do you ever look
 

at all the people in public with terrible posture and wonder why you have tos and not them,

i do all the time :mad:

:grouphug:
We are not alone. Some of them will do and half of them won't even have been diagnosed

because they don't use their arms as much as us, because they are not so stressed/have social stress.

One of those things, maybe a combo of environment, body history/use, and just certain body dynamics.
Like why do some get Parkinson's, MS, or any of the other conditions & diseases on the forums...

thnx all, i need to stop being so bitter about this

It's kind of like any other major loss in your life, we all go thru the stages of grief to some extent.

http://www.recover-from-grief.com/7-...-of-grief.html