am about burning leaves. It seems to most people to be the smell of the fall, but my mother suffered so very badly from asthma that we had to shut the house up every fall...plastic over the windows and no ac. No open doors. And most times she ended up in the hospital anyway.
I don't wonder how much people love it and I understand why...I just can't join in. It's like the debate about real or fake trees. No debate for us. We had no choice.
ButI wonder if Alffe knows..the good weather is over after today, I hear...so enjoy. And toast a marshmallow for me. I used to love that when I was a kid. Probably because I got to do it so rarely. LOL.
Wonder why I am melancholy today.

Alffe 11-13-2010 12:05 PM

I wonder if Ducky knows that I find no pleasure in burning the leaves...

I wonder that we live on an acre and 1/2..have huge old maple trees, oak and hickory trees, tulip trees and 100 white pine trees that I would have cut down if I could afford it....(dang pine needles!)

I wonder that the county will no longer pick up the leaves (we used to rake them to the road and the machine would come along and suck them up) so last year we bagged them....

I wonder that the landfill will no longer accept the leaves therefore our trashman will not pick up the bags...I mulch as many as I can, I have a compost pile but I also burn them...the township fire dept. came out and "approved" my burning container...I wonder how much longer we can continue living here as I'm not getting any younger...:confused:

I wonder if that's why our neighbors moved.....

I wonder if I can leave Ducky a hug...:hug: now that I've given her way too much information. :D

da duck 11-13-2010 12:42 PM

I wonder if I knew that you had a lot of trees, but all that "this guy won't take it and that guy won't take it" sounds like a huge hassle.
I wonder if I didn't mean to sound judgmental. I wonder that our neighbors are burning leaves today and it always makes me think of my mom. Maybe that is why I am a little sad.
I wonder if Alffe knows how much I appreciate the hugs....it helps.
I wonder if going out to dinner with my foster-sister ( her gift to the Kid) will bring me out of it a bit. LOL.
Oh! I wonder if I can tell you that Kat got the Kid one of those Ninja prep things you see on tv in the middle of the night. Not the big mixer one, but the smaller blender one. He has asked one for two years now, so I guess he was serious.
I wonder if you know how great a milkshake that thing makes, and how good that sounds right now. LOL. :-)
I wonder if I can say Hi, everyone and leave a hug...as I try to resist the shake.
:hug::grouphug::hug::grouphug::hug::grouphug:

Alffe 11-13-2010 03:13 PM

I wonder if the neighbors are glad ...it's rainning on my parade and on Notre Dame's game....

I wonder if Ducky knows that she doesn't have a judgemental bone in her body...:hug:

I wonder at the score of the IU/Wisconsin game.....:eek:

I wonder why I can't stop thinking about "shakes" now...I'm too suggestible....:D

I wonder when I looked up how to spell suggestible, the word suicide was right below it...definition: the act of killing oneself purposely..???purposely??? Intentionally....:confused:

smae 11-13-2010 04:59 PM

I don't really wonder about anything right now... but want to give lots of :hug: to my dear friend BMW. :( <3 Wish I had more to say or do that would make things better, but I am so sorry for your loss.

I want to thank those of who have wondered about me and the surgery. I am in a lot of pain and am having a rough day... but as some of you know, I really don't feel up to talking about things publicly here. I am looking for a new 'home' where I am more comfortable talking, BUT I do think about my friends here very often... and I still check my messages when I can and try to read to see how others are doing. I'm very thankful for the friends I have made here. =)

Actually, I do wonder... I wonder how a doctor can state that having a SCS implant is a dinky thing and there should be no additional pain. Alright... so having bone taken out of me and foreign objects placed inside of me... some incisions and lots of sore muscles and such is NOT normal with surgery? I think not. Surgery is surgery and having bone removed is no picnic. I wonder how some doctors got a degree when they seem to say such silly things that make me wonder if they ever attended medical school. Thankfully, it was just the on call doctor and my doctors are all very caring and understanding, so I am thankful for that.

I'll be around more when I'm feeling better, but again--mostly in private messages. Feel free to contact me that way. :)

:grouphug: to all.

Addy 11-14-2010 03:15 PM

I wonder if I can thank (((Pooh))) for starting this new wonder thread .... and tell you all I was away from the computer enjoying some heart-warming family times...

I wonder how sad I am to hear of your loss (((Marshmallow)))... I, too, had a phone call from my sis to tell me our Mom had passed away in her sleep... it is a rock-your-world experience :hug:

I wonder that so many of us here have lost our moms... and dads ....

I wonder that our leaves are still falling ... and that our city still can afford the cost of picking up leaves is they are in bio-degradable brown bags (which you buy).

And, at the same time, I wonder... if the city weren't picking up leaves, perhaps some hungry children might be fed ...

I wonder if I appreciate hearing the differences in our worlds...

I wonder if I can give Smae a gentle hug as I, too, wonder how a doctor can possibly understand the pain you are feeling! I must say I was happy when after having 2 c-sections, my doctor had to have one, too! :hug: great to hear from you!

I wonder how I'm sorry I missed saying happy b-day to the Kid! I know Mommy Duck :hug: will pass on my best wishes!

I wonder at how long it takes me to catch up on things when I've been busy with loving my Grand-Addy... :D Gosh, you should see the cyclone that hit my living room!

:sing: Addy

Abbie 11-14-2010 04:10 PM

I wonder that 2 of my little cyclones just left and are headed back to their northern home.

I wonder that the I even got extra hugs because I don't get to see them very much... that's what the 4yr. old told me as she ran back inside to hug me again.

I wonder that it sure was fun to see them and more fun to play with them...wow have they grown.

I wonder that two great minds think alike... right Alffe??!!??:D

I wonder if anyone has seen the movie The Boy in the Striped Pajama's?

I wonder how BMW is doing? I'm sure as good as she can be... oh how my heart is with her and her family.

I wonder how fast things change... yet stay the same.

:hug:
Abbie


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